I matched with him on hinge 3 weeks ago. He initiated our first 2 dates, and both of them were great! He says really lovely things like “where have you been this whole time??” And he’s even told me he likes me. A few days ago, we had sex for the first time and afterwords he mentioned that we could be perfect for each other! We’re still texting every day, but he definitely seems a bit distant :( I asked him if he wanted to hang out this Monday, and he told me he wasn’t sure because he hasn’t gotten his work schedule yet, and then proceeded to say “your days off make me sad. They almost never align with mine”. I replied with “I know. I’m typically off by 4 every day and wouldn’t mind hanging after work if our days off don’t match up.” He agreed. Today, I got off at 3, he was off today, and he asked me what I was going to do in my free time today, and I told him I didn’t have plans. I totally thought he was going to ask to see me, and he didn’t. What gives?? I don’t necessarily want hi...

Ok first off I’m not a super avid Reddit user, just to scroll through pewds’ subreddit and look at some funny stuff here and there, so if I’m not using the right lingo or whatever please correct me. Me [16M] and my girlfriend [15F] have been dating for 6 months and some now. She is amazing and I love her SO much. She is everything I look for. She’s smart, mind giving, super pretty, and she likes me a lot too... or at least that’s what she tells me. I’ve looked into this and apparently it’s called “relationship anxiety” but I believe have it for a reason. Before I start with my question, here’s some context to our relationship. We met through a friend in school. We were in the same grade and even had a classe with each other but my school is giant so I never really noticed her. One of her best friends introduced me to her when she had hung out with her the night before and she was on the bus in the morning. Blah blah blah we hang out with a group of friends and what do you know after...

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My (24) boyfriend (26) loves to be the center of attention, making other people jealous of him, being admired, and better than other people. We've been together for three years so I've accepted this part of his personality and I love him regardless. He came from clinicals (nursing students practicing on actual patients) today and one of the first things he said is that one of his classmates said he looks like Tarzan after he let his hair down. I got upset because I thought he let his hair down to get attention from females. I'm fully aware that I may be overreacting, which is why I'm making this post. I don't know if this is something that I have the right to be mad about. For some context, he has gorgeous long curly hair and I gas him up all the time. He absolutely hates the feeling of hair on his neck so he always wears it in a bun. Even a ponytail irks him because he can feel hair on his neck. I have to beg him to wear his hair down. In the past, he's made...

I wanted to ask people who have or are in a sexual relationship with a friend with benefits, what did you say to the other person to sleep with them and how it affected your relationship with them afterwards. Submitted October 10, 2020 at 12:33AM I wanted to ask people who have or are in a sexual relationship with a friend with benefits, what did you say to the other person to sleep with them and how it affected your relationship with them afterwards.

Our relationship is great and we have a lot of “sex.” Neither of us had any partners before; we are each other’s first. But every time I want to go all the way she says no (I’ll emphasize more). Also, she doesn’t feel comfortable undressing completely so she always has a shirt and booty shorts on during “sex” and prefers the dark. I admire her body, I tell her this so much. I feel like she’s afraid I’ll be disgusted but she’s wrong. No matter how i try to comfort her that her body is sexy, she still isn’t comfortable. I’m afraid to tell her that I enjoy our sex life but it’s gotten bland because we’re stuck to a routine. Same thing every time and she’s gotten comfortable with it because it’s fast and we both get our release. She says no to full sex because she wants it to happen in the moment. I feel it’s a bit ridiculous and when I think about it, it’s almost like I don’t arouse her enough for her to want to go the full way so it’s kind of sad. :( She assures me that she does want...

i want an app for international dating and something free if possible please any help would be amazing thank you Submitted October 10, 2020 at 12:05AM i want an app for international dating and something free if possibleplease any help would be amazingthank you

I just had the best sex of my life and i know there’s not turning back now this guy just knew everything, he is a soft dom and I love that. It felt too good!!! A huge plus is that we both love to talk on the phone about random stuff and have the same interests. And after everything we cuddled for like 2 hours it felt like I’ve known him forever.... Submitted October 10, 2020 at 12:20AM I just had the best sex of my life and i know there’s not turning back now this guy just knew everything, he is a soft dom and I love that. It felt too good!!! A huge plus is that we both love to talk on the phone about random stuff and have the same interests. And after everything we cuddled for like 2 hours it felt like I’ve known him forever....

THE PROBLEM: I can't give anything to men anymore emotionally or sexually. Not validation, not pleasure, not patience, not after years of having all my vulnerability, trust, patience, and openness used against me by men who listened to what I'd been through in the past, truly appeared to care about it, then proceeded to put me through the same chronic neglect I've already suffered through - which arose through giving guys chances to build trust, attraction, and intimacy, yet the outcome was that my feelings towards them on these issues decreased instead of increasing, before I ended it. THE EXPERIENCES: I tried to date guys I felt moderate attraction to, hoping to build a relationship, and each time it's gone downhill because of their lack of REAL response to my emotional and especially sexual needs. The worst part is after sharing my past experiences (saying 'I experienced this, so don't want to again') new guys I've tried to give chances to genuinel...

What’s the story behind the picture? October 09, 2020 at 11:27PM

I don’t like the title because it’s not a generational thing, there have been aces since time immemorial October 09, 2020 at 11:26PM

I think that accepting that I don't have to meet society's standards is something that will take time since apparently this belief is buried deep down in my brain lol I completely agree with you :) October 09, 2020 at 11:25PM