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/u/PsychologicalMath2 on Anyone else loves giving foreplay , but sex is meh?

I love giving, while receiving is really not my thing. I love to please someone and not expecting anything in return. November 22, 2022 at 01:07AM

The worst part about getting older and remaining single is how others look down on you

I’m a 31 year old man. Never had a girlfriend or a relationship. It’s not for lack of trying either, I’ve been trying to find that mutual interest for years now but it just does not exist, I’m not anyone’s type, despite being the best version of myself I can be and improving year after year Still, the worst part is realizing that everyone notices how much of a failure you are when it comes to the most basic thing humanity has done continuously for millennia No one vocally says anything atleast not yet, but you feel it more and more as you get older I’ve been trying to find things I enjoy to distract myself with but it’s been so difficult realizing that I’m never going to have the chance at love or to give someone all this affection I have, or to have a family of my own that I can hold close when my mom and dad are gone The second worst part is that once you’re past the college phase, and you’re a working adult, basically any hopes of finding that are slim to none. There’s no way

Is it fair for someone to promise you something but reneges? What if they ask you for the same thing and expects it from you?

I have been talking to someone for a few months. We have good chemistry and nice convos. We were in talks of meeting up and promised it was a surprise. It never happened. One day we talking and asked me to get something. I was perplexed after they reneged on the surprise. I asked them can you get it? It was a awkward silence. The person flipped it on me by saying I'm a team player and expects everything from someone. Needless to say, I had experiences with people letting me down after I did stuff for them. I just don't want to get through that again. I explained to them about it and thought it was an excuse. Sound I give in to what they want from me without meeting the promise or wait afterwards or keep it moving? Submitted November 22, 2022 at 01:13AM I have been talking to someone for a few months. We have good chemistry and nice convos. We were in talks of meeting up and promised it was a surprise. It never happened. One day we talking and asked me to get something.

/u/therealmrsfahrenheit on Favourite books?

haha exactly!! 😂 and I mean .. at least in The Fault in Our Stars they had a reason to be depressive.. 😶‍🌫️ but the „cigarette metaphor“ - I still can’t 💀😂😂😂 gotta say I actually prefer Looking for Alaska as well as Papertowns A TON tho Looking for Alaska absolutely ended me🙃 and I think the series adaptation was actually pretty good as well surprisingly 🤔 (I only would’ve casted Alaska different I guess but apart from that the cast and almost everything was spot on! Just like I imagined it in my head) so in case you haven’t seen : I can recommend November 22, 2022 at 12:08AM

Sexual tension with my boss, advice on bringing it up?

I'm a guy and my boss Is a woman in her mid 20's. I know she is attracted to me and lately the sexual tension at work has been building up. There's just so many obstacles here, first she's my boss. Second, I already dated another girl from work that didn't work out. So don't want people thinking I'm jumping from girl to girl at work. ​ Anyway for my own manhood I'd like to address it with her so she doesn't think I'm an inexperienced virgin or anything like that and say stuff to others about how clueless I am to her advances. (She has already told her sister about crushing on me who works with us.) ​ I do not want to date her at work. But that conversation would make me into an asshole (yeah I like you, but not enough that I want to date you). What's the most tactful way to bring up in a conversation that I don't date co-workers, but if we were not... I would totally date her? Submitted November 22, 2022 at 12:13AM I'm a gu