just wondering if thats actually true or not - every guy ive had sex with has been able to cum with a condom on, even the ones who say they cant do once i tell them i wont have sex wo a condom. just very intrigued Submitted May 17, 2020 at 12:06AM just wondering if thats actually true or not - every guy ive had sex with has been able to cum with a condom on, even the ones who say they cant do once i tell them i wont have sex wo a condom. just very intrigued

I belong to a conservative family and society but now I have moved. I was always taught that sex is after marriage and you will get into a lot of trouble if you are not at virgin on your wedding night. This was so ingrained into me that I’ve had anal with my ex but not sex because I was ‘supposed’ to be a virgin. Now that I know better and I have let go of a lot of that brain washing, I’m embarrassed to be a virgin. I’m turning 25 and I’m still a virgin. I want sex and i want to date. In the western modern societies, being a virgin is not necessarily a good thing. You are considered inexperienced. I’m afraid the next guy I meet will judge me for it. I have half a mind of getting a vibrator and getting it over with. I’m afraid of meeting a guy and having this conversation with him ‘oh by the way I’m a virgin ouch sooo’ I cringe thinking about it. I need advise. Some people say wait for it and do it with someone who matters and to me that’s a looooong ass wait and I don’t want to wait. ...

Like the title says, I've (21F) been with my boyfriend (21M) for like 1 year and a half, I always wasn't ready for sex I didnt even see it as an option, as I was always afraid of getting pregnant and getting in trouble it seemed to me like some scary idea, He was always the one having a high sex drive and trying to understand me while i did cut off all the chances of having sex with him, and we fought over it a lot because he proved he loves me and said that it's too hard for him to be patient about it, but then I came home, and i begun rethinking my ideas and the more time passes by the more i am thinking about sex, i tried masturbation and it just seems like it doesn't work for me anymore and i need something more than that, i keep imagining myself in bed with him and i really can't focus on anything else, and I want to know if my feelings are normal and if i should go for it when i see him next time Submitted May 17, 2020 at 12:10AM Like the title says, I...

I'm an 18 year old Male and my gf, also 18 has told me no to anal. I'd say it's my fetish but I've never actually done it so I think I get turned on by the thought of doing it. She said she's tried it alone and that it just doesnt feel good, so I'm happy to accept that she doesn't want it and it's not the end of the world. My problem is, when we have normal sex, firstly condoms make me feel less and sometimes I lose erections because it becomes less sensitive. So I really don't know how to firstly get more turned on by normal sex and bjs (rather than anal) and is there a way for me to stop myself from getting turned on by anal? Any help would be appreciated. Submitted May 17, 2020 at 12:13AM I'm an 18 year old Male and my gf, also 18 has told me no to anal. I'd say it's my fetish but I've never actually done it so I think I get turned on by the thought of doing it. She said she's tried it alone and that it just doesnt feel ...

We’re both in our early twenties and live together for a bit over a year now. At the beginning of our relationship the sex was amazing and our libidos matched perfectly but that changed about 8 months ago and we started to have less and less sex. We haven’t had sex in over 2 months now. He has gained some weight in the past year so and has been telling me that that’s the reason why he doesn’t want to have sex as well as being stressed, tied and even that he may have a porn addiction. When I asked him how often he watches porn he said 2-3 times a week which in my opinion is not that much but I’m not a porn addiction expert so I don’t know. Today he told me that honestly he just too lazy to have sex. He still get boners around me, cuddles with me but don’t want to have sex. I honestly have no idea how can I help him but I know for sure that I miss it so much. :/ Submitted May 17, 2020 at 12:14AM We’re both in our early twenties and live together for a bit over a year now. At the...

So I just had sex for the first time, and didn't feel like I imagined it would, just some backstory I did masturbates a lot the past 3 months for some reason, like two times a day minimum, I've had hand jobs before and b*******, and it felt really good I mean really good, but this time I feel like I've been losing sensation in my penis because of how much I masturbated, even when she touched it at first I barely felt it, even though I was super horny and I had a really strong erection but I didn't feel the sensation I felt when I had hand jobs before, is it excessive masturbation? should I stop?, I stopped masturbation for a week already, because I'm going to see her again and took me a really long time to ejaculate the first time so I don't want it to happen again, is the death grip thing real? An insight would be really appreciated thanks Submitted May 17, 2020 at 12:14AM So I just had sex for the first time, and didn't feel like I imagined it would...

It's always blown my (M28) mind that people will sext before actually doing the deed in person. It's always strictly been something I'll do only if I've been with someone intimately already, since I then know that 1. The gal is actually into me in that way, 2. I have some idea of what turns her on, and what doesn't, and 3. just general comfort. But to flirt or exchange nudes over text before even meeting in some cases, is just so far from my reality I can't believe it actually even happens. Some people have completely online, flirtatious relationships and it's bizarre to me how it comes about. I always thought "sliding into DMs" was a joke about women getting annoyed by guys constantly badgering them on social media, but I will frequently hear that's how some people will meet. It's always been my assumption that most women consider it completely inappropriate and crass to bring up sexual topics before meeting up. And then just to be sure,...

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Do guys care about a womans age or not? I have been told that once a woman reaches 30 she can no longer compete with the 20 yo. Let me hear from thr experiences of women And the preference of men. Submitted May 16, 2020 at 11:57PM Do guys care about a womans age or not? I have been told that once a woman reaches 30 she can no longer compete with the 20 yo. Let me hear from thr experiences of women And the preference of men.

Why is it always “ it doesn’t matter how hot you are if you -insert negative personality trait here- I won’t date you “ and not “ it doesn’t matter how ugly you are if you -insert positive personality trait here- I’d date you”. The people asking for help on this are primarily physically unattractive folks who need advice on what else they can do/be outside of their appearance to be appealing, how does telling them that hot guys with bad personalities don’t succeed either helpful? Genuinely asking Submitted May 16, 2020 at 11:59PM Why is it always “ it doesn’t matter how hot you are if you -insert negative personality trait here- I won’t date you “ and not “ it doesn’t matter how ugly you are if you -insert positive personality trait here- I’d date you”. The people asking for help on this are primarily physically unattractive folks who need advice on what else they can do/be outside of their appearance to be appealing, how does telling them that hot guys with bad personalities do...

Been ghosted again for no reason. I can’t be arsed any more. Why do I fucking bother? Submitted May 17, 2020 at 12:10AM Been ghosted again for no reason. I can’t be arsed any more. Why do I fucking bother?

Thank you very much. I appreciate this response a lot! May 16, 2020 at 11:59PM

Thank you! :D May 16, 2020 at 11:58PM

If you want really easy Bread(duh) Butter Minced garlic, like from a jar Melt the butter mix into the butter some of the liquid from the garlic Brush into pieces of bread Bake til toasted (If you have a little garlic salt as well never hurts, lol) May 16, 2020 at 11:48PM

Fuck, I'm happy for you! May 16, 2020 at 11:42PM

Of course you can vote. May 16, 2020 at 11:38PM

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Thank you, I have been reading through those and it has helped a lot. I'm still nervous. It doesn't help that anytime I try to talk about anything uncomfortable I usually end up crying... May 16, 2020 at 11:29PM

yeah, same May 16, 2020 at 11:29PM

YES. Action does not equal orientation. I'm ace as hell and I still have sex now, and the world can fucking deal with it May 16, 2020 at 11:26PM

Nono you're fine this is for me to figure out aha May 16, 2020 at 11:25PM