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Struggling with identifying what needs to be communicated as a problem

I’m having multiple turmoils with a girl I’ve been dating - we get along great in person and when we communicate but there’s things that just make me feel like it’s going no where or futile. How do you usually decide what is worth communicating and what is absolutely not worth bringing up because you know you need to end it? Submitted December 16, 2022 at 01:16AM I’m having multiple turmoils with a girl I’ve been dating - we get along great in person and when we communicate but there’s things that just make me feel like it’s going no where or futile.How do you usually decide what is worth communicating and what is absolutely not worth bringing up because you know you need to end it?

/u/rabbimite on meanwhile me in the corner, whose favorite character is a non-binary ace robot🙃

Jae from Supernatural Academy is a trans nonbinary aroace faery! December 16, 2022 at 12:43AM

/u/Dinner_Plate21 on I finally realised something about myself

Hello and welcome! Our welcome basket includes garlic bread, a cake, and a plush dragon. December 16, 2022 at 12:43AM

New guy feeling a bit .... off.

The guy I am seeing and I were having a chat the other night and he started being a bit silly making comments that suggest that I don't really see him or understand him and then he started getting weird, when I told him that I see how amazing he is, he was like "I know, Im stupid, I am silly, am this that and the other" all negative words. I said no that I adore him and that I love him. And I also told him that since he is being so combative, I will go sleep because I am really tired. And he agreed that he was feeling sorry for himself. I know hw has trauma, we are working on opening up to each other and I give him the safest space to speak and to share,. I am not wondering if maybe I was wrong for saying what I did but this is the second time he has done this and ngl... I find it frustrating as someone who takes full responsibility when they have done something wrong. So last night we were chatting and said that as I am learning about him, I am surprised to see that ...

/u/Bright_Somewhere9654 on a question about cuddles for the more experienced aces out there.

Oh my gosh that’s how my ex was!!!!! He would get horny so much and I’d just be over here like sorry I don’t want thst December 15, 2022 at 11:17PM