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/u/ThatWardoo on Are there Asexual slurs?

I laughed just reading it December 29, 2022 at 12:42AM

Need advice...

Hi guys, I am really having a hard time contemplating whether or not to seek out dating given my current situation... Two years ago I had a serious heart problem and had to quit school for the entire year. Underwent multiple surgeries and such... This was for my junior year of high school, I lost that entire year and had to make up via online school. I am now at the point where I am about to finish the last semester of high school, however I still have to wait until next fall for college. I already mentioned I am almost 19, not in college, but also do not have a job. I would really like to hear your opinions on my problem. Also, I legally can't work because I am not a legal resident of the U.S. for the time being(no SSN). I should add I am obviously only interested in college girls. Submitted December 29, 2022 at 12:08AM Hi guys,I am really having a hard time contemplating whether or not to seek out dating given my current situation...Two years ago I had a serious hear...

I (18F) am in a relationship with MM (20M) and want to better myself

So a little recap of how MM is to me. He's the guy every girl wants. When we met i wasn't over my toxic ex. But we clicked over our first convo. It was so unexpected. He was there for me as a friend. He helped me move on. Respected when i told him that I want to be in a relationship when i can give my 100% which isn't a month after i move on. He waited until i was ready and didn't make me feel guilty in the slightest that he was waiting for me. And things were never weird between us in that time too. He's so so good in the cars back seat ;). Respects that we're not going to take the last step anytime soon. Never complains. Tells me everyday that i am a queen and that he wants to marry me. Can't wait till our degrees are complete so we can get married. Respects my parents so much. When my sister caused trouble for us and i thought he'd leave, he fully supported me and stayed. He makes me smile every time I talk to him. He's my best friend.This is the...

Is she joking around or being serious for calling me a creep??

Basically been texting a girl on Instagram and told her I was gonna send her a song I was working on, and if I could have her whatsapp to send it on. Basically messages went something like this: Her: send the song to me however u want, you’re the artist! Her: We all start somewhere, it doesn’t matter if the song isn’t that good Me: Love that positivity! Me: “[Inspirational quote from her instagram bio]” - a wise philosopher Me: I can send you the song on WhatsApp? She now just responded with the following: Her: 🥲🥲🥲 Her: Stop stalking ma profile you creep Her: Sure go ahead Her: [her phone number] Am I overthinking it? What should i respond with because now I feel really bad because I genuinely thought it was a good quote from her bio and don’t want to come across as a creep! I don’t even know if she’s still interested in me because for over a week she only responds after many many hours (she says she barely uses instagram anymore) and she messaged me a few days ago say...

18F confused on when I’ll find the right one.

I am an 18F that just wants to find the right guy. It’s hard my age because it seems like most guys my age just want that “one thing” from me and not a committed relationship. I would say previous experiences of most guys just seeking hookups from me has caused trust issues/ uncertainty for future partners I seek. Really making me question if I’ll ever find someone for me. What age have you met your partner? Or started your first serious relationship? Because I know age has a factor in guys just wanting hookups and not something serious, but I’m ready for them to get out of this stage!! Submitted December 29, 2022 at 12:13AM I am an 18F that just wants to find the right guy. It’s hard my age because it seems like most guys my age just want that “one thing” from me and not a committed relationship.I would say previous experiences of most guys just seeking hookups from me has caused trust issues/ uncertainty for future partners I seek. Really making me question if I’ll ever find...

Why are shy girls so hard to read… PLEASE GIVE ADVICE!!

Okay soooo.. I met this girl about a month and a half ago we spoke for alittle bit in person and really hit it off. I followed up a couple days later on Instagram and the conversation went extremely well. In this conversation she mentioned that she is really shy which was a surprise to me since she is really pretty. After about 3-4 days of conversation getting to know each other what not I asked her out, she said she would come but she’s really busy that weekend and followed up by telling me everything she had planned although she didn’t mention a reschedule (possibly the shyness). This is where it becomes so hard to read. After that situation of course the conversation slowly dies off as there’s no face to face interaction and we lose touch. She’s apart of the same local community I’m from so we have bumped into each other on several occasions. On both accounts it was hard to get a conversation going as it just wasn’t the right place or time so a kiss on the cheek and a hello how ...

/u/MidwestTimmy on Are there Asexual slurs?

Some think we are incels, but that is wrong at many levels... December 28, 2022 at 11:36PM