I've known about this for a while... Only recently had the courage to buy and wear mine! March 06, 2021 at 12:01AM

Second this! March 05, 2021 at 11:58PM

Demonizing allos is not especially swag. March 05, 2021 at 11:57PM

Oh yeah, that works too. I knew the black factored in somehow :) March 05, 2021 at 11:57PM

"Am I asexual with a romantic attraction to men (what would that even be called?!) or just traumatised. Or can you be asexual due to trauma as well?" You don't mention your gender, but that would be called either heteroromantic asexual or homoromantic asexual depending on how you identify. The concept of sexual orientation, and especially asexuality, is still evolving. There's no official definitions that consistently used by everyone. It's really up to each person to determine what they identify as. If you feel like the term asexual fits you, then it's entirely valid to consider yourself asexual. If it feels more correct to think of yourself as just straight or gay but suffering from trauma, then that's also completely valid. It's fine if you want to consider yourself questioning. It's fine if you want to identify under the broader queer umbrella which includes asexuality but also includes any other form of abnormal sexual response. It's fi

Finally the perfect explanation March 05, 2021 at 11:50PM

I love this so much!! March 05, 2021 at 11:47PM

Good for you! March 05, 2021 at 11:43PM

He was asking if I was old enough for legal sex March 05, 2021 at 11:39PM

Thank you so much! I've been having so much trouble with finding stuff about asexual people, so I'm really glad you are fine with it! March 05, 2021 at 11:38PM

Go fuck yourself March 05, 2021 at 11:37PM

This was me last night March 05, 2021 at 11:35PM

Aw thx by the way I read the comments on that post and whoa March 05, 2021 at 11:35PM

I am a pan-romantic ace and my wife is a trans pansexual c: March 05, 2021 at 11:35PM

“I bet five dollars that I know exactly what this shape is.” “I now owe somebody five dollars.” March 05, 2021 at 11:31PM

Same here March 05, 2021 at 11:30PM

In my mind it kind of sounds like he’s saying “oh you will change your mind” But idk March 05, 2021 at 11:27PM

My western ass can only hear Mario theme and Yoshi going ham with catalyst fans. Gave myself an embarrassingly good laugh. March 05, 2021 at 11:27PM

Also, romantic attraction to the same gender is called Homoromanticism. And attraction to the opposite gender is called Hetoromanticism. March 05, 2021 at 11:24PM

germany March 05, 2021 at 11:24PM

Answering the easy question first, yes, asexual with a romantic attraction to men is a thing. Heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic and so on. If you never or rarely feel sexual attraction, then you are ace. Is it from the trauma, or would you have been ace even without the trauma? No one knows. If asexuality matches your identity right now, then use it. If things change later in your life and it no longer feels like the right identity, that’s OK. March 05, 2021 at 11:23PM

I have honestly no idea, but either way, it doesn't matter. Asexuality is about not experiencing sexual attraction, and not about if you we're born or became one from abuse. If you do really think that you don't experience it, then your Ace. And no one can tell you otherwise. (Also, I'm really bad with words, but I'm extremely sorry for what happened to you. It really grinds my gears that some people can be such monsters.) March 05, 2021 at 11:22PM

I’m a Demi and I wear a ring! I actually got one that has a little diamond to represent demisexual specifically:) March 05, 2021 at 11:21PM