My understanding is it's essentially latex but without proteins that cause the allergies. Submitted March 31, 2020 at 11:55PM My understanding is it's essentially latex but without proteins that cause the allergies.

I wank regularly and just recently started lubing a finger up with some hand cream and fingering my anus whilst masturbating. Could this do any harm and, since I'm straight, should I enjoy this? When I do it, it feels really good but afterwards I feel really ashamed about it - if it's normal why the shame? Submitted April 01, 2020 at 12:07AM I wank regularly and just recently started lubing a finger up with some hand cream and fingering my anus whilst masturbating. Could this do any harm and, since I'm straight, should I enjoy this? When I do it, it feels really good but afterwards I feel really ashamed about it - if it's normal why the shame?

I’m so awkward so i have a simple question... how do you infer to someone/ask them if they wanna sext? Lol does anyone else just feel weird in the beginning but then youre fine once its happening? Submitted April 01, 2020 at 12:13AM I’m so awkward so i have a simple question... how do you infer to someone/ask them if they wanna sext? Lol does anyone else just feel weird in the beginning but then youre fine once its happening?

I don't know if I can describe my problem properly but I will try. I have a problem with my boyfriend when it comes to our sex life. We do have sex (like once a week) and he even initiates sometimes, but he seems so passionless and doesn't really show that he desires me. Like during the day time he never touches me sexually, even our kisses are not passionate (we don't even french kiss anymore, just touching lips for a second with open eyes), when we cuddle It's also really affectionate but not sexy at all. He said that sex is not so important for him. We usually have sex when he wants to please me (It's more important for him that I come than his own pleasure) or when he has erection out of nowhers so he kinda just wants to use that because he is hard already. He also asks me if I want to have sex out of nowhere and as casually as talking about the weather when we do something totally unrelated. I don't understand that because we are together not that long ...

Is it normal to be attracted to girls sometimes and sometimes you couldn’t care less (Male 18) I have been suffering from depression a long time during my adolescence and I would like to know whether it is normal for a heterosexual male to not care at all about girls most days. It’s just during my depression, I saw sexuality as something wrong that i shouldn’t take part in, so I am wondering whether there’s nothing wrong, am I gray ace, is it remnants of the depression, or is puberty not over yet and I should be expecting a change later. Submitted April 01, 2020 at 12:26AM Is it normal to be attracted to girls sometimes and sometimes you couldn’t care less(Male 18) I have been suffering from depression a long time during my adolescence and I would like to know whether it is normal for a heterosexual male to not care at all about girls most days. It’s just during my depression, I saw sexuality as something wrong that i shouldn’t take part in, so I am wondering whether there’s no...

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One thing I noticed over the years is that some girls’ boobs are heavier and harder/fuller to touch while others’ are lighter and softer. Why is this? Submitted April 01, 2020 at 12:29AM One thing I noticed over the years is that some girls’ boobs are heavier and harder/fuller to touch while others’ are lighter and softer. Why is this?

For a while I don't find myself initiating sexting with my finance only because I am more of a visual person, reading sexy messages after a while doesn't add fuel to the fire especially since she always wants to sext or steer conversations into sexual ones. We have talked about this many times throughout our relationship and in her previous relationship, she had sent explicit photos but didn't like the feeling of herself being leaked out like that. Of course, before we started dating I had a bit of a high school horndog phase where most of the women I flirted with or sexted always involved sending pictures back and forth of each other. Once my fiance started dating and become sexually active I yearned for the day she would send me explicit photos but that's when she told me she never would after she did it in her previous relationship. So in the meantime, we sext with words. There have been times where I was turned on by her words but that's once and a while, not e...

Hi fam! This post is intended to be a discussion of sorts... How has your dating life changed to deal with social distancing rules? I've seen posts on Tinder where guys are offering to share thier toilet paper with me. I'm regularly using 😷 in chats. I told one guy I couldn't meet up with him because of the social distancing rules and he told me that was a dealbreaker. Okkayy.... Anyway, I'd love to hear from y'all. Did you update your profiles? I've seen multiple guys on Tinder who are in a face mask and I can't decide if its responsible or if that's a sign they're a hoarder? Are video chat dates weird? I don't know. Work sent me home and I finally have free time to date and I'm already not great at the dating anyway, and I have no clue how to deal with this new wrinkle. Thoughts? Submitted March 31, 2020 at 11:55PM Hi fam! This post is intended to be a discussion of sorts... How has your dating life changed to deal with social dista...

Waiting till it's over / not at all? Park dates? Going for a walk? What are your thoughts on a first date venue? Let's hear some ideas! Submitted April 01, 2020 at 12:06AM Waiting till it's over / not at all? Park dates? Going for a walk?What are your thoughts on a first date venue? Let's hear some ideas!

Ah, I get that. I've also been thinking about myself in the LGBT+ community a lot recently, mostly due to second-guessing myself... and I would certainly say I am too :) April 01, 2020 at 12:23AM

Well he also didn't explain it correctly. But it still doesn't change the fact that people are making fun for no reason ... April 01, 2020 at 12:22AM

It's likely that she knows it's a pride flag but may not know which pride flag. At the very least she probably suspects it has a coded meaning. It's up to you if you want to open a dialogue about it. April 01, 2020 at 12:22AM

Is the ace ring custom content? It looks really good! April 01, 2020 at 12:19AM

on, no, no worries. ... it's just something that I too have wondered you know. since, well, I know I'm a weirdo (... in a lot of senses). April 01, 2020 at 12:15AM

They're honestly just disrespecting everything relevant to this tweet. I'm demi myself, also a demi lovato fan, and I don't need this.. I can get wanting to be funny, but this is just disrespectful. April 01, 2020 at 12:10AM

Have you considered calling child services anonymously to see what they say? Pose things as a hypothetical question, tell them what’s happened to you and ask what options “someone in that position” should do. April 01, 2020 at 12:10AM

Right...so in that case there really shouldn't be a problem with there being a way to distinguish 0 attraction from the rest of the community, right? It's like how there are separate gay and lesbian flags, even if some people use the rainbow flag to represent that, because in reality, it represents the whole community and doesn't immediately mean gay/lesbian. The ace flag is also unspecific, representing the whole ace community, and doesn't really specifically mean 100% asexual, even if some people use it that way. April 01, 2020 at 12:07AM

There's a Demi person on there who thinks it's a "tumblr made up term" and that their sexuality is actually a preference. Seriously, are they just trying to distance themselves from demisexuality to avoid the erasure and abuse it suffers or are they actually just allo but saying they're demisexual to avoid backlash for being bigoted, either way it's wrong. It reminds me of people like my brother who are somehow gay and homophobic at the same time, and try to earn rep with homophobes by being "one of the good ones" April 01, 2020 at 12:06AM

Probably, this seems pretty accurate. April 01, 2020 at 12:01AM

oh indeed, and I never meant to say you were! just on the topic of the difference between romantic and non-romantic :) sorry if I made you uncomfortable! April 01, 2020 at 12:01AM

Oh gosh, I love Todd's arc in BJH. I'm glad you identify with our community! This is why representation is so important to us, it helps people become aware of these concepts and their own feelings. So long as you're comfortable with the label and you feel it helps you, you're very welcome here! My inbox is open if you have any questions. :) April 01, 2020 at 12:01AM

This confirmed my ace-specness thank you March 31, 2020 at 11:57PM