I've reported it to mods and the comments were removed, with gusto. They don't stand for it over on r/LGBT , jerks pop up but they get downvoted, reported, and removed pretty quick. July 07, 2020 at 11:59PM

One hundred push ups would drive the message more effectively! July 07, 2020 at 11:58PM

God damn it, I only got to pet 3 the other day July 07, 2020 at 11:46PM

Why don't we just admit that on a national scale (coming from the US South) we aren't oppressed. We meet a few assholes every now and then but at a systematic legal scale we are not oppressed. We need to focus less on our privilege of living in a society that exists to make sure everyone is equal and start focusing on the folks being publicly executed in the middle east. I wish the gatekeepers would stop this shit. Don't cause division in a community. We can literally save lives if we just put aside our differences for a common goal July 07, 2020 at 11:42PM

How to keep me. Buy me lego sets and feed me oreos. July 07, 2020 at 11:42PM

Thank you! July 07, 2020 at 11:27PM

Asexuals aren't oppressed...? like how many people coerce themselves trying to enjoy sexual activity because they can’t acknowledge their asexuality and think they're just defective or will like it at some point? How many people have their sexuality minimize by actual MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS(!!!) and told to keep trying? Saying asexuals aren’t opposed just shows how much we are. Its like modern sexism, the ”invisibility” for most people causes even more issues July 07, 2020 at 11:27PM

I'm so sorry that you experienced this but I'm glad I could make you laugh. July 07, 2020 at 11:25PM

No problem!! Etsy’s the best. July 07, 2020 at 11:21PM

Romantic attraction is a third axis not shown (MSpaint). If it changes over time then its a curve/area. Gender Identity is a different graph. Am I getting this right or should I go back to the conceptual stage? Like I would be [0,0,0] (i,j,k) where straight attraction is k=1, gay being k=-1. July 07, 2020 at 11:21PM

Thank you. July 07, 2020 at 11:20PM

Aha i am just saying that if you feel like you are a part of the lgbt then you are if you don’t u aint July 07, 2020 at 11:20PM

I don't have nipple piercings, but I have two tongue piercings and a lot of tattoos, both of these things are often considered sexy or "kinky" by others. That never really bothered me. I didn't do it for the sex appeal, I just love the way it looks on me. I feel more beautiful/aesthetic with them than without, so that's all I need to go through with it. I think I relate to you, I don't like being sexualized by others or wearing revealing clothes in public. But I do like feeling attractive and body-positive, so I put on nice underwear, I like wearing make-up: I have found my own comfort zone between any extremes of sexy or super casual. Random example, I like super feminine makeup but pair it with loose band hoodies and army boots. I think any kind of body modification is something you get for yourself. If you love the look? Go for it. You can reclaim 'sexual' things into something personal. I think especially a nipple piercing is super private, no o...

Honestly, a fair amount of us demis are fine with going by asexual. Like demisexual is what we are and identify as, but a majority of us recognize that microlabels can be difficult to deal with July 07, 2020 at 11:14PM

Beautiful July 07, 2020 at 11:11PM

I'd say go for it July 07, 2020 at 11:10PM

Thank you! July 07, 2020 at 11:09PM

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Today is our 10 year anniversary, we've been together 14 years. We met in College in my best friends dorm room. There were so many other times we almost met, but I guess we needed to wait. We lived in the same town, but went to different middle schools (where he met my cousins). We went to the same high school, but he moved away before sophomore year - 450 in the class, and we never met. In my junior year of HS my parents sent me on a trip to Europe through a teen traveling program. I begged to go to Australia, but they insisted Europe. In his senior year his parents sent him to Australia in the same program. Had I waited a year, and held my own to go to Australia we would have met ( he was still in our state, and the program was small enough that cohorts were state wide). But we didn't. My Sophomore year of College, I transferred to our State school. My close friend from HS went there too, she knew him from HS and he lived in her Dorm building. That is where I met him, in h...

I (37F) have an almost three week old baby and a lazy husband (34 M). The second night home, after a night of really bad cluster feeding and little sleep I finally convinced him, through tears, that I need more help. Even so, he tried to go to work instead the next morning even though he was on paternity leave (he was just trying to escape responsibility) and I had to beg him for help. He now says, “just ask me and I’ll do what you need.” That’s somewhat true but mostly he’ll just procrastinate or tell me ok. His job is not hard, he doesn’t slave away, but he did have to go back to work this week. He says he needs to sleep but he stays up in the living room watching tv and playing video games until 2 or so in the morning. He’s full of shit and I’ve told him so. He’ll change his behavior a day or so and go back to being lazy. He doesn’t understand or care how hard it is on me and me trying to explain it just falls on deaf ears. I don’t want to throw the baby at him when he first get...

Been dating someone for about 6 weeks. Currently non-exclusive so I don't know if there are other guys in the picture, but (last week) she did tell me she wasn't sleeping with anyone else, which I believed. Talking to/seeing though? I don't know. Anyways, we hungout Sunday, then last night SHE texted ME saying she'd love to make me dinner sometime this week. I agreed and suggested Thursday, which she agreed to. The next morning (literally 12 hours later), she asked if we could do Sunday instead. I'm free Sunday so I told her that was fine, but I can't help but wonder if this is either A) a "test" to see if I'll just agree to anything, or B) her putting other plans (possibly dates/other guys) I'm front of me suddenly. The last several weeks she's been very easy to schedule dates with and (knock on wood) never flaked. It just seemed sketchy that she went right to Sunday and didn't ask for Friday or Saturday--the "fun" days. ...

& wondering if there is a right/perfect time to start dating? I struggle with wanting to become fully independent/have a career before I start looking for someone. But I am not getting any younger and what if that doesn’t happen until I’m 35?!!! I might also want kids and my clock is ticking. All through college I stayed single because I wanted to focus on myself and didn’t want any distractions. I had Tinder/Bumble/Hinge just to hook up with guys and they never led to anything more. I’m tired of just hooking up and want to start meeting people I can have an actual meaningful connection with. Submitted July 07, 2020 at 11:36PM & wondering if there is a right/perfect time to start dating? I struggle with wanting to become fully independent/have a career before I start looking for someone. But I am not getting any younger and what if that doesn’t happen until I’m 35?!!! I might also want kids and my clock is ticking.All through college I stayed single because I wanted to ...

I've been unmatched by people two days in a row. Today I was called a sheep before being unmatched. He offered to go out for drinks, so it's not like I'm turning down situations where we would still be masked and keeping distance between us. I'm currently in Iowa and there are about 400 new cases a day, but many people don't seem to be taking the pandemic seriously anymore. I'm starting law school in the fall and the school obviously takes it seriously enough to put orientation and an intro class online, with classes currently scheduled in person every other week. I dont want to be sick right before taking on this enormous new challenge. Am I really being too paranoid, or should I just see this as dodging bullets? Submitted July 07, 2020 at 11:49PM I've been unmatched by people two days in a row. Today I was called a sheep before being unmatched. He offered to go out for drinks, so it's not like I'm turning down situations where we would sti...