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We’ve been dating for about a year and a half. He’s 37M, I’m 33F. He has been living with his mother since his dad passed away unexpectedly about 5 years ago. I was told this wasn’t supposed to be a long term thing as he intended on staying with her temporarily to help with finances and “man things” as they were healing. I wasn’t around in the beginning so can’t speak to it, but fast forward to today the place is a disaster, it’s insanely cluttered and she can’t afford the mortgage or utilities on her own, nor can she maintain and take care of it without him. Also they are essentially enmeshed. She is constantly, texting, calling, giving him “honey-do” orders, cooking for him, doing his laundry and is always always there. She has massaged his shoulders when I wasn’t doing it fast enough or hard enough, asked him to remember her login info and calls him daily to ask for it. When he’s at my house, she calls or texts to see what he’s doing and when he’ll be home because she’s cooking fo...

I'm in my late teens and a virgin, but I wanna have sex really bad but I'm waiting for the right person, point is I've had a LOT of time to explore and know some of the things I like, dominance and submission. I'm definitely a sub. For example, I want a guy to bully me maybe not in the traditional way maybe like tease me is a better way to say it. Something like calling me a crybaby I want them to make me feel little and helpless overall. I guess I like feeling like a damsel in distress to a man that I trust. this probably sounds so weird. BUT I also want them to cuddle me when I'm crying or whining even if its something stupid or for no reason. Tell me that I'm being such a good girl for them. Punish me when I'm being bratty even when it's not sexual I wanna feel dominated by them in everyday life etc, etc I think I have an authority kink? I've never been close enough to someone to tell them these things the only relationship I had was only for a w...

I masturbate every day but I've never had the urge to have sex with women and I know somethings not right. I have had sex with women when they've initiated and I enjoyed every minute but I can't understand why I don't try harder. It's killing me, I know I'll enjoy it and I really do want to have a fuck buddy or girlfriend asap Submitted April 20, 2020 at 09:41PM I masturbate every day but I've never had the urge to have sex with women and I know somethings not right. I have had sex with women when they've initiated and I enjoyed every minute but I can't understand why I don't try harder. It's killing me, I know I'll enjoy it and I really do want to have a fuck buddy or girlfriend asap

Posted in r/relationship_advice , but I think a more sex positive community would provide better insight for me.... Just like the title says. I’ve (24F) been seeing a guy for a little while now (24M). We’ve been hooking up for a long time but recently got a little more serious. We were joking around and drinking the other day with our mutual friends and we were talking about the best sex of our lives. The guy I’m seeing mentioned that we have great sex, but I wasn’t his number 1. In fairness, he’s not mine either, but for some reason it bothered me SO MUCH. I know it’s childish to be upset about something like this, and that’s why I’m asking Reddit. I’m very sexually experienced and have had a lot of people tell me, unprompted, that I’m far and away the best lay they’ve ever had. I KNOW that it doesn’t matter at the end of the day, and we still have good sex, and we have a great relationship in every way.... but this feeling of needed to be “the best” is eating away at me and I feel...

I find that I love hairy, beard type men or metrosexual types. I cannot help it, maybe it’s because they seem to put a lot more work into their aesthetic. Examples https://instagram.com/yesutoro?igshid=flo5wem1tp7l https://instagram.com/franco_semplice?igshid=q6v0ki5bnmqa https://instagram.com/danedebruin?igshid=iaoibjh0byra They’re all so yummy looking to me, I wish I could find more straight men that were absolute beef cakes like the ones above. Hell, I sometimes wish I was a gay man so I could actually have a chance. I know I’m not totally alone in this, but could there be some deeper meaning behind my feelings? Submitted April 20, 2020 at 09:50PM I find that I love hairy, beard type men or metrosexual types. I cannot help it, maybe it’s because they seem to put a lot more work into their aesthetic.Exampleshttps://instagram.com/yesutoro?igshid=flo5wem1tp7lhttps://instagram.com/franco_semplice?igshid=q6v0ki5bnmqahttps://instagram.com/danedebruin?igshid=iaoibjh0byraThey’r...

My boyfriend (20M) and I (almost 19F) have been together for almost 3 years and we’ve been having sex since I was 16. We’ve been living together since I was 17, we have a pretty healthy sex life and have sex maybe twice a week if not more. Sex is nothing crazy, very “vanilla”, but last night we had sex longer than usual that was a bit harder. I’ve had pain before after sex but I haven’t been this sore the day after (plus usually I’m sore in my genitals if I ever am after harder sex). My ribs are sore when I move or laugh and it’s even worse in my lower abdomen, it’s starting to be pretty annoying. It’s like I can feel the entirety of my uterus/cervix just ACHING. Should I be worried or is this just something that happens? Sex last night wasn’t crazy, maybe a little more passionate and attentive than usual lately but that’s all Submitted April 20, 2020 at 10:51PM My boyfriend (20M) and I (almost 19F) have been together for almost 3 years and we’ve been having sex since I was 16. ...

I’ve been recently trying to figure out my sexuality and am very confused. I’ve been in abusive relationships in the past and since then I have no motivation to want to have sex with men and every time I try and date one I am bored and become extremely uninterested very quick. I’ve also been finding myself more and more thinking about the possibility is being with a woman or how a relationship with one would be. I also have taken an interest to lesbian couples on TikTok I’ve always been one of those, “I can appreciate a girls body but I don’t find them sexually attractive” type of person. But I’m wondering if all my thoughts are because in my heart there is something else going on. Has anyone ever been through anything like this before? I’m not looking to be told I am gay or I’m just confused. I just want experiences and advice please! Submitted April 20, 2020 at 10:54PM I’ve been recently trying to figure out my sexuality and am very confused. I’ve been in abusive relationships...

I’m 25M and gf is 25F. Up til now in our relationship we only fucked each other but over time we both kinda started admitting we really wanted to fuck a hot guy with a big dick lol. And since she loves dressing me up/feminizing me we figured we’d do it together to minimize jealous and such. Both of us def prefer black guys as well. Last night it finally happened and it went soo well. We found a guy on tinder and chatted a bit to see if he was a match. He was really tall, maybe 6’5” and in good shape. He came over and we started flirting on the couch and rubbing his crotch a little. He pulled his huge dick out and before we knew it me and my gf were blowing him together. Me on balls and her on shaft. Then he took turns bending us over and fucking us while the other one encouraged each other. When he fucked me, he’d stare at me so intently and hold my face to his. I felt totally emasculated but in the hottest way. And knowing my gf was fingering herself as it happened made it that much...

Just a guy would love to have new ideas 😁 Submitted April 20, 2020 at 10:54PM Just a guy would love to have new ideas 😁

Hi guys. My period is a bit late and I have a concern. I started exclusively seeing someone new the past month. I'm not on the pill and he didn't use condoms, careless I know. Regardless, I've been sexually active with others while on the pill and using other precautions. In the past with previous partners, they would pull out and then I or he would jack him off right after pulling him out of me and he'd cum within 5 seconds. With this new guy I'm seeing, when he pulls out, it comes out immediately without him or I touching it. Is he being reckless and leaving it in too long, or is that common, or does he just know his body well and when to pull out? Thanks a ton. Submitted April 20, 2020 at 11:43PM Hi guys. My period is a bit late and I have a concern. I started exclusively seeing someone new the past month. I'm not on the pill and he didn't use condoms, careless I know. Regardless, I've been sexually active with others while on the pill and usin...

As the title says, I'm looking for a safe platform for hookups completely no strings attached... At all, but I also kind of don't want to be murdered or kidnapped by some sketchy anonymous dude. So if any body has some advice thatd be great Submitted April 20, 2020 at 11:46PM As the title says, I'm looking for a safe platform for hookups completely no strings attached... At all, but I also kind of don't want to be murdered or kidnapped by some sketchy anonymous dude. So if any body has some advice thatd be great

I'm not sure if this belongs in this subreddit. But has anyone ever wax their s/o or been waxed By them? And how'd It go.my boyfriend just likes to help me with waxing (he's okay with me not waxing) but I personally like to and he's extremely willing to help. Submitted April 20, 2020 at 11:51PM I'm not sure if this belongs in this subreddit. But has anyone ever wax their s/o or been waxed By them? And how'd It go.my boyfriend just likes to help me with waxing (he's okay with me not waxing) but I personally like to and he's extremely willing to help.

Okay so i’m posting this just to see if i’m the only one. I’m 22, and haven’t done anything in YEARS. Ive only done it once in my life and it just seems like something I can live without. I’ve had guys interested, and for some reason I just have no interest in doing things like that. I know 1 thing is I just don’t wanna get pregnant, but like is it normal to just not want to have sex for so long?? Like i’m talking about dirty talk and all that. I just have no interest in any of that stuff. Am I crazy?? Is there a way to overcome this?? Submitted April 20, 2020 at 11:55PM Okay so i’m posting this just to see if i’m the only one. I’m 22, and haven’t done anything in YEARS. Ive only done it once in my life and it just seems like something I can live without. I’ve had guys interested, and for some reason I just have no interest in doing things like that. I know 1 thing is I just don’t wanna get pregnant, but like is it normal to just not want to have sex for so long?? Like i’m talki...

I'm a 21 female engaged to my 24 m fiance. Long story short he doesn't enjoy having sex very much. It was different when we met, but things have really died down. Even when we do have sex he has trouble staying hard bc he overthinks. At the end of the day I think I spend a good 25% of the day thinking about sex. Every time I try to initiate something it always gets turned down or postponed. In return I get very irritated and cranky which is unfair but sometimes I feel like my sexuality is choking me, like I'm never satisfied. What can I do? Submitted April 20, 2020 at 11:56PM I'm a 21 female engaged to my 24 m fiance. Long story short he doesn't enjoy having sex very much. It was different when we met, but things have really died down. Even when we do have sex he has trouble staying hard bc he overthinks. At the end of the day I think I spend a good 25% of the day thinking about sex. Every time I try to initiate something it always gets turned down or postpon...

Now let me preface this by saying Im a 23yo guy and Ive never had a relationship or sex but someone pointed this out to me and now I feel like Im genuinely insane. So whenever I have a crush on or am actually in love with a girl I just do not sexualise her as much, the occasional wank thinking about her involves more focusing on her voice, and whenever I talk or think about her I describe her as cute or sweet and other more endearing and innocent things, never as hot or sexy, and that’s when I realised it. Sex isn’t a part of love for me, love is something that makes you comfortable enough to have sex, they are otherwise unconnected, love is something pure and in your head and gut where as sex is in your body and the deep need to reproduce and feel please, for example:As much as I fantasize about it I couldnt really sleep with that insanely hot chick I went to highschool with, if I could do it sober with anyone it would have to be my best friend who I trust and love enough to be so ...

Like it says. Put up a bunch of pics on Facebook, and would love comments, likes, and friend requests. I'm jeni kathleen, from tucson, az. Thanks you Submitted April 21, 2020 at 12:05AM Like it says. Put up a bunch of pics on Facebook, and would love comments, likes, and friend requests. I'm jeni kathleen, from tucson, az. Thanks you

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Hi, longterm lurker first time poster here. TLDR at the bottom. I (22F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (23M) for 4 years. For these 4 years we have had penetrative sex maybe 20 times max. Its simply too painful for me to cope with on a regular basis, I tense up and can't seem to relax and it has become a cycle whereby it is so uncomfortable that we don't bother and I give him oral or a handjob but when we do try it is so uncomfortable etc etc The best way I can describe the pain for me is like a burning and stinging sensation. I have been to my GP for a physical check and there is nothing wrong in that department. I have tried having a glass of wine to help relax but I've still been caught up in my head and I don't want to have to rely on alcohol! In the last year or so I have noticed a drop in my libido, whether this is because of these issues or not, I'm not sure, I just rarely feel horny. Ive been to see a relationship counsellor who suggested w...

I’m so scared to think about the person that I have sex with ever having sex with someone else. At the same time I definitely don’t want to have sex with a virgin. I mean I’m a 32 year old male and I have only been with two women, but I know how to communicate and give someone what they want instead of what I think they want, and I would like to be with someone who can also make me feel good physically and mentally/emotionally. It makes my skin crawl to think about how I have been with more than one woman and I feel like I’ve been ruined. How do I feel like sex is okay with my shame and the fear that the other person has also had sex, probably with more people than me, maybe with multiple people at once, or sexually abused. I don’t know why I’m so scared of it, I’m not religious or anything. I just feel like sex should be sorta special and the more you dilute it with other people, the less special it feels to me, like I’m worth no more than those other people. I feel stupid like so...

I didn't know where to ask this but here seemed reasonable. I am a 17yo female and when I masturbate I get no pleasure. It has always been like this since I can remember, I try using my fingers nothing, I bought a vibrator nothing. I have tried everything from anal to clitoral stimulation it just doesn't work. I'm scared because I have read things about people in my situation who are much older saying that they have never felt good when having sex or masturbating. Will it be like this when I loose my virginity?? Should I see a doctor? If any of you guys could help me understand what is going on I would greatly appreciate it. ps. I've never posted on Reddit so don't hate on the format. Submitted April 21, 2020 at 12:10AM I didn't know where to ask this but here seemed reasonable.I am a 17yo female and when I masturbate I get no pleasure. It has always been like this since I can remember, I try using my fingers nothing, I bought a vibrator nothing. I have...

I have been wanting to stop watching porn for a while. i am currently writing a speech on “why you shouldn’t watch porn” and was reading about some of the cons that go with watching porn. i usually only watch porn if i wanna masturbate. i would probably never watch just porn alone. so is it cheating if i masturbate but not watch porn? the reason i wanted to stop is because i feel like it may be screwing with my relationships with women. i feel like i’m a really awesome person, but sometimes i just get utterly bored with people and i’m not sure if it’s because it’s part of my personality or because of this porn stuff. because you know, it’s like you can get a high of pleasure from the whole experience and it makes you less motivated since you’ve just peaked in pleasure? i’m not sure if that makes sense but i feel like you might understand. i don’t necessarily think that these things are bad, just that i’ve gotten into a bad habit and that maybe i should at least stop the porn. i read a...

My husband and I have had our fair share of issues. We have worked really hard to work through them. I often felt like I was never heard and that I put him before myself and he never returned the gesture. Well today I sent him a text a work and told him that I wasn’t myself. I have anxiety and I have had a giant ball of it on my chest for over a week. I haven’t left the house in over a month. We have a precious one year old. My husband works in a pharmacy so I stay home with our son and let him do any errand. I know not leaving the house and taking care of my tiny human 24/7 has taken its toll on me. Whenever I texted him, he said I love you and I got you. I apologized for being “needy” and told him I didn’t understand what was wrong with me. He said he understood and there was nothing to apologize about. Then, he came home to tell me that he worked it out to where he is taking vacation days the next two days to help me out. He’s sending me to his batcave all day tomorrow so that wa...