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/u/jk1218 on I am wondering about asexuality and mental health.

ADHD. September 21, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/wallmandatory on I came out to my parents...

Who cares? September 21, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/Internal_Somewhere77 on I am wondering about asexuality and mental health.

I’m actually waiting to hear back from my doctor but I’m pretty sure it’s gonna be anxiety and depression because of my IBS September 21, 2021 at 11:45PM

Is it possible to find a girl who is ok with us sharing a guy? (messed up bisexual question)

This might sound odd and weird for you, but as a bi sexual guy I find that I have to hide my homo side of that bi sexuality. Honestly in my experiences, women are incredibly turned off by the fact you have been sexually involved with men as opposed to men who think lesbian sex is hot, it just doesn't hit the same with girls when you are dating them. Now being 23, I spent most of my youth in juvenile detention and during those years...I didn't drop the soap but I started willingly getting with guys in there just to combat the horniness and how alone and hopeless I felt, thing is I started to really like it. at least where I'm from, having sex in jail or juvy isn't considered gay, it's just considered ''prison sex'' Once I came out at 18, I wanted to get with women to make up for lost time and just to see, talk to women because is not something I had done in years. I will never again commit a crime and I just want to enjoy my time in this world and ...

Unique Fetish (Body Swapping)

Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I wanted to see if anyone else has/has heard of my fetish & knows any resources related to it. I'm a gay man with a fetish for body swapping, specifically for swapping bodies with other men, and living my life as them. I don't necessarily have to fantasise about doing anything sexual in their bodies, as simply living their life and having other people treat me as that person I find to be incredibly arousing. I've found a few resources online related to body swapping fetishes, however it's almost always MTF, and just from my impression is also somewhat related to gender identify issues that the person is experiencing (just noticed this from reading the comments on posts). I've scoured the internet as much as possible, however haven't really been able to find much content, related to this topic, besides a few pieces of erotica here and there. This is my strongest fetish that I've had for as long as ...

Tips on building confidence in the bedroom?

I am pretty shy sexually. I’ve been working on it but I have a lot of trauma and a lot of rejection sensitivity that just destroyed my confidence having sex. Which is unfortunate because I’m hyper sexual, I would bang all day if I could. I’ve been dating a new partner and it’s been amazing but I really struggle to initiate or to top with confidence (unless there’s alcohol involved—which is not healthy). I really want to be more confident so that we both have more fun. I am communicative but it doesn’t help in the moment honestly. Anyone have suggestions? Submitted September 22, 2021 at 12:37AM I am pretty shy sexually. I’ve been working on it but I have a lot of trauma and a lot of rejection sensitivity that just destroyed my confidence having sex. Which is unfortunate because I’m hyper sexual, I would bang all day if I could. I’ve been dating a new partner and it’s been amazing but I really struggle to initiate or to top with confidence (unless there’s alcohol involved—which is...

I (25F) have a history of cheating and currently very sexually frustrated from lack of sex with my current bf (31M) How to cope?

I've been having a very tough couple of weeks. My bf (whom I've been with for four years) haven't been feeling like having sex lately due to his depression and anxiety. This has happened many times before and I've gotten used to it so it never bothered me until now. I do have a history of cheating, but on other people. I've never cheated on my current boyfriend and mess up the relationship because I really want to be with him and he's made me into a better person over time. Now, with my high sex drive and my boyfriend wanting sex only every few weeks now, I feel ashamed to say that I'm tempted to cheat. I'm tempted to install a dating app and just find someone to hook up with to satisfy my craving. How do I cope with this feeling and resist from the temptation? I've talked to him about this before but he only feels guilty about not "pleasuring" me enough. I don't want him to feel that way or blame his anxiety for his issue so I have...

Erotic Mind Games. Kiss of a rose.

Kiss of a rose. Everybody has heard this phrase. But how many of you actually kissed a rose? Try it. Start slowly... very slowly. Smell. The sweet unique scent of a rose. Gently kiss the flower with your lips. Softly run the rose over your face. Feel it with the skin around your lips. The petals are so smooth, soft and silky. Touch the rose with the tip of your tongue. Isn't this pleasure? It's the real kiss of a rose. ​ https://www.eroticgameseries.com/ Submitted September 22, 2021 at 12:53AM Kiss of a rose.Everybody has heard this phrase.But how many of you actually kissed a rose?Try it.Start slowly... very slowly.Smell.The sweet unique scent of a rose.Gently kiss the flower with your lips.Softly run the rose over your face.Feel it with the skin around your lips.The petals are so smooth, soft and silky.Touch the rose with the tip of your tongue.Isn't this pleasure?It's the real kiss of a rose.​https://ift.tt/3u0dHT4

Dating as an adult (f29) during this pandemic is complaining about everything and just wishing our life to be back to normal 😂

I don’t know about your experiences but after talking to some people at my age , we all kinda wish to have our normal life back which is pretty cool. And we complain about everything like “I just wish blah blah..” I also love these kind of talks where we openly speak about mental health and the importance of choosing peace. I mean I got a fair share of horny and rude people which is kinda normal. Lol but yeah . Haha that’s all 😂 Submitted September 21, 2021 at 11:59PM I don’t know about your experiences but after talking to some people at my age , we all kinda wish to have our normal life back which is pretty cool. And we complain about everything like “I just wish blah blah..”I also love these kind of talks where we openly speak about mental health and the importance of choosing peace.I mean I got a fair share of horny and rude people which is kinda normal. Lol but yeah .Haha that’s all 😂

Girl I'm dating doesn't initiate physical contact (yet)

So I've been seeing this girl for just over a month, and I'm crazy about her. We've been ona few dates, kissed once, it's nice! Only thing is that so far, every hand hold, hug, etc. has been initiated by me. I know that she likes me, that's not what I'm worried about. I'm just wondering how long it might take before she starts holding my hand, grabbing my arm, etc. It's not a huge deal, we aren't even official yet, I'd just like to be touched a little. She's a bit shy. Do you guys have experience with this kinda thing? Any tips? Submitted September 22, 2021 at 12:00AM So I've been seeing this girl for just over a month, and I'm crazy about her. We've been ona few dates, kissed once, it's nice!Only thing is that so far, every hand hold, hug, etc. has been initiated by me. I know that she likes me, that's not what I'm worried about. I'm just wondering how long it might take before she starts holding my han...

Dating again

I(21 F) met this guy (25 M) 2 weeks ago & we hit off instantly after a mutual friend introduced us. I proceeded to see him multiple times later on that week. Our form of communication has been mostly phone calls and then seeing each other in person. He’s stayed the night basically every other day and has only been a complete sweetheart. Last Tuesday, for the first time I was the first to communicate with him and I texted him that I wanted to see him. He said “I would love that but I have plans corazón my sister is coming.” I simply responded back with “Enjoy your sister! Other day then x” & he proceeded to heart the message. A couple days later, I sent him a Snapchat and to this date, he has not opened my snap nor seen any of my social media posts. It’s been officially a week since I last heard from him and out mutual friend agrees he also hasn’t heard from him, so he is equally confused. I’m torn between “if he wanted to, he would” and “Just call him and try to communicat...

Asking a girl to hang out, she responds "I don't have alot of time, I'm always here though, you can come see me here". Leave it or pursue ?

This was at a sporting goods store. We had some small talk and before I left I asked if shed want to hang out sometime. She replied "I honestly, I dont have alot of time. I'm always here though, you can come see me here.".... Is this just her politely rejecting? Or is there a chance she'd be open to it down the road? Would it be ok to visit her shop later on down the line and see how she feels then? Btw I didnt ask for her number, just if she'd hang out some time? And if she was rejecting me, why offer that I can come see her at the store again? Submitted September 22, 2021 at 12:01AM This was at a sporting goods store. We had some small talk and before I left I asked if shed want to hang out sometime. She replied "I honestly, I dont have alot of time. I'm always here though, you can come see me here."....Is this just her politely rejecting? Or is there a chance she'd be open to it down the road? Would it be ok to visit her shop later on...

Dating apps

I’ve been out of the dating game for months and I really want someone to talk to or take out. Can anyone recommend any good apps and advice for setting it up? Submitted September 22, 2021 at 12:07AM I’ve been out of the dating game for months and I really want someone to talk to or take out. Can anyone recommend any good apps and advice for setting it up?

Why would a guy want to keep in touch?

I met this guys and we had instant chemistry. We had gone on a handful of dates and it was just easy and compatible. He started to get a bit distance after a couple months of talking and dating. I had called him out on it and his response was that he really liked me a lot but he’s taken on a lot at work and had also agreed to try being exclusive with someone else “spontaneously a week ago”. He went on to say that it’s very fresh and he doesn’t see this person much at all either due to work and said to keep in touch along the way and be friends for now. Is there any meaning to this or he just being nice? I don’t know why he would want to just be nice because I gave him the opportunity to be brutally honest and say if he’s just not interested. I know I shouldn’t be analyzing this but I can’t help it as this never happened before with a guy. I am 27 and he is 30. Thanks. Submitted September 22, 2021 at 12:15AM I met this guys and we had instant chemistry. We had gone on a handful...

/u/BafometsMenstrualJiz on What can you "do" with aesthetic attraction?

i mean the aesthetic to sensual thing makes sense because imo aesthetic attraction is a kind of sensual attraction (senses and stuff) just look instead of touch, it seems like it's be pretty simple to make the jump September 21, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/idkaboutallofthis on "Am I asexual?" – FAQ – etc.

this helped me so much...thank you September 21, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/nice___bot on 11 is the new ace symbol

Nice! September 21, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/Leo_Colombo on 11 is the new ace symbol

is 69 actully a sex position? i thought it was a joke September 21, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/davidbachman2028 on 11 is the new ace symbol

From my experience, it was either 101 or 111, depending on if the dog stretched out or curled up, but they always got in the middle of the bed. I guess the dog thought "more people to worship them"... September 21, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/BafometsMenstrualJiz on Should minors (13+) be allowed on mobile app A-Café?

as a minor i think not, it could have major risks both for the minors and potentially legally on your end if someone ends up hurt September 21, 2021 at 11:38PM