Dating again

I(21 F) met this guy (25 M) 2 weeks ago & we hit off instantly after a mutual friend introduced us. I proceeded to see him multiple times later on that week. Our form of communication has been mostly phone calls and then seeing each other in person. He’s stayed the night basically every other day and has only been a complete sweetheart.

Last Tuesday, for the first time I was the first to communicate with him and I texted him that I wanted to see him. He said “I would love that but I have plans corazón my sister is coming.” I simply responded back with “Enjoy your sister! Other day then x” & he proceeded to heart the message. A couple days later, I sent him a Snapchat and to this date, he has not opened my snap nor seen any of my social media posts.

It’s been officially a week since I last heard from him and out mutual friend agrees he also hasn’t heard from him, so he is equally confused.

I’m torn between “if he wanted to, he would” and “Just call him and try to communicate.”

What should I do ? I like this man but I don’t want to overstep nor seem too available. Not sure if this is his way of ghosting or if something happened in his personal life that I haven’t heard from him. I don’t know how long is too long to not hear from someone to be honest.

Thanks in advance.

Submitted September 22, 2021 at 12:00AM

I(21 F) met this guy (25 M) 2 weeks ago & we hit off instantly after a mutual friend introduced us. I proceeded to see him multiple times later on that week. Our form of communication has been mostly phone calls and then seeing each other in person. He’s stayed the night basically every other day and has only been a complete sweetheart.Last Tuesday, for the first time I was the first to communicate with him and I texted him that I wanted to see him. He said “I would love that but I have plans corazón my sister is coming.” I simply responded back with “Enjoy your sister! Other day then x” & he proceeded to heart the message. A couple days later, I sent him a Snapchat and to this date, he has not opened my snap nor seen any of my social media posts.It’s been officially a week since I last heard from him and out mutual friend agrees he also hasn’t heard from him, so he is equally confused.I’m torn between “if he wanted to, he would” and “Just call him and try to communicate.”What should I do ? I like this man but I don’t want to overstep nor seem too available. Not sure if this is his way of ghosting or if something happened in his personal life that I haven’t heard from him. I don’t know how long is too long to not hear from someone to be honest.Thanks in advance.