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Found my first Nice Guy! On Tinder.

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This dude has been trying to hook up with me and I've already said no...

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“You’re taste in men is wrong I promise I’m a nice guy”

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/u/lilsaihah on Aesthetic attraction to naked bodies?

I really appreciate people who take great care of their body and look great because of it. Greeks and Romans did too. If anyone gives you trouble for it just say you like the classics. August 11, 2019 at 12:20AM

/u/SweetpeaTheNerd on Um, I can do coffee.

Honestly why bother at that point just drink some coffee and enjoy the rest of your life August 11, 2019 at 12:19AM

/u/yeetreetdeleteme on Question for my aro aces

Some people call it aesthetic attraction, other call it being oriented. August 11, 2019 at 12:13AM

I need basic advice

If you had to explain average dating to someone who doesn't know how to navigate... Tl;dr Ive (23f)been in one relationship. 3 years. Just ended. I never did much dating and my last was like...casual until it was serious. I'm trying to "see" this guy(28m) that I've really only slept with but he seems like he's perceptive to the idea of possibly more than that. Yes, i could do exactly what i did last time but wondering how someone else would pursue a person they've already established a sexual relationship with. Is there an old fashioned way? What kind of thing might someone do to try and go for something more without making things awkward? Of course, no, i dont want to ask him outright....thats too...logical a solution lol what can i do to nudge him in that direction? Ive brought him over to meet my friends and that went well. Ive met his. But i still cant muster up the courage to even kiss or hug him when i say hello/goodbye lol...those things seem lik...

How to ask out a coworker/tell him I want to get to know him more?

Me (22F) and this guy (23M) work in the same place, but in different departments. We cross paths fairly often, and every time he sees me (unless he’s busy looking at something with someone from his team) he goes out of his way to say hi and talk to me. He’s sooo cute, and I feel like he might think the same of me by the way he acts, smiles, and goes out of his way to talk to me (even if I’m walking ahead and he sees me from behind and calls my name). We don’t get a super long time at a time to talk, and I really wanna get to know him better/go out. So.. should I just do it and tell him that? If so, how? I don’t want to be misreading signals and make it awkward for myself haha. Submitted August 10, 2019 at 11:19PM Me (22F) and this guy (23M) work in the same place, but in different departments. We cross paths fairly often, and every time he sees me (unless he’s busy looking at something with someone from his team) he goes out of his way to say hi and talk to me. He’s sooo cute, a...

how do you have sex in a car?

okay, so this might sound stupid, but me and my boyfriend have been wanting to do it in a car but i’m unsure where to park? i’m pretty sure it’s illegal to have sex in a car when there are people who could see you so.... where are you supposed to go? i know this is a silly question but it’s something a lot of people do so i figure someone will have an answer. Submitted August 10, 2019 at 11:20PM okay, so this might sound stupid, but me and my boyfriend have been wanting to do it in a car but i’m unsure where to park? i’m pretty sure it’s illegal to have sex in a car when there are people who could see you so.... where are you supposed to go?i know this is a silly question but it’s something a lot of people do so i figure someone will have an answer.

Hung out with my Ex

We broke up cause she was unsure of what she was doing with life in general so we decided to stay friends. She was still the one I couldn't get over though. Well, we hung out when she came back into town a couple weekends ago when I realized that we didn't really click as well as I had remembered and now I'm finally over her. But I dont know what to do from here now that I have no one to "chase" after. Submitted August 10, 2019 at 11:22PM We broke up cause she was unsure of what she was doing with life in general so we decided to stay friends. She was still the one I couldn't get over though.Well, we hung out when she came back into town a couple weekends ago when I realized that we didn't really click as well as I had remembered and now I'm finally over her.But I dont know what to do from here now that I have no one to "chase" after.

Feeling down after trying out dating app, what do?

Hey so here's the deal. 17m here, I recently discovered that there's this dating app for people who are underage. It's labeled as making friends but really it's like Tinder for teens. I came in there and I tried it for 3 days. Unfortunately knowing I'm a teen in an environment that has the likes of Tinder, I feel very sad and like my confidence took a blow to the stomach I started out by not putting my face on profile, on day 1 I got no matches and I was figuring stuff out. Day 2 (yesterday) took a heavy toll on me emotionally, I bit off more than I could chew and started getting matches left and right, I had to work and do laundry that day so this was no easy task. I unmatched with a lot people becuase they didn't find me interesting which already made me feel bad go begin with. I just felt like compared to other guys I was boring, unfunny, unconfident and stupid as well. I had a lead on 3 girls. One of which I just completely fell in love with for being kind...

Getting over a breakup?

Just lost my first girlfriend after two and a half years two days ago, it was my fault. I blame my negativity, ever since I gained weight my whole outlook on the world turned sour, I became unappreciative, argumentative, and close minded. I started treating people poorly not all the time but it was always felt like I was just in conversations just to disagree or argue with everything. Only as of two weeks ago I noticed my behaviour and started to change because after losing 40 pounds and 2/3 to my goal weight I still noticed that despite my health improving, my day still felt shitty despite everything I was blessed with. I still treated my girlfriend with respect but we got in alot more fights last month then any other month in our relationship, but the number of fights began lessening (probably I tried smarting up) and I assumed we were just going through a rough patch (led by me) and next month was going to be fine, but instead she considered it as us being incompatible so she broke...

Why are girls so flaky.

Why is that 99% of the time you match with a girl they will never reply? Not unmatched or anything... just never reply. Or if you do make plans to meet up they just ghost you. Submitted August 10, 2019 at 11:47PM Why is that 99% of the time you match with a girl they will never reply? Not unmatched or anything... just never reply. Or if you do make plans to meet up they just ghost you.

Meeting people

So I’m a sophomore in high school and I feel like everyone I meet has no outlook on life. The kids in my grade are all about vaping, social media, and tik too. Where do I find a nice guy? Like the ones in the movies... even though that’s unrealistic. I want someone who will share their passions with me instead of just talking about how their vape is out of juice. Submitted August 10, 2019 at 11:49PM So I’m a sophomore in high school and I feel like everyone I meet has no outlook on life. The kids in my grade are all about vaping, social media, and tik too. Where do I find a nice guy? Like the ones in the movies... even though that’s unrealistic. I want someone who will share their passions with me instead of just talking about how their vape is out of juice.

Been seeing guy (30M) for about a month. Has he lost interest in me (24F)?

I met guy on tinder about a month ago. He's like the 2nd guy I've really liked (though I've gone on dates before and had short relationships in the past). We got along pretty well since we work in the same field. We've gone out on 3 dates and I thought everything went well. We hooked up on the 3rd date (about a week ago)but after that, he seemed like he changed? He used to text me almost every day but after our 3rd date, I find that it's usually me who texts first. He also used to respond to my texts relatively quick but now he's taking hours to respond. I've considered that maybe he's just busy at work/life but even before we hooked up, he's been busy too but not busy enough to text me/text me back. Did he lose interest in me after hooking up (which might be the only thing he was after?) or am I just overthinking it? Submitted August 11, 2019 at 12:02AM I met guy on tinder about a month ago. He's like the 2nd guy I've really liked (th...

Ending A 4 1/2 Year Relationship - What's The Dating World Like These Days?

Hello All! I'm a 20 year old gay man. New to reddit and this thread. I just wanted to ask for a tad bit of advice. I'm on the brink of ending an abusive, toxic 4 1/2 year relationship. I obviously haven't been in the dating scene in a while and before this, I always dated people who were my best friends, so i've never had the chance to go on dates/get to know people, etc. Does anyone have any advice for the dating world nowadays? I'm also a very shy person, so does anyone have any advice on being more social and extroverted when it comes to talking to other men? Submitted August 11, 2019 at 12:06AM Hello All! I'm a 20 year old gay man.New to reddit and this thread. I just wanted to ask for a tad bit of advice. I'm on the brink of ending an abusive, toxic 4 1/2 year relationship. I obviously haven't been in the dating scene in a while and before this, I always dated people who were my best friends, so i've never had the chance to go on dates/g...

For people who have found their soul mates, do you constantly think that your partner is too good to be true or do you see each other as equals?

So my boyfriend (26M) just broke up with me (22F). It was a short and brief relationship so I'm not crushed just bummed, but as I was typing my thank you text to him it just got me thinking... When you're with your soul mate do you think that your partner is too good to be true or do you think that you guys are equal to each other? Submitted August 11, 2019 at 12:09AM So my boyfriend (26M) just broke up with me (22F). It was a short and brief relationship so I'm not crushed just bummed, but as I was typing my thank you text to him it just got me thinking... When you're with your soul mate do you think that your partner is too good to be true or do you think that you guys are equal to each other?

/u/AngelHeartFTW on Hot

Ahh, I see you are an ace of culture as well. August 11, 2019 at 12:08AM

/u/that_dumpster_fire on Accurate description of being in love

Sounds like tachycardia. You might need an EKG. (As an ace who has been in love a few times, it's really kinda nice.) August 11, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/95girl on How "the talk" should have been given

I feel like you are gonna force your opinion on me. Gonna delete the whole post August 11, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/arnodorian96 on I found my people @ Prague Pride

May I ask how is lgbt life in Prague and are you out as asexual to family or friends? August 10, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/SunQuest on Mini-rant about fan fiction.

Found. Yup, Ao3. Your Moral Crisis is Stupid by etothepii. August 10, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/SunQuest on Mini-rant about fan fiction.

Your Moral Crisis is Stupid by etothepii. Here we are! August 10, 2019 at 11:58PM