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TL;DR Boyfriend and I share videos of ourselves masturbating on our little "spank-bank" but I struggle to reach an orgasm from just watching videos of him jerking off. Hey! Using a throwaway account here. Okay so my boyfriend [23M] and I [22F] share videos of ourselves masturbating on our little "spank-bank" if you will, as an alternative to watching porn. However I struggle to reach an orgasm from just watching of him jerk off and play with himself in the videos, and I just want to know if this is normal / any advice? We have been together for about 4 years and are very open about everything in our relationship, so I recently brought this up to him and he said that me not being able to cum from watching his videos makes him feel incredibly insecure and makes him feel like I'm not attracted to him. I have tried to reassure him that I am attracted to him but I believe he is still upset about it. I am actually very attracted to him (physically & emotiona

So I'm 22 kinda pathetic and somehow I ended up in bed with a really pretty girl the problem being is that I couldn't finish I always worried that when the time came I wouldn't last but I never thought I couldn't go, so I'm not sure if I'm still a virgin or not Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:28PM So I'm 22 kinda pathetic and somehow I ended up in bed with a really pretty girl the problem being is that I couldn't finish I always worried that when the time came I wouldn't last but I never thought I couldn't go, so I'm not sure if I'm still a virgin or not

I have a fantasy of being laid out in front of a line of men who all take it in turns to fuck whichever hole of mine they want to and then cum on different parts of my body. How the hell would I be able to do this safely? Or is this destined to be a fantasy of mine forever? Ideally I’d want 100 guys but I think that’s a logistical nightmare :( 30-50 would do. Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:32PM I have a fantasy of being laid out in front of a line of men who all take it in turns to fuck whichever hole of mine they want to and then cum on different parts of my body. How the hell would I be able to do this safely? Or is this destined to be a fantasy of mine forever? Ideally I’d want 100 guys but I think that’s a logistical nightmare:( 30-50 would do.

I’m a straight male in my mid 20s who’s experimenting with some anal play. I tried using my finger a couple of times but couldn’t really find the sweet spot/prostate to the point where it felt really good. I see some people use a plug but would that really get the job done since it would have to go somewhat far in? Or would a tiny personal dildo work better that sorta has a curved end like a bent finger? Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:33PM I’m a straight male in my mid 20s who’s experimenting with some anal play. I tried using my finger a couple of times but couldn’t really find the sweet spot/prostate to the point where it felt really good. I see some people use a plug but would that really get the job done since it would have to go somewhat far in? Or would a tiny personal dildo work better that sorta has a curved end like a bent finger?

My bf and I were lightly sexting this morning He told me “well I don’t really get that that hard during oral lol” I said “what do you mean?” He said “well I always get scared you gonna bit it off lmao” Idk if he’s being serious or what but he gets an orgasm every time I go down on him Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:41PM My bf and I were lightly sexting this morningHe told me “well I don’t really get that that hard during oral lol”I said “what do you mean?”He said “well I always get scared you gonna bit it off lmao”Idk if he’s being serious or what but he gets an orgasm every time I go down on him

Usually during ovulation I get extremely horny and it’s basically like I’m in heat for a few days. But for the last two months, whenever it rolls around (according to my tracker app), I just feel normal. I lubricate more than usual, but there’s no increase in arousal. Does anyone know why this might be? Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:42PM Usually during ovulation I get extremely horny and it’s basically like I’m in heat for a few days. But for the last two months, whenever it rolls around (according to my tracker app), I just feel normal. I lubricate more than usual, but there’s no increase in arousal. Does anyone know why this might be?

Me and my boyfriend have wanted kids for a while but we cant at the moment because we are long distance. Im on the pill and we already dont use condoms. Hes recently expressed a real desire to role play this kink a bit and i would love that too but im a bit lost as to where to start? If anybody has been in this situation and has some advice for where i can start with dirty talk/clothing/any other role play tips, or has had some fun with actually conceiving, id love to hear from you! Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:52PM Me and my boyfriend have wanted kids for a while but we cant at the moment because we are long distance. Im on the pill and we already dont use condoms. Hes recently expressed a real desire to role play this kink a bit and i would love that too but im a bit lost as to where to start? If anybody has been in this situation and has some advice for where i can start with dirty talk/clothing/any other role play tips, or has had some fun with actually conceiving, id love t

I will be erect the whole time while performing oral on her but when it’s time for me to penetrate I just lose my erection. Any reason why ? Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:54PM I will be erect the whole time while performing oral on her but when it’s time for me to penetrate I just lose my erection. Any reason why ?

So, I (25F) was in a relationship of 7 years and my ex was my first man. I had sex only with him, but we broke up a few weeks ago and I had this opportunity of getting laid with this other guy. We had a few drinks (mostly vodka), started to make out and stuff. But, his penis didn’t get 100% hard, and I got confused because my ex used to get really hard everytime, even if he was a bit drunk. I felt that he was enjoying, feeling lots of pleasure, but I had to work hard to get a 90% erection. My doubt is: is this something common when men drink? Or was I the problem? I don’t think that I am, but I got a bit worried. Submitted May 31, 2019 at 11:56PM So, I (25F) was in a relationship of 7 years and my ex was my first man. I had sex only with him, but we broke up a few weeks ago and I had this opportunity of getting laid with this other guy. We had a few drinks (mostly vodka), started to make out and stuff. But, his penis didn’t get 100% hard, and I got confused because my ex used t

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I (F24) have been identifying as a lesbian since I was about 15 but recently started experimenting with men, I’ve been regularly hooking up with someone (M23) for about 4 months and even though the sex is nice and we’re having a lot of fun I can just never seem to come during sex. I thought maybe he just isn’t that familiar with the female anatomy but he insists he’s made all the other girls he’s been with come. He does spend a lot of time on just me, giving me head and fingering me generally trying to please me but it doesn’t do much for me. It feels frustrating since I myself very much with my experience do know how to get women off, I try to guide him into the right direction but nothing ever feels the way I’m expecting it to or the way it does when I’m having sex with women. I’m not shy about telling him about what I like, and I do enjoy every aspect of the sex we have so it’s definitely not a question of me not being attracted to him. Trying to please myself to get off doesn’t wo

Better than sex I'll take 50 June 01, 2019 at 12:07AM

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This is a little worrying. Sex should add joy to your life, not be a stressful problem to solve. It's one thing to feel a little insecure when you show no interest in touch but he knows you're asexual, and yet he keeps having these unresolved conversations. Because he wants to wear you down. Which is working: you want to "get it over with". He doesn't seem to care how you feel about it. You're old enough to know what you like and don't like. If you want to do it to get emotional fulfillment from making him happy, that's fine. But by no means should you feel like it's an obligation. If you still want to do this, sit down and discuss what you are comfortable with, how far, how fast, what the signs are, etc. Remember that just because you're asexual it doesn't mean your discomfort doesn't matter. It should still be an enjoyable activity for you. If it's a chore, don't do it. Quit midway. It's okay. Also remember that PIV is

Pretty much at the same time, since I was doing some research/googling when I heard about asexuality and that brought up aros as well. For me, I feel like it's wrapped up in a single feeling of being averse to any kind of romance and physical contact beyond hugging May 31, 2019 at 11:57PM

I also love the colors on both the bisexual and panromantic flags too. Gray goes well with things but is kinda dull. May 31, 2019 at 11:54PM

never knew this was a thing! makes so much sense now May 31, 2019 at 06:37AM

so super late and not an asexual so double sorry, but sex is like super duper mega fun between two people who want to have sex with each other May 31, 2019 at 06:37AM

it’s not his real name, but a nickname.his real name is forsythe May 31, 2019 at 06:35AM

Thanks 😊 May 31, 2019 at 06:26AM

My sex ed was horrific, graphic photos of STIs. I ended up getting a better education from Wikipedia and Urban Dictionary May 31, 2019 at 06:24AM

I get grossed out when people even text the word sex. Ugh. I cringe at sexual talk. May 31, 2019 at 06:22AM

I remember watching 7 Brides for 7 Brothers as a kid and trying to imagine which character I would want to play if I was an actor. I determined I would be a side character so I didn't have to kiss anyone 😂 May 31, 2019 at 06:20AM

Actually, the term is aegosexual/autochorissexual (interchangeable). Seems like you stumbled upon a misspelling somewhere. So you don’t have to worry about being miscontrued. May 31, 2019 at 06:19AM

I love this so much! May 31, 2019 at 06:18AM

Yeah. My sexuality and my sense of romantic attraction have always been separate, but it’s difficult to convince people—even potential partners—that just because I don’t want to sex doesn’t mean I can’t love them. (You know, assuming I can love them.) May 31, 2019 at 06:16AM

Small community? Me too. Good thing there is the great wide web of diverse and loving individuals. We are here for you 💜 May 31, 2019 at 06:15AM

omg it has a name :D describes me perfectly. Like, erotic literature, porn, etc arouse me but I have no interest whatsoever in being a participant or even imagining myself as one. May 31, 2019 at 06:11AM

The effort seems like the worst part. Maybe I'm just incredibly lazy but sex doesn't seem worth the lengths to which some people go May 31, 2019 at 06:09AM

I currently have this problem. It would be much easier when I thought I was aromantic (I must be kind of demiromantic, with small probability of falling in love). Now it would be like "WTF, you are in your second relationship! How can you be asexual and have a boyfriend?!". May 31, 2019 at 05:59AM

I mean Sonic is pretty slim but I don’t think he’s genderswapped in the comic, I think that’s just him in a tiny pizza guy seduction robe. May 31, 2019 at 05:53AM

I just say I'm not interested in those things and try not to go to deep or talk about it any more than that. I'm not comfortable letting people know that about me, or anything very personal really, but especially this like, I really don't wanna know how people would react to that it would just be a bigger problem than it'd have to be lol May 31, 2019 at 05:45AM

This is called prejudice / discrimination – otherwise known as judging a person based on group membership rather than as an individual. May 31, 2019 at 05:38AM

I was thinking about getting the ace one, but it doesn't fit my wrist. Too adult sized. May 31, 2019 at 05:20AM

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usually people call it a-spec. or gray-ace. but yeah! asexuality is a spectrum too May 31, 2019 at 05:18AM

I’m 19, I told my dad about a year ago that I’m asexual. He’s hella allo, and finds romantic attraction identical to sexual attraction. He often thinks I’m lying that Ive never experienced sexual attraction. At one point he got mad at me that I wasn’t telling him I was having sex with a girl (I wasn’t). My mother took it much better, and is totally ok with it. Sometimes it works out; sometimes it doesn’t. I wish you luck, but I’d be surprised if it went well. Plus, no matter how old you are, people won’t think you know what you want when it comes to being asexual. May 31, 2019 at 05:16AM

You don't need to be anymore May 31, 2019 at 05:03AM

It's not about the sex it's about the lie. Unless it's an open relationship you agreed to do XYZ with one person. To go out and do the same with another breaks that promise. May 31, 2019 at 05:02AM