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So nice guys always finish last?

It really looks that way sometimes Submitted October 23, 2022 at 12:29AM It really looks that way sometimes

Why do all of my casual encounters always ask me not to wear a condom?

For some quick background, I live in a large American city and participate in the casual sex scene. I typically meet girls on Tinder, go out for drinks and we go back to my place or theirs to have fun. I've only been doing this regularly for the past couple years, hooked up with ~20 women so far and I've noticed a trend - most of the girls I see ask me not to wear a condom. I find this peculiar because in the past when I was in relationships, my gfs always wanted me to wear a condom and would rarely ever have sex without it. Could any women elaborate on this, why would all of these women ask me not to use a condom? Is there some kind of ulterior motive at play here? Submitted October 23, 2022 at 12:49AM For some quick background, I live in a large American city and participate in the casual sex scene. I typically meet girls on Tinder, go out for drinks and we go back to my place or theirs to have fun.I've only been doing this regularly for the past couple years, ho...

Went on a date in another country. Went well but should I do something or wait until I move there?

I 24M was in Europe for a work trip a few weeks ago and also to see if i wanna move there. I decided I would do so within the next year. While there I matched with a girl. I used my nickname instead of my real name (I never intended on hooking up, just wanted to chat to people). Anyway vibes were good so we decided to meet up just for fun before I leave. It started really late at night because I had work during the day but i think the date went well. We talked until the bar closed well past midnight (which I appreciate as she works long hours and had work the next day) and neither of us looked at our phone at all. Anyway I walk her back, I had a call with a different timezone so had to call it a night anyway. We hugged and she said hope you come back soon for another trip. I texted her after saying i had a great time and she agreed and said i should let her know when i'm back. We then flirted for a couple days about going on a second date if we had the time. It died down eventua...

/u/Yandere_bt_tsundere on Is it aphobic to tell an asexual person that maybe they have will find someone they will enjoy having sex with?

Wow. You okay? None of the comments even said anything remotely similar to what you said... Chill sir. It's not a competition of who is being discriminated against the most. October 23, 2022 at 12:18AM

Tips for first date as a 21m with adhd? the lucky girls 29f for context.

The questions up above so I’m just typing this cuz I’m scared of auto delete I’m so excited for this date Submitted October 23, 2022 at 12:13AM The questions up above so I’m just typing this cuz I’m scared of auto delete I’m so excited for this date

/u/corinne177 on Relationship with asexual s.o. causing arguments in family.

"I had sex with your mother whether she wanted to or not or liked it or not, so why shouldn't everyone else be like that? Why should you have some kind of special circumstances?" 🤔 😅 Seriously though, I think it's emasculation thing by proxy, of like how some men won't neuter or spay their dogs because they feel it subtracts from them and therefore from them as an owner. Seriously it's a thing. I mean I'm not comparing your father to a dog, but just the mentality. October 22, 2022 at 11:40PM