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Hang out suggestions- If a friend you liked rejected you and you decide to reconnect/hang out a couple months later, could there still be potential?

Obviously I wouldn’t be making a move on the guy, but I still kinda have the feels for him, but I’m going with the impression that it’s platonic as he wants to hang out. What would be a good thing to do in a city? We aren’t drinkers for what it’s worth. Also, I’m a bi guy and the friend is also bi. Submitted July 08, 2019 at 12:03AM Obviously I wouldn’t be making a move on the guy, but I still kinda have the feels for him, but I’m going with the impression that it’s platonic as he wants to hang out.What would be a good thing to do in a city? We aren’t drinkers for what it’s worth.Also, I’m a bi guy and the friend is also bi.

Should I ask my gfs father for permission to marry her?

My gfs father is pretty quiet and her and him are not all that close. She has told me before that she doesn’t expect me to ask him because he didn’t ask when he proposed to her mom. Is this an outdated tradition? I don’t want to propose to her and then have him be disappointed I didn’t ask but I also feel like my gf isn’t her fathers property. He is a pretty intimidating guy and I feel like he wouldn’t know what to say if I asked him. I’m not sure what to do or what the best way to go about this is. Any advice? Submitted July 08, 2019 at 12:05AM My gfs father is pretty quiet and her and him are not all that close. She has told me before that she doesn’t expect me to ask him because he didn’t ask when he proposed to her mom. Is this an outdated tradition? I don’t want to propose to her and then have him be disappointed I didn’t ask but I also feel like my gf isn’t her fathers property. He is a pretty intimidating guy and I feel like he wouldn’t know what to say if I asked him. I’...

LDR during medical residency?

Tl;dr: Friend (M/27) and I (F/25) started seeing each other 3 months before our medical residency started. We both like each other a lot and have great personal compatibility. Matched ~500 miles away from each other. Have decided not to officially date this first year in order to get to know each other better, but are staying "exclusive", the final decision whether to date or not is up to him. I would love to date him in the future, potentially consider either of us transferring residencies to be closer to each other if everything works out. Would greatly appreciate your opinion of the situation, thank you! One of my friends (M/27) from school and I (F/25) started seeing each other near the end of medical school. We'd been remote acquaintances through school, but didn't truly start getting to know each other or viewing each other romantically until this year. To be honest, we both didn't anticipate our relationship to become as close as it has. It started off wi...

He is great, but...

I’ve been talking to this amazing guy and former friend of mine again since about May, and we kissed twice in a single night a few weeks ago. He’s so amazing and kind, which is why I’m having such a tough time reading him. Everyone around me is so sure he likes me, from time to time even I’m pretty sure he does, but I can’t tell for certain. We text all the time, he always answers and engages thoroughly, asking about my day and what I’m doing and stuff, and I ask him how work was and if he’s enjoying hanging with our mutual friends (as I’m on vacation I cannot be there) and we just always talk and have a good time in person too. He’s such a genuinely nice person, that’s why I have such a tough time figuring out what he’s thinking. I always initiate plans, or the idea of making plans (ex: me suggesting we have a marvel movie watch party because neither of have seen them all in order but our friends want us both to, or me suggesting we watch “Jaws” then go to the beach, both he said “ye...

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A little backstory to this one: I had been on Grindr and I thought he was kind of cute. So naturally we exchanged numbers. We chatted for a bit but he would just dissappear for a month inbetween, he messaged me on whatsapp but I was at work and had no time to react, then this happened...

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Apparently being civil in political debates means I want the 'D'....

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The grammar and professionalism from nice guys is top tier

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Atleast he is not like other guys

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A guy commented this on one of my friends post

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Just got this in response to me talking about a profile I read on an online dating site.

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/u/Rin_the_wizard on Someone threw a whiteboard at me. I used the whiteboard.

Why would they throw a whiteboatd at you (or anyone really...)? Love what you used it for though! July 08, 2019 at 12:10AM

/u/Leoniceno on 🤭 im shaking guys

The same thing happened to me my freshman year of college. July 08, 2019 at 12:09AM

/u/AustinTheGrouch on 🤭 im shaking guys

Same! Like i still think of sex as a south park punchline and i don't think that'll ever change. July 08, 2019 at 12:08AM

/u/hupsistakeikkaa on 🤭 im shaking guys

I think part of not taking sex seriously is because sexuality and sex is used for goofs and laughs in so many movies, and seeing someone naked isn't sexy, it is something to laugh at. So many shows and movies present nakedness and sex in general as something embarrassing too so I think that is why I too thought that sex was a meme for the longest time 🤔 July 08, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/anonymousposter357 on In what situations would you tell someone you don't know well about you're asexuality?

the whole disgust and religious arguments towards gay sex would just vanish Probably not just vanish. But, I still agree it might help somewhat. July 08, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/vegandoggirl on Allo-Grey relationship: incompatible?

Grey/demi here with allo partner of coming up on 7 years. Most important thing is to be upfront in the beginning and see if they are comfortable with the kind of relationship you need and that they won’t want you to cross boundaries for them. July 08, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/isolatedintrovert on Asexual, but not aromantic. Need advice, please.

Yeah, I understand that. It is definitely tied to feelings when I engage, and it's not entirely unpleasant (since it's with him and based in love). I just never find myself thinking about it, much less initiating it, and I'm sure it's something he would appreciate... It's not that my body doesn't react or anything, I can certainly be aroused with foreplay and the like, but mentally I don't always get there and I dunno. That's something that I want to overcome so that I can engage and reciprocate better. July 07, 2019 at 11:58PM

/u/exhicmxdwc on [Poll Results] Asexuality and Physical Affection

How is Aegosexuality so rare in that poll given so many here in this subreddit? July 07, 2019 at 11:56PM

/u/anonymousposter357 on I'm thinking about coming out as panromantic asexual...

That's really unfortunate what happened to your genitals... I don't know if it would make sense to come out as asexual based on that alone, but it sounds like there's a good chance you might have already been asexual anyway. There's a lot of good links on this subreddit's sidebar about what that means, such as the FAQ But regardless of whether or not you're asexual, if you physically can't have sex (at least in the conventional way) then it indeed may be a good idea to look for an asexual partner, as they would probably be more accepting of that. In that regard, I think you've probably got the right idea. July 07, 2019 at 11:55PM

/u/thefeelingismutual- on Asexual Discourse in the Sub

Wait, it’s flying at Stonewall? I went down there and couldn’t see it, but then again I didn’t have my glasses on and I was kinda squinting at it. July 07, 2019 at 11:54PM

A Year of Dating

I've been dating for almost a year (August 2, 2018 I guess was when I started according to my Tinder data—more on that later) and I felt like I wanted to share my dating stats. I don't see myself going out with anyone else in the next month, so I may as well do this now. Yes, this is long. TLDR : Yes, dating is a lot of work. I'll describe me first so you understand who I am. Location : City in the PNW in Canada Age : 36/37 2 Kids Engineer Drinker Liberal Non-smoker Non-drugs/weed (for the most part) Open for more children Atheist My photos . I use a variety of different text profile but I'll leave my Tinder one: 6' but taller in heels. 16' when on top of a basketball net. 1'6" when I say "you too" to the cabbie when he tells me to have a good flight. Looking for? I was pretty open to exploring what is out there and not trying to limit myself to my perceived type. What were my conditions: Long term relationship. Age ran...

How do you know when you're ready to date again?

A little over a month ago, I (30F) broke up with a guy (32M) I'd been seeing for about a year. After ignoring a plethora of red flags, I found out in April that he had been cheating on me (mostly emotionally, but also physically) with another woman for the entire duration of the relationship. There are a lot of messy details about the relationship, infidelity, and breakup, like you'd expect, but for me, the important takeaways was that I ignored many gut feelings about how things were not good, ignored many (I mean MANY) red flags, and gave way too much to a relationship where I received very little reciprocation, all for the sake of being "loved." My self esteem has been shot through this whole ordeal, and I know I have to work on loving myself, healing, and (for f*ck's sake) learning to enforce boundaries and have standards. (Note that I'm not even talking high standards here -- things like "shows up and calls when he says he will" and "appea...