What do you think of Porn and Masturbation? i might have to quit

I have been wanting to stop watching porn for a while. i am currently writing a speech on “why you shouldn’t watch porn” and was reading about some of the cons that go with watching porn. i usually only watch porn if i wanna masturbate. i would probably never watch just porn alone. so is it cheating if i masturbate but not watch porn? the reason i wanted to stop is because i feel like it may be screwing with my relationships with women. i feel like i’m a really awesome person, but sometimes i just get utterly bored with people and i’m not sure if it’s because it’s part of my personality or because of this porn stuff. because you know, it’s like you can get a high of pleasure from the whole experience and it makes you less motivated since you’ve just peaked in pleasure? i’m not sure if that makes sense but i feel like you might understand. i don’t necessarily think that these things are bad, just that i’ve gotten into a bad habit and that maybe i should at least stop the porn. i read a stat (not sure if it’s true) that people who watch porn for more than 11 hours a week are considered addicts. i would say that i could definitely fall into that. it doesn’t seem like a lot, only a little more than an hour a day but this kind of freaked me out. i’ve started trying to improve myself with working out and i’m so addicted to the feeling of becoming better. so please tell me if you would mind if your partner was watching porn and if you think i’m cheating if i masturbate less frequently and stop porn? not sure what to do at this point. thanks for any help you can give to me.

Submitted April 21, 2020 at 12:10AM

I have been wanting to stop watching porn for a while. i am currently writing a speech on “why you shouldn’t watch porn” and was reading about some of the cons that go with watching porn. i usually only watch porn if i wanna masturbate. i would probably never watch just porn alone. so is it cheating if i masturbate but not watch porn? the reason i wanted to stop is because i feel like it may be screwing with my relationships with women. i feel like i’m a really awesome person, but sometimes i just get utterly bored with people and i’m not sure if it’s because it’s part of my personality or because of this porn stuff. because you know, it’s like you can get a high of pleasure from the whole experience and it makes you less motivated since you’ve just peaked in pleasure? i’m not sure if that makes sense but i feel like you might understand. i don’t necessarily think that these things are bad, just that i’ve gotten into a bad habit and that maybe i should at least stop the porn. i read a stat (not sure if it’s true) that people who watch porn for more than 11 hours a week are considered addicts. i would say that i could definitely fall into that. it doesn’t seem like a lot, only a little more than an hour a day but this kind of freaked me out. i’ve started trying to improve myself with working out and i’m so addicted to the feeling of becoming better. so please tell me if you would mind if your partner was watching porn and if you think i’m cheating if i masturbate less frequently and stop porn? not sure what to do at this point. thanks for any help you can give to me.