Just joined, thanks for sharing!! October 23, 2021 at 11:53PM

Rn they're the same, I originally made the sub because there was a lot of spam/low effort posts on r/ apothisexual but they started removing the spam so now the difference is one has more users October 23, 2021 at 11:52PM

I'm a mod of r/antisex and I also welcome anyone who is sex-repulsed to our subreddit. October 23, 2021 at 11:50PM

Bugger off with relationships Qpr or romantic. Ew. hisses in aro October 23, 2021 at 11:49PM

What is a QPR? A QPR (queerplatonic relationship, though it may also be called quasiplatonic because some still consider "queer" a slur) is a relationship with the same level of committment as a typical romantic relationship, however there are no romantic feelings between the two queerplatonic partners. The relationship is essentially a non-romantic partnership that falls outside of society's standards of a platonic relationship (friendship). What exactly is included is completely dependent on the two (or more; the qp equivalent of polyamory is polyplatonic) in the relationship. Some may choose to live together, others don't; some may choose to include sex, others don't; some may choose to have romantic partners outside of the qpr, others don't; etc etc. It is to be noted that a QPR is inherently an aromantic term, but anyone of any sexuality and romantic orientation can use the label. It is "queer" because the relationship falls outside of soc...

I genuinely just don’t? I used to when I was a kid, but it would take forever and I find I don’t have the patience for it when I masturbate as it can take over an hour. I’ve explored my body and tried every fantasy possible. Even during sex I really like with a partner, I find myself stopping myself before it happens. I find that it’s extremely overstimulating for me. And also I have trauma from being assaulted at 19. However I’m discovering it isn’t as big of a deal as I thought. I am sad sometimes about it and sometimes I’m not. I still cant decide if this is a problem or not. Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:43AM I genuinely just don’t? I used to when I was a kid, but it would take forever and I find I don’t have the patience for it when I masturbate as it can take over an hour. I’ve explored my body and tried every fantasy possible. Even during sex I really like with a partner, I find myself stopping myself before it happens. I find that it’s extremely overstimulating for me...

basically whenever i see on a woman nice manicured/painted nails (not too long) in either media or irl my sex drive skyrockets and i have the urge to masturbate to make it go away. i find this it extremely sexy on women to the point that i may masturbate several times in a day. anybody in a similar situation or any opinion if you find it normal or not? thx :) Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:46AM basically whenever i see on a woman nice manicured/painted nails (not too long) in either media or irl my sex drive skyrockets and i have the urge to masturbate to make it go away. i find this it extremely sexy on women to the point that i may masturbate several times in a day. anybody in a similar situation or any opinion if you find it normal or not? thx :)

Tonight my gf is going out on a date ( we are Polly) and I'm home all alone with no one to play with. All my fwb are out of state and it's sucks Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:54AM Tonight my gf is going out on a date ( we are Polly) and I'm home all alone with no one to play with. All my fwb are out of state and it's sucks

Any tips, suggestions for theater/movie sex? Maybe not full on sex but foreplay, bj, handjob ect? Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:55AM Any tips, suggestions for theater/movie sex? Maybe not full on sex but foreplay, bj, handjob ect?

So I’ve been going on a few dates with this guy and he took me to a local game and when he went to use the bathroom I snooped through his back pack(I couldnt help it) and saw that he had magnum XL condoms. I plan on having sex with him any day now but does having a magnum condom mean that you have a big penis by default or are they used by anybody? I’m anxious now because I’ve never slept with a guy that was hung and I don’t know if it’ll hurt or how I’ll take it. The past guys I’ve been with have all been average probably like 5 inches? I’m not sure. Is there a big difference when with a guy that’s larger or is it overblown and more or less the same??? I’ve read that when aroused your vaginal canal can get as long as 6- 8 inches deep so it’ll probably be fine? Any advice on how I should prepare for this? Or is it possible he’s just using the brand and normal sized? Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:56AM So I’ve been going on a few dates with this guy and he took me to a local ga...

i’m in love with my best friend and i don’t know what to do. i think he used to like me possibly and now i think he might have the hots for someone else. i want to tell him incase there’s anything there but i don’t wanna ruin the friendship Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:03AM i’m in love with my best friend and i don’t know what to do. i think he used to like me possibly and now i think he might have the hots for someone else. i want to tell him incase there’s anything there but i don’t wanna ruin the friendship

It’s not the first time that happens and I’m getting a bit tired. After a successful first date, when we both agree to meet again, I start obsessing with the guy (I’m gay btw) and I rise the expectations. I’d like to chill about it and don’t overthink it. In this case, it’s worse than ever because the guy is really interested in me after the first date. And that’s great, me too, but It was just one date and barely know him, and I’m already obsessing with him. Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:05AM It’s not the first time that happens and I’m getting a bit tired. After a successful first date, when we both agree to meet again, I start obsessing with the guy (I’m gay btw) and I rise the expectations. I’d like to chill about it and don’t overthink it.In this case, it’s worse than ever because the guy is really interested in me after the first date. And that’s great, me too, but It was just one date and barely know him, and I’m already obsessing with him.

If you (she/her/he/him/them/they) have asked someone out on a first date and they agreed to join you, just pay. If you can’t afford to go to a restaurant and pay, don’t take them on a date to a restaurant, take them to a coffee shop or somewhere cheap, to a free park, or don’t date at all. You asked them for a date, it’s a nice gesture to not expect them to pay while they are in the position of assessing the fit while they agreed to spend their valuable time with you. You don’t have to ball out, but always pay on the first date and end this damn Reddit whack-a-mole once and for all. Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:09AM If you (she/her/he/him/them/they) have asked someone out on a first date and they agreed to join you, just pay. If you can’t afford to go to a restaurant and pay, don’t take them on a date to a restaurant, take them to a coffee shop or somewhere cheap, to a free park, or don’t date at all. You asked them for a date, it’s a nice gesture to not expect them to pay w...

So to make this short. Never online dated on the past. Signed up this summer. Gave my number to a few guys. Things didn’t work out. No big deal. Until one of the guys keeps making up new phone numbers to text and harass. I am pretty sure I know who it is but can’t prove it. What can I do about it? He has contacted me now from nearly 20 fake numbers and just makes new ones if he doesn’t get a response from me. Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:10AM So to make this short. Never online dated on the past. Signed up this summer. Gave my number to a few guys. Things didn’t work out. No big deal.Until one of the guys keeps making up new phone numbers to text and harass. I am pretty sure I know who it is but can’t prove it.What can I do about it? He has contacted me now from nearly 20 fake numbers and just makes new ones if he doesn’t get a response from me.

A girl i've been dating (but wasn't officially in a relationship with) told me she needed a break, that she wasn't ready at the moment and that it's not my fault. All that went respectfully and reasonably on both sides. That happened a month ago, we didn't talk since. Now her birthday is coming up and i'm thinking about not only wishing her a happy birthday, but also asking her if she wants to start anew. Should i do it or wait for her to ask me about it? I was always the one to make the first move, she's very shy and reserved, so i don't think anything will happen unless i take the lead. Submitted October 24, 2021 at 12:13AM A girl i've been dating (but wasn't officially in a relationship with) told me she needed a break, that she wasn't ready at the moment and that it's not my fault. All that went respectfully and reasonably on both sides. That happened a month ago, we didn't talk since. Now her birthday is coming up and i...

✨no ✨ October 23, 2021 at 11:29PM

I don't like other people being in my living space. Nobody has been in my dorm room except my mom helping me move in and I intend on keeping it that way. October 23, 2021 at 11:21PM

I once saw a documentary on the Discovery Channel about relationships and attraction. When covering a test on the success rate of pick up lines in a bar, the line that worked 100% of the time for women picking up men was "Hi." The stereotype is that straight men don't need to be seduced or convinced or persuaded into having sex. Everything about a woman instantly turns them on. Guess your partner proves the stereotype. As long as you get something out of the interaction, too, well, keep up the good work. October 23, 2021 at 11:20PM

Thank you for this. October 23, 2021 at 11:16PM

You could be. You'll find out. Don't feel like you instantly know as soon as you first begin treatment. Learning something new about yourself is always a gain, even if it's scary. Making this discovery doesn't change you, just helps you understand yourself better. The treatment will change things, but it won't change your sexuality - as people keep trying to tell homophobic parents, that's impossible. You might have new desires, which means you've learned more about which manmade label applies most accurately to you, or you might not. Just remember that suppressing them won't help anything. Try to think of this as a new adventure. The unknown is scary, but it's exciting, too. You could feel like exploring a whole new world you were never interested in before, or you might just go on like you always have but healthier and better equipped to take care of yourself. Hope your treatment is successful! October 23, 2021 at 11:13PM