First of all don't llet her think that she needs to engage in sexual activities with you in order to make you happy, I was down that hole and was quite miserable in the situation when I look back Also I would like to note that asexuality is not a condition, it's an identity, so the phrase "people with asexuality" is a quite controversial statement in my view, even if you didn't mean it (feel free to have different views, people, just saying my opinion) December 03, 2022 at 12:55AM

So there was this guy who I had a first date with about a week and a half ago. The first date started as a coffee date and ended with us going to a restaurant to finish the date. Our date ended because the restaurant was closing. So he walked me back to my car. I offered to drive him back to his place since he lived close and walked. After the first official first date we saw each other almost daily. I was going over his house to watch a series (it became “our thing”). Nothing ever happened besides sitting really close to each other and “holding”. I felt like we had a good connection. But, I got a call from him today and he said he really liked me “like a lot”, “really really liked”, he also said he “really liked spending time with me”, but felt like there was no “chemistry” and that he thought it wasn’t going to work because of that and he thought we should see “other” people. He then proceeded to say he would probably most definitely regret. He then rambled on and on between really

Im f21 and the guy I’m talking to is 19 M so this guy tells me he has gotten a boner just by the sound of my voice and from just looking at selfies of me and honestly ima be straight up I think I’m pretty decent looking but I’m not like HOT AF boner alert. Anyways should I be weirded out or flattered? He also asked if he could masturbate to my photos idk if this a red flag and I should runaway or just keep talking. Other then that he’s really nice dude honestly and he apologizes if he ever has made me uncomfortable I also find him attractive. I just never had this happen me before so I don’t know if this dude is a complete pervert or just insanely attracted to me. Submitted December 03, 2022 at 12:25AM Im f21 and the guy I’m talking to is 19 M so this guy tells me he has gotten a boner just by the sound of my voice and from just looking at selfies of me and honestly ima be straight up I think I’m pretty decent looking but I’m not like HOT AF boner alert. Anyways should I be weir

Horrible title but I'm not good at titles so... I've always been on the quiet introverted side though, I've worked hard to "come out of my shell" and gain a ton more confidence and self-esteem in myself the last few years but, it's still a work in progress... I bring that up because throughout my 20s I always noticed, and was very aware of women flirting with me, giving me seductive glances, etc... but was always to shy and had like zero confidence to do anything. Now being 34 I'm wiser, have more confdience and self esteem and have learned how to pick up/read women and their silly signs and signals that are obvious to them but not men haha but am still unsure on how to act on them.. I've also realized I'm actually a fairly attractive man which in my 20s, I never thoguth I was. Anyways... Despite all of that, I'm still unsure of the whole eye stares from women because I do get it often enough and I know it's not because they think I'

I have told people “look, just because you don’t know how to be comfortable with yourself without the validation of someone else does not mean I share that problem.” December 02, 2022 at 11:20PM