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/u/Cybergor on I think I've figured out what sexual attraction is. It's what I feel when I look at this cake but for people.

Holy lord in heaven! January 13, 2020 at 12:12AM

/u/assimilateborg on Can a Mom ask a question or two?

I was 49 when I first searched the word asexual on the internet. January 13, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/MrRefrigerato on Ignorance at it’s finest

Well the comment is half right, nonbinary is trans at least. Asexual is LGBT+ though, otherwise what do they think the A stands for? January 13, 2020 at 12:02AM

/u/Fredd8 on I think I've figured out what sexual attraction is. It's what I feel when I look at this cake but for people.

H-hey at least put an NSFW filter on it! My heart nearly couldn't take it! January 12, 2020 at 11:56PM

Accurate depiction

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This explains it all!

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Nice guys after getting rejected

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Advice on talking to her

So I came back from a party the other night and there was a sticky note with a number under my door. I texted the number and it was a girl on the floor above mine and she eventually came down to my room, along with 4 or 5 other girls, because we had a pretty funny conversation. We talked for only around 5 minutes but she was really cute and seemed pretty cool. I would love to get to know her more because she did seem pretty fun. I asked if she wanted to go to a party last night and she seemed interested, but she said she was with friends and they didn’t want to go. She did mention that she’d be interested in going to a party with me next weekend. I was wondering if I should just wait until next weekend to really talk to her, ask her to go on a a date this week, or just text and ask for her snap or something. Not sure if this is the right place to be posting this, but i’m sure you guys could give me some good advice, thanks!! Submitted January 12, 2020 at 11:59PM So I came ba...

Romantic Ring

So I'm getting my girlfriend a ring for her birthday. It's going to have my first name initial on it (I'll give you my first name until I can give you my last type deals), and it will also have a birthstone on it. Would it be more romantic to have the ring have my initial and her birthstone, or to have my initial and my birthstone? Thanks everyone! Submitted January 13, 2020 at 12:03AM So I'm getting my girlfriend a ring for her birthday. It's going to have my first name initial on it (I'll give you my first name until I can give you my last type deals), and it will also have a birthstone on it. Would it be more romantic to have the ring have my initial and her birthstone, or to have my initial and my birthstone? Thanks everyone!

vaginal odor very strong scent

Hi, Not sure if im posting in the correct area its my first post on Reddit. So, I have a new Girlfriend and her Vaginal odor is very strong and a major turn off for me. I've noticed my ex girlfriends were cleaner after sex my current girlfriend doesn't seem to clean that area after fooling around even if she does get very excited in that way. Im not really sure how to bring it up... So my thinking was is there any type of product I could use that would maybe clean the area over time without really telling her? sorta like maybe some type of lube or something that would take care of this issue? Not that we need any lube but I might be able to use that without her asking too many questions. and yes.. I know that all girls have their own odor but this is on a whole other level. I know that this is a weird post but im dead serious about this. She is a great girl and I dont want to have to breakup with her over this. But its so unpleasant it even effects my erection. ​ *subject...

I want to dominate my boyfriend

Okay so I (f18) reallllyyyyy want to dominate my boyfriend (m18) for his birthday in a week. I’ve been fantasising about tying him to his bed and blindfolding him and torturing him (lol). I have so many ideas of what I would do to him and I get so nervous being around him because it’s all I think about when I see him now. I literally want to give him the night of his life and leave him in pain the next day. Any tips from fellow female dominators/ men who have been dominated how did you like it/ how could have it been better? Submitted January 12, 2020 at 10:44PM Okay so I (f18) reallllyyyyy want to dominate my boyfriend (m18) for his birthday in a week. I’ve been fantasising about tying him to his bed and blindfolding him and torturing him (lol). I have so many ideas of what I would do to him and I get so nervous being around him because it’s all I think about when I see him now. I literally want to give him the night of his life and leave him in pain the next day.Any tips from...

Having trouble with partner to even start sex and when we do, he barely finishes

So myself and my partner have been together for about a year and everything has been fab when it’s came to the sexual part of the relationship. However, throughout the relationship there’s been several times where he hasn’t ejaculated during sex and I’ve always wondered if it’s to do with me, though he reassures me it isn’t and that he wants to have sex but he can’t. Yet, since the beginning of the month, we’ve been having sex less and it sort of feels like he doesn’t want to anymore? And if we do it’s only because he feels like he has to I guess? I’ve tried multiple ways of approaching it, making out, different lingerie, toys, just asking ‘do you want to shag?’ Etc. However, he always is hard and says he’s horny but then says ‘can we leave it till later?’ But then later never happens? I just wanna know if there’s anything I can do to help because each time I’ve brought it up he seems to get annoyed and I’m not sure if I’m just the problem Submitted January 12, 2020 at 10:54PM S...

might have done something really stupid

me and my bf just had sex. it was the heat of the moment and he didn’t have any condoms on him but both of us didn’t mind considering our minds were else where. he pulled out about 2 min before he came(away from me) i was expecting him to take the condom off but he didn’t. i’m on birth control and i don’t miss any days. what’s the possibility i’ll get pregnant? Submitted January 12, 2020 at 11:51PM me and my bf just had sex. it was the heat of the moment and he didn’t have any condoms on him but both of us didn’t mind considering our minds were else where. he pulled out about 2 min before he came(away from me) i was expecting him to take the condom off but he didn’t. i’m on birth control and i don’t miss any days. what’s the possibility i’ll get pregnant?

What is your favorite non nude picture to send to your guy, ladies? I prefer the towel selfie

Maybe with a hint of nipple! I know there has to be your favorite non nude pictures to send or even favorite nude pic to send! What is your favorite to send, ladies? Submitted January 12, 2020 at 11:52PM Maybe with a hint of nipple!I know there has to be your favorite non nude pictures to send or even favorite nude pic to send! What is your favorite to send, ladies?

Things to talk about over text?

So my friend and I are constantly horny and we are in an odd situation of friends with benefits but we don’t really have time to have sex. Our solution is whenever we’re horny we text over messages such as Instagram or iMessage. The problem here is we’ve run out of ideas of things to talk about, any ideas? Submitted January 12, 2020 at 11:54PM So my friend and I are constantly horny and we are in an odd situation of friends with benefits but we don’t really have time to have sex. Our solution is whenever we’re horny we text over messages such as Instagram or iMessage. The problem here is we’ve run out of ideas of things to talk about, any ideas?

Do you delete your compromising pictures of previous partners when with a new girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you expect the same from your new partner?

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Ideas for him using sex toys on me [F]?

All I can think of is him putting a dildo in me, or using a vibrator on my clit. What else can he do with toys to me? Submitted January 12, 2020 at 11:59PM All I can think of is him putting a dildo in me, or using a vibrator on my clit. What else can he do with toys to me?

I can’t vaginally orgasm but I can with my clit. But what’s the difference?

I’ve been reading online tonight about women orgasming through the g-spot in their vagina - I’ve never been able to do this. The sensation is described as “an all-body sensation where the vaginal walls pulsate and (the orgasm) is longer lasting.” Whereas the clitoral orgasm is described as “often felt on the surface of the body, like a tingly feeling along your skin and in your brain. Felt in short bursts.” With that being said, I’ve never had an orgasm using the g-spot inside my vagina but my clitoral orgasms are exactly what the vaginal orgasm is being described as: lasts 15-30 seconds, sensation through my body and down to my toes (like that epic part of the yawn that lasts a split second) and my vagina pulsates. So... what gives? What’s going on inside my body? Am I wired up differently to everybody else? Also how can I vaginal orgasm? I want to see what I’m missing out on. My boyfriend reckons I just can’t do it, being 21 I would have “figured it out already”. Sources from the ...

Partner gets headache after orgasming?

My partner (31M) will get a terrible headache after orgasming. We have sex for a bit, between 45 minutes to an hour. He has an autoimmune disease that deals with his spine, and also had a previously broken jaw from a car accident quite a bit ago. We have yet to determine why he gets these insane headaches where he’s near tears after it every time. We’ve either chalked it up to dehydration, holding in his breath, his autoimmune or the previous broken jaw. I think a lot of it is due to stress. I would like to say 9 times out of the month we have sex, at least 7 of them result in a headache or on the verge of the headache itself where he gets the tinge of it. Has any one else had experiences with this? What has alleviated this, for you or your partner? I (32F) have only had 1 sex induced orgasm but it was never like his, and his are described as a “thunderclap”. Submitted January 13, 2020 at 12:04AM My partner (31M) will get a terrible headache after orgasming. We have sex for a b...

I'm a bit of a late bloomer and I'm gonna most likely get my first blowjob later this week. How do I not fuck it up?

I'm nearly 25, and I was in two relationships with terribly prudish exes. So while I'm not a virgin, I haven't ever had anyone go down on me ever. And now, I'm dating this gorgeous and amazing girl who promised that while I have to wait a little longer for more intimate fun, a little head wouldn't be out of the question if our next date goes off well. Naturally I'm over cloud nine and I want to make sure I don't fuck it up. How do I not fuck it up? Submitted January 13, 2020 at 12:07AM I'm nearly 25, and I was in two relationships with terribly prudish exes. So while I'm not a virgin, I haven't ever had anyone go down on me ever. And now, I'm dating this gorgeous and amazing girl who promised that while I have to wait a little longer for more intimate fun, a little head wouldn't be out of the question if our next date goes off well. Naturally I'm over cloud nine and I want to make sure I don't fuck it up.How do I not fuck ...

Help with fucking urinary infections

Hello, right now I'm on a treatment for my most recent urinary infection. I've had several infections since I started to have sex (5 months ago). Wtf is wrong with me? My gyn said is normal because my body is adjusting to sex but I've never heard that before. I'm feeling so so bad because I love having sex but I hate the consequences. Do you guys have any advice for me? So I can prevent future urinary or vaginal infections?? Submitted January 13, 2020 at 12:07AM Hello, right now I'm on a treatment for my most recent urinary infection. I've had several infections since I started to have sex (5 months ago). Wtf is wrong with me? My gyn said is normal because my body is adjusting to sex but I've never heard that before. I'm feeling so so bad because I love having sex but I hate the consequences. Do you guys have any advice for me? So I can prevent future urinary or vaginal infections??

Lost my orgasm during pregnancy. Help!

My husband and I have been married 5 years and I am 17 wks pregnant with our first child. I was raised in a strict conservative religion and it took me a long time to he comfortable with my body/sexuality. It wasnt until 2 years into our marriage that I actually started to have orgasms during sex. Holy damn, was that a game changer! During my first trimester we very rarely had sex because I felt so tired, nauseous, bloated, and generally not into it. Second trimester hormones are totally different; as soon as I leave work the only thing on my mind is sitting on his dick. Here's the problem: I am having a really hard time achieving an orgasm now. I haven't had one since before I got pregnant. This is leaving me feeling very sexually frustrated. My husband is doing his best, but I'm not sure he is actually turned on by my changing pregnant body, as I see him keeping his eyes closed more now when he is pleasuring me. And I have to be the one to initiate every time. I think...

How did you change after seeing porn for the first time and how did you change after being physical with another person change?

A lot of us these days, I think, come into our sexual identities and are alerted to our turn-ons, fetishes, etc through porn. I experienced a pretty significant change in my libido and changes in the specifics of my ideal sexual fantasy after I was physical for the first time. The physical sensations and desires seemed to be different than I had initially imagined them and I had to reevaluate my sexual needs. Has this been true for anyone else? Submitted January 12, 2020 at 10:45PM A lot of us these days, I think, come into our sexual identities and are alerted to our turn-ons, fetishes, etc through porn.I experienced a pretty significant change in my libido and changes in the specifics of my ideal sexual fantasy after I was physical for the first time. The physical sensations and desires seemed to be different than I had initially imagined them and I had to reevaluate my sexual needs.Has this been true for anyone else?