For those who text very often how do you initiate and what kind of things do you initiate with? Do you just randomly share stuff? Can you give some examples? Submitted December 02, 2021 at 01:11AM For those who text very often how do you initiate and what kind of things do you initiate with?Do you just randomly share stuff?Can you give some examples?

There’s this one girl in my class that I like. We’re partners in the class and we’ve been getting pretty close during the semester. When we’re in class, she’s always really touchy and close to me and likes to draw on my arm. (I realize this could just be her personality but I’m pretty sure she’s flirting with me). Also, I always catch her looking at me. Now we don’t talk as much over snap or text, but we do have conversations there from time to time. But, she’s been taking kinda long to respond so I’m starting to take that as a bad sign. With that being said, I’m extremely bad at reading cues from women and suck at talking to them. (I’ll blame that on previously going to an all guys school, but that’s besides the point). For example, she texted me the other morning and it went something like this: Her: Do we have class today Me: No we don’t. Sorry I forgot to tell you. Her: I could have slept for another two hours. I’m gonna get breakfast now. Me: Enjoy (Looking back at this response...

the "you just havent met the right person yet" sentence is infuriating December 02, 2021 at 12:18AM

Sounds like a deep pain, I am so sorry. 💙 December 02, 2021 at 12:13AM

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This is long, but important. Okay, one: the idea of finding your partner attractive is wholesome. Most (allosexual) people need to feel desirable. Describing it as 'less wholesome' I find concerning, because it treats sex as a immoral action (sex-negative) rather than your personal relationship to it. Two: asexuality isn't a 'club', it's just a term to describe your experience. If your internal life changes and your label does too, you were never 'lying' about being ace beforehand. Don't let any label be a 'club' you must deny your internal self to maintain 'membership' of. You can also have sexual attraction, but still be sex-negative ("sex is perverse/animalistic/immoral!") and/or sex-averse ("Sex is gross/invasive/fine for you, but not me!"). A common case for people who experience sexual trauma, or from religious upbringing where sex is demonised. The idea of wanting to touch them, wanting them to ...

Please help hahaha🤣. I totally want to get with her that’s what makes this even more exciting for me. She’s in her 40s I’m in my 20s, we’re both women. She’s one of those extra hot fashionista type ladies l. And the first time we spoke it was for hours, maybe my imagination was going a little wild but I think she definitely was using a sultry voice during certain topics, so maybe she likes me. Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:38AM Please help hahaha🤣. I totally want to get with her that’s what makes this even more exciting for me. She’s in her 40s I’m in my 20s, we’re both women. She’s one of those extra hot fashionista type ladies l. And the first time we spoke it was for hours, maybe my imagination was going a little wild but I think she definitely was using a sultry voice during certain topics, so maybe she likes me.

as a tit over ass guy (there’s not many of us) i’m curious as to if most men prefer big or small tits? Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:38AM as a tit over ass guy (there’s not many of us) i’m curious as to if most men prefer big or small tits?

Never done this before, and she doesn’t know I have the desire. That’s the thing, I have no idea how to go about introducing her to it and seeing if it’s something she’d like to try, anonymously. Any advice or experiences to share would be very appreciated Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:41AM Never done this before, and she doesn’t know I have the desire. That’s the thing, I have no idea how to go about introducing her to it and seeing if it’s something she’d like to try, anonymously.Any advice or experiences to share would be very appreciated

Sexy talk isn’t really my strong suit and we work in a restaurant that doesn’t know our situation. I’m just looking for something to casually whisper to him to get him going. Also, no food puns, I’ve tried and I can’t make it sexy. Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:44AM Sexy talk isn’t really my strong suit and we work in a restaurant that doesn’t know our situation. I’m just looking for something to casually whisper to him to get him going. Also, no food puns, I’ve tried and I can’t make it sexy.

Sorry if this doesn’t fit here, but I’m wanting to start a webcomic that is nsfw, however it’s more in a comedic and wholesome way. It’s a story about an older and more experienced man mentoring a younger man when it comes to being dominant in a dom/sub relationship (when I say older and younger it’s like 35/25). The younger man is inexperienced in literally everything. He’s never had sex, he’s never kissed, he’s never even dated before. He’s only recently realized he’s gay. This younger man has desires to be dominant and get into the dom/sub lifestyle, but he’s such a shy and nervous person and has no idea where to start. The whole story is about these two men and their kinda strange relationship. It is very sexual but they are also just best friends. They never fall in love or wind up as a couple either. It’s one of those relationships where the two people enter being flawed in some ways, and as their relationship progresses, they help each other realize things about themselves tha...

There's a certain theme or type of scenario which gets me off, and it has nothing to do with the actual act of sex. I can recognize and prove that it's neurotic and I'd like to remove it. How should I go about doing this? Every time I see a post like this, the comments are littered with "who cares what you get off to!" and "just enjoy it!" and the likes. I'm going to provide some information here and hopefully preempt any of those responses. Details? I'm a guy and the problem is a bunch of similar paraphilic or fetishistic associations, which are... pretty solipsistic and self-indulgent, to the extreme. So instead of the act of sex, I get off to the thought of orgasm. I have a subconsciosly... sadistic perception of sex, and I'm ABSOLUTELY NOT a sadist, which is why I think I don't experience desire -- the thought of sex is coupled with the thought of doing something to a woman, not with , and I couldn't ever be okay getting t...

Alright. I’m 33 and I’ve had plenty of sexual partners (not all good, sadly) but I can’t say I was comfortable enough with any of them to explore this… My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. He enjoys giving me rim jobs or whatever you shall name it. It feels good, I love it. But I’ve never done it to anyone and I’m curious on whether or not men like it? I’m not afraid to ask him, but I obviously want to have his consent before I just explore that area when we are having sex. I’m open to all and any advice on this. Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:57AM Alright. I’m 33 and I’ve had plenty of sexual partners (not all good, sadly) but I can’t say I was comfortable enough with any of them to explore this…My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. He enjoys giving me rim jobs or whatever you shall name it. It feels good, I love it. But I’ve never done it to anyone and I’m curious on whether or not men like it?I’m not afraid to ask him, but I obviously want to have his con...

My bf is coming out of his shell after having only been in vanilla/giving not receiving sexual relationships. He's starting to do things that make him happy during sex. It's amazing. I'm so happy he's comfortable with me. I'm a little more spicy, so I've asked him to do some things to me. Recently he's mentioned he would like me to do them to him too. I've choked him, held his face down, spanked him, bit him. But all very lightly, not even enough to leave a mark. He told me last night that he wants me to slap him in the face. I love him to do it to me... But when I think about doing it to him, it makes me sad. I'm not sure why. I seriously don't know if I can do that. I want to make him happy, but it makes me feel like I'm hurting him. Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:58AM My bf is coming out of his shell after having only been in vanilla/giving not receiving sexual relationships. He's starting to do things that make him happy du...

Above question tells everything Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:00AM Above question tells everything

I recently just got rejected by someone I really liked because they found someone else and they said it felt “right.” The reason we were never exclusive or official was because they said something wasn’t “right.” What the hell does that even mean?? Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:05AM I recently just got rejected by someone I really liked because they found someone else and they said it felt “right.” The reason we were never exclusive or official was because they said something wasn’t “right.” What the hell does that even mean??

I’m asking for a friend (literally) Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:05AM I’m asking for a friend (literally)

Hi, I am just scared that if I believe him that he loves me, he will just tell me it’s all a joke or that he wasn’t serious. I’m scared to commit. I’m scared I’m going to get hurt, scared that I’m going to get fooled. He did nothing wrong but it scares me. He loves me but I don’t understand why. I just need advice. How do I overcome this feeling? Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:05AM Hi, I am just scared that if I believe him that he loves me, he will just tell me it’s all a joke or that he wasn’t serious. I’m scared to commit. I’m scared I’m going to get hurt, scared that I’m going to get fooled. He did nothing wrong but it scares me. He loves me but I don’t understand why. I just need advice. How do I overcome this feeling?

I've been in a relationship with my [M23] girlfriend [F21] for about two months now. (we were dating/seeing each other for a couple of months before that and were talking during the summer). The relationship has been going great so far. I've met her family and friends and she's met mine - all of these meetings went well. I've been serious about dating her and the relationship since the beginning. I know we're still in the honeymoon/infatuation phase but I see this being a long term relationship and, although we haven't had an explicit talk about it, she seems to be on the same page. Is it too early to tell her I love her? I know this isn't the kind of thing you can put a timer on but I'm a little worried that if I do it too soon and she's not on the same page it may throw off the relationship. Am I just over thinking this? Submitted December 02, 2021 at 12:13AM I've been in a relationship with my [M23] girlfriend [F21] for about two mont...