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/u/613vc420 on Do you want to be allo

If I could magically become allo 15 years ago, great get the time machine. Now? Nope September 11, 2022 at 12:49AM

/u/AlfaRomeo_u3u on were any of you told that as a female your lack of sexual interest was normal?

Nah. Random people and some family members keep saying that I'll understand they urge to have "adult fun time". And that I need to hurry to have a boyfriend and a family in no time. It's not daily, though. September 11, 2022 at 12:48AM

Went on a great date with someone three weeks ago. Talked for a few days after. Haven’t since. Is it too late to talk again?

Pretty much the title. I went on a date with someone three weeks ago. Solid date. Went well. We texted the following day. Haven’t talked since. Got super busy and honestly I’m not huge texter so not the type to just keep a text conversation going. Is it too late to text again to go on another date/see her again? Submitted September 10, 2022 at 11:55PM Pretty much the title. I went on a date with someone three weeks ago. Solid date. Went well. We texted the following day. Haven’t talked since. Got super busy and honestly I’m not huge texter so not the type to just keep a text conversation going.Is it too late to text again to go on another date/see her again?

Not feeling good enough

Anyone ever find themselves comparing themselves to there bf/gfs ex and just getting in their own head? How do y’all deal with this? Submitted September 10, 2022 at 11:58PM Anyone ever find themselves comparing themselves to there bf/gfs ex and just getting in their own head? How do y’all deal with this?

Survived a brain avm rupture but…

Hello everyone so this is it so March 2020 I (24M) had a brain avm rupture and my damage was done lost some of my eye and went to talk to a eye doctor and he said I won’t be able to drive ever again. Here’s my question because I won’t be able to drive ever again how to explain to a girl I date (when it happens) that I won’t be able to drive? Should I wait to tell her? When will it be a good time to tell her about my situation? What if she asks me to drive or why I won’t be able to drive? I’m not sure if it’s a make or break because I won’t be able to drive? What if we go on the first date should I just meet her on the restaurant (my bro/sis can drive me)? What she ask on the first date why I won’t be able to drive? These are some of my questions. Honestly my mental thought has been crazy to be honest. I feel like I can’t think right to be honest. Anything helps. Submitted September 11, 2022 at 12:05AM Hello everyone so this is it so March 2020 I (24M) had a brain avm rupture a...

Why does he text me but won’t ask me on a second date?

Long story short I met a guy about a month back at a bar on weekend. We hit it off, had lots to talk about, ended up knowing a bunch of the same people, and just had good chemistry. He texted me the next day and we chatted for a bit and that week we went on a date and got dinner. Date went well, we kissed, and he has been texting me since. It’s just odd because that’s been 3 weeks ago and he has not followed up for a second date. Normally I would take that as he is not interested and move on however he texts me during the week to see how my week has been and takes interest in me over text. Sometimes double texts me but has not tried to see me since. I finally just asked him to grab a drink and he couldn’t but made no attempt to reschedule. I’m confused why someone may do this. Any suggestions? Submitted September 11, 2022 at 12:06AM Long story short I met a guy about a month back at a bar on weekend. We hit it off, had lots to talk about, ended up knowing a bunch of the same peo...

I feel inadequate sometimes

I (27f) have been dating this guy (25m) for about 3 months now. We have been getting more serious lately and feel we are falling for each other and hard, even though it’s pretty early it feels very natural and not forced and he seems like a very high value man. Right now he is like the perfect man. He’s handsome, caring, intelligent, thoughtful and he has shown me over time that he is not just interested in sex. I am usually quite picky so this is so refreshing. I recently met some of his very close friends. They are all very educated and in good jobs. He gathered them all to come meet me. He comes from an affluent family, some of whom are politicians and I feel quite intimidated. He really wants to meet my friends and family. And here is where the issue lies. I don’t have a huge group of friends here, over the years some of my friends have either moved countries or I have grown apart from some. I don’t have a huge group of friends to show to him. My parents aren’t educated althou...

How to handle dating when single for a very long time

Like in the title, I have been single years before the pandemic and up until potentially recently. In the pandemic it was much easier to not care about being single and somehow I thrived in it. I feel much better about myself and just live my life. I honestly didn't really care about dating and idk how to feel on that. I am not asexual, just never been great with DATING women if I am being honest and I guess for my mental health I just wrote that part of me off. All this kinda changed recently when I met someone. We seem to vibe so far but its been barely a few weeks so nothing real serious. I know I overthink things in general, this has nothing to do with her and more about the feeling of "do I actually want a romantic relationship?" I will continue to see where this goes but I could use some advice on how to navigate this feeling of, "I'd likely be happier by myself," while I do in fact enjoy her company so far. Submitted September 11, 2022 at 12:16A...