Yeah, but it is still canon. July 27, 2022 at 12:05AM

Well yes but actually no? Or... Well no but actually yes...? July 27, 2022 at 12:05AM

I think that talking about what each party expects of the relationship and making clear about what boundaries you have is important. I think it's unfair for the other party if you start the relationship without making your sexuality clear. The other party may expect some intimacy and that's a normal thing to expect in a romantic relationship, be clear if you don't want it and explain why. The other person has every right to decide if those boundaries are something they're willing to accept or not. July 27, 2022 at 12:03AM

Yeah, I'm more relief to know that too, that was a question I had months ago July 27, 2022 at 12:01AM

r/apothisexual come join us!! July 27, 2022 at 12:01AM

So I was absitent for 7 months than somehow I always end up convincing myself hookup culture is okay and that I can have a sneaky link or friends with bens. That in my head I can say we're together even if we're actually not cause we're messing with each other and that it could last years and it will be like I'm in a relationship or well it could lead to something serious. So I had sex again for the first time and it's been hard on me more emotions this time and knowing I'm gonna get feelings very badly I always end up getting hurt. Before this I was in hookup culture for about 6/2 years I wanted out than just like I want out now but my brain always convinces me I can just do it one last time I'm not happy when I'm in it but sex makes me feel loved and I get validated in big ways. How can I stop for good I can't feel real emotions now and sleeping with someone first night ever meeting them is no big deal to me now. When it really should be and like ...

I was realizing I was ace while my ex-boyfriend transitioned. Other things broke us up, but that would have too eventually, because it was very important to him to be sexually desirable to his partner as a man, when it had never been important to him to be sexually desirable before. There was no anger or blame, we were just wrong together. July 26, 2022 at 11:28PM