Alright, so I've been friends with Francis and Rob (both 32/M) for 20 years. In that time, Francis has never invited us to hangout with any of his other friends, nor other mutual friends we have. We've only ever hung out with Francis one-on-one or as the three of us. A few months back, Francis and Rob had a falling out because Rob was tried of being teased and put down by Francis on a constant basis. Francis apologized, saying it was a joke. Rob didn't it was a genuine apology. I told them I wasn't going to relay between them. They haven't spoken to each other since. Additionally, Francis stopped speaking to me too. The dust needs to settle, so I've been fine with this. Rob and I are still friends. We've spoken about the Francis situation to a great extent. Rob points how Francis would only invite him or us to hang when he needed a favor. He also reminds me of all the times Francis didn't pull his weight during projects we've worked on together. ...

Reposting because the previous post got deleted for not including our ages. Hi everyone, I've recently found myself in a tricky situation and need some advice. Me and my partner have been together for six years now, and have gone through a lot together. During the past 4 years or so, we have been travelling a lot to a city in Europe that we both regard as almost like our second home. Now, there is a guy who's a regular at the bars and events we often go to. Until our most recent trip last weekend, neither of us had talked to him, but let's just say he's quite a stand-out character and we have often jokingly made comments about him always hanging out at the same places. He has always been flirting with my girlfriend from afar – but we have simply regarded is as something funny. So: fast forward to last weekend. It's Friday night. We were just leaving a club when this guy appears and has a short conversation with my girlfriend for the first time. On Saturday, I ...

Hi everyone. I write this because I don't know what else to do. I have been in a relationship for more than 2.5 years. The thing is that I've always suffer from depression/anxiety and this is deteriorating my relationship. My boyfriend says anything to me and I read too much into it and then we start fighting and things like that. When I get really mad I insult him and then I feel terrible, but I do it trying to make him understand what I am feeling. My boyfriend has helped me a lot to grow as a person and I've changed a lot, for good, but I still have to improve more. The thing that worries me is that sometimes my boyfriend asks me to please change because I hurt him, and sometimes he says that he thinks about breaking up. This would kill me because he is the love of my life and my emotional issue has ruined too much good things already. He isn't perfect, all our problems are not because of my emotional instability, but I feel that the real problem is me. I don't ...

One of my parents(referring to them now on as K) had an affair about a decade or so ago. I was the one who had to break the news to the other parent(referring to them now as Q). Both told to keep it a secret from my sibling, i was a young teen at the time and it was pretty rough. Eventually, my other sibling was told about the situation when they were older. I'm sure everyone in the family could have handled the situation better and these things are complicated and very painful. Now I'm in my early 30s, my parents are in their 60s. And Today when visiting their house, I look over at K because they're holding their phone a little strange. K had returned from a christmas function and were drunk AF. I see they're on FB messenger talking about meeting another person (referring to them now as Y) and sending kisses. i don't recognise the name. Although from a distance i manage to piece together the name, and i see that they are not friends on FB. Unusual. So i keep an e...

I’m coming to reddit for this because I RARELY get into disputes with my mom, we’re best friends and I love her, very rarely do I get legitimately upset with her. I’m in town from college and earlier today she told me we were going to dinner and looking at christmas lights with my old childhood friend and her mother, whose one of my moms long time best friends. I have not spoken to my old friend in years, we were like family but we just drifted. I used to always be skinny and confident about my appearance but over the last year or two I’ve gained weight and I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been (probably like 148-150) and I’m currently really insecure about it. Especially seeing people who haven’t seen me since the days where I was skinny, it’s embarrassing. They’re all living their best life and I’m a potato, I just know they’d notice the weight gain and it makes me really uncomfortable so I told her no, I was not comfortable going and that was that. She then turned it around on me saying...

I’ve been dating a guy for a few months now. We haven’t had that many in-person dates since we’ve both been traveling a lot, but the dates we have had have been amazing. I definitely feel myself catching feelings but we haven’t had the DTR talk yet, and I wouldn’t say we text regularly. I’ve stayed over at his place after one of the dates. About a week ago, we went to his place again, and after we did the deed, he told me that he needed to be up super early but otherwise he’d have wanted me to sleep over. I was a little caught off-guard (I wasn’t planning on staying over, but just the fact that he said it immediately after was a bit harsh to me). I texted him later saying I had a great night with him etc, but I just wished that he had given me a heads-up beforehand (aka I essentially felt like he was kicking me out right after sex); I was super open and nice when I worded it, not making it sound like I was pissed or anything, because I wasn’t. I was just trying to be communicative. H...

My boyfriend and I had dated for about 2 years when I started noticing a change in him. Towards the end of the relationship, I couldn't remember the last romantic thing he had done for me. He stopped visiting me at school (I live about an hour away from our hometown during school) and we would only see each other when I would come home every couple of weekends. He wasn't interested in going on dates (even if I planned them) or really doing anything other than sitting in his basement together and watching TV/smoking weed. I felt like no effort was being put in on his side and I suffered from constant anxiety to the point where I took it out on him. I would ask him a million times if something was wrong, and every time he would say no, you're being crazy. He had gotten progressively more distant to the point where I invited him up to a weekend at my school and he just... didn't show up, after saying that he would come. It was a really difficult decision to leave conside...

Throwaway account. My partner came down with a cold a few days ago. I've tried to look after him as best I could but my immune system is rubbish so even a cold would leave me bed bound for a week, so I've tried to stay away from him as best as I can as at the moment my body cant handle being ill with a cold (I also have fibroyalgia and having a pretty intense flair up). He doesnt seem to understand and as a 'joke' has been sneezing and coughing in my face. I would understand if this was an accident but he purposely turns his head towards me when he sneezes/coughs and he doesnt cover his face. This morning I realised my throat was really sore and my whole body was aching beyond belief. I also get globus sensation (the feeling that there's a lump in my throat) when I'm ill and its caused me to throw up multiple times today. Now I'm struggling to get out of bed because I'm in agony from my joints and I cant keep any food down. I'm so angry because he d...

Today my boyfriend said the L word. I pretended i didn't hear it because I didn't know what else to do. Later on, he asked me if I heard him say something earlier, and I acted like I didn't know. I feel awful. We're both 17. I just don't feel comfortable saying it yet. Anyone else deal with this? Submitted December 18, 2019 at 12:06AM Today my boyfriend said the L word. I pretended i didn't hear it because I didn't know what else to do. Later on, he asked me if I heard him say something earlier, and I acted like I didn't know. I feel awful. We're both 17. I just don't feel comfortable saying it yet. Anyone else deal with this?

We met on the first day of class, it was her first class in college. She came in late at sat at the back of the class. I realised that she didn't have the sheet the prof had handed out, so I got up went to the front and brought her back a sheet. She thanked me with her eyes. I didn't know then that she could never have gone up to the front of the class by herself. I didn't know that she thought I was her knight in shining armour. I didn't know that she moved her chair to be closer to me, hoping I'd ask her out. I wouldn't know for months because I was a dummy. But one day I did ask her out and I found out everything, and then I loved her as much as she loved me. She's gone now, and I don't know if she still loves me the way I love her. I wish I was still there to be her knight, her prince. Submitted December 17, 2019 at 11:39PM We met on the first day of class, it was her first class in college. She came in late at sat at the back of the cla...

I envy my prior self. She had your love. Your care. Your affection. Your patience. She ruined it by wanting more. What more could you have given? You gave all you could, why did she want more? Why was she not content? Why was she so stupid? Why? Now all she can ask is why? She ruined us, I ruined us. I miss you, the you that loved me affectionately, relentlessly and undoubtedly. The you that loved to spend time with me, be with me, look at me. The you who thought I was beautiful. The you who made me feel like I mattered. I killed your love. I scorched it. I wore it down piece by piece. Now I’m left with a hallow version of our love. I’m no longer the source of your happiness. I’m no longer the first person you think about. I’m no longer the most important person. I’m no longer someone you want to spend time with. I’m no longer someone you love. I know this. Being with you is painful, being without you is worse. Either way I lose. I don’t know what do. You...

I love a girl in my school I will do anything for her I would walk through hell just to see her smile i and I really love her. Submitted December 18, 2019 at 12:19AM I love a girl in my school I will do anything for her I would walk through hell just to see her smile i and I really love her.

Hey all, So I have been abstinent 2 years; I left my abusive marriage back at the beginning of this year (almost a year separated now). I found a lawyer back in March and filed papers in August but have not had court yet. Anyway, I’m in debt & I’m staying at my parents. I have a part time job and 2 kids under age 10. I have spent a lot of time beginning over a year ago to really cultivate and build up my own self again; time with friends and family etc. But I’m getting the urge to meet someone. Someone to go to the movies with, go to events etc. NOT looking for one night stands or a guy to support me/meet my kids or fall in love anytime soon. The problem is I have not dated in more than a decade. I’m trying an app but finding it weird. I spoke w a guy or two who would like to meet in person. I’m very self conscious about my post baby vagina, especially with men who see how young I look and then see I have an episiotomy scar/wrinkly vagina. If I had no debt from the divorce, I wou...

I had sex with this guy I just met and when we were going at it doggy style he started braiding my hair. I thought that was way to weird to have actually happened and maybe I just imagined it but a few days later he mentioned it and asked if I liked it. Submitted December 17, 2019 at 11:55PM I had sex with this guy I just met and when we were going at it doggy style he started braiding my hair.I thought that was way to weird to have actually happened and maybe I just imagined it but a few days later he mentioned it and asked if I liked it.

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In my opinion sex education should be taught as unbiased as possible. My sex Ed teacher in high school kept showing bias throughout like shaming women for using the plan b pill and advocating for absence until marriage. To me this is a really bad idea since it kind of teaches teenagers especially females to feel guilty about having sex and being sexually active. Submitted December 18, 2019 at 12:05AM In my opinion sex education should be taught as unbiased as possible. My sex Ed teacher in high school kept showing bias throughout like shaming women for using the plan b pill and advocating for absence until marriage. To me this is a really bad idea since it kind of teaches teenagers especially females to feel guilty about having sex and being sexually active.

What do I do? Submitted December 18, 2019 at 12:06AM What do I do?

I (18F) have been ane extreme introvert for a long time. And after just getting out with a long distance relationship with the asshole of the century. I want to explore my horizons, I want to meet other bi curious girls in my area, but I'm really not having much luck, what can I do? Submitted December 18, 2019 at 12:08AM I (18F) have been ane extreme introvert for a long time. And after just getting out with a long distance relationship with the asshole of the century. I want to explore my horizons, I want to meet other bi curious girls in my area, but I'm really not having much luck, what can I do?

My boyfriend and I are both 17 (I'm a girl & he's a boy) and have been dating for 8 months. He is all around great, amazing, sweet, kind and really thoughtful and super attractive (not that it matters but still). So I slept over at his house for the first time and it was a little weird, for what I was expecting at least. His parents left earlier in the day to my boyfriend's grandparents and wouldn't be back till the next day, I fully expected to have sex with my him. Not only did he seem uninterested in sex I wasn't even sure if where I going to sleep at one point, I mentioned that I would sleep in his bed and he looked shocked for a moment then sorta played it off as it was the plan all along. He's usually super affectionate always giving me hugs, kissing me and cuddling with me and just pretty touchy in general. We both got in his bed and he just turned over and went to sleep, nothing not even a kiss. We slept on opposite sides of the bed and every time I...

See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frenulum Vulvular tissue : In females, genital frenula include the frenulum clitoridis of the clitoris and the frenulum labiorum pudendi (aka fourchette ) where the labia minora meet at the back. ​ The tile questions I vaguely remember hearing that the back of the tongue feels smoother to a woman/less irritating than the front of a tongue for the most sensitive/vulnerable to pain parts like the clitoris. Has that been true for you? Submitted December 18, 2019 at 12:13AM See https://ift.tt/38RwdlC tissue: In females, genital frenula include the frenulum clitoridis of the clitoris and the frenulum labiorum pudendi (aka fourchette) where the labia minora meet at the back.​The tile questionsI vaguely remember hearing that the back of the tongue feels smoother to a woman/less irritating than the front of a tongue for the most sensitive/vulnerable to pain parts like the clitoris. Has that been true for you?

***I Also posted this in r/relationship advice, but I wanted more input, so I'm posting here, too. I've got a friend that I'm pretty sure is being emotionally manipulated by his girlfriend, and I'm not sure how to tell him... Any time he asks for time alone with her, she claims that he is trying to take time away from her two year old son; even if he is asking for lunch while her son is at daycare or dinner after her son has gone to bed. Any time they argue she throws his past relationships in his face: "if this was X you wouldn't have said that". She doesn't ever tell the whole truth at once (immediately after having sex one day) "I might have HPV", and after he got upset and stewed about it for two weeks: "well, I had one PAP that came back unusual, but I've had two or three since then that came back completely normal" ** this woman was physically and mentally abused and repeatedly raped by her ex husband, so there is a...

Hello Reddit. I rarely ask questions on here but this is something that I really need advice on as I feel my relationship depends on it. So my boyfriend and I have been together for like a month now and have started having sex. Obviously to be safe I ask him to use condoms as I don't take birth control (it's not very common where I'm from, the side effects) and they prevent STIs. However my boyfriend does not like using condoms. If I don't demand it he will never even consider it. He says he can't cum with them on and he really never has cum with it on while having sex. He always stops to beg me if he can take it off when he's close to coming, but I just can't let him go in raw. I'm too afraid of falling pregnant and/or catching diseases. The worst part is, I don't even feel comfortable with a condom either! After a while it starts to hurt me and I even feel tempted to just let him in raw. But I know we need to be safe. The fact that he never as...

The other day my wife and I were talking about sex and things we’d like to do and things that turn us on. Out of no where she asked if it was ever hot to me, or if I had ever seen girls put things in their vaginas and then pushing them back out. I told her I’ve seen a few examples of this before, back when I watched porn. It was never a thing to me in the past, but it sounds like something that would be a lot of fun to explore with her and super hot! I’ve been thinking about it for days! I assume this would be classified as stuffing? She brought up the idea of using ping pong balls, but I don’t like that due to the material, and being so light weight I don’t want them to get stuck (this would all be vaginal). I’ve thought about kegal balls or honestly even large anal beads as both of those would be metal or silicone. Most of these have a string though, I’d really prefer loose balls of varying sizes. Does anyone have any suggestions? Also since I know someone will probably mention it...