By the same logic, should kinky people be included? Just curious. June 15, 2019 at 12:26AM

Thank you! June 15, 2019 at 12:24AM

Yeah, sorry. Tried to give a warning June 15, 2019 at 12:22AM

Here you go! I picked the black version of this: https://www.walmart.com/ip/Elegant-Metal-Engagement-Conductive-Gym-Anniversary-Rings-Rubber-Marriage-Women-Work-Silicone-Ring-Grade-Non-Free-Bands-Wedding-Comfortable-Men-Sport/840479861?selected=true June 15, 2019 at 12:22AM

Honestly this stuff is getting ridiculous. Do we need to be rich, ripped, tall and good looking. I thought I could be successful nailing 2/4 of these down. But, some how it's not worked that way especially for online dating. Fyi I'm not some basement neckbeard. I'm a dude with a decent job, who's quite muscular and I'd like to think I have a decent caring personality. Apparantly none of those are enough for women thede days, even the ones that are terrifically overweight. What is happening? /rant over Submitted June 15, 2019 at 12:03AM Honestly this stuff is getting ridiculous.Do we need to be rich, ripped, tall and good looking.I thought I could be successful nailing 2/4 of these down. But, some how it's not worked that way especially for online dating.Fyi I'm not some basement neckbeard. I'm a dude with a decent job, who's quite muscular and I'd like to think I have a decent caring personality.Apparantly none of those are enough fo

Thanks! June 15, 2019 at 12:21AM

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Walmart actually, marketed as an engagement ring! Last place I would have expected to find one. I chose the black version: https://www.walmart.com/ip/Elegant-Metal-Engagement-Conductive-Gym-Anniversary-Rings-Rubber-Marriage-Women-Work-Silicone-Ring-Grade-Non-Free-Bands-Wedding-Comfortable-Men-Sport/840479861?selected=true June 15, 2019 at 12:21AM

Cool i guess. I prefer the dreams i had when i was the most powerful Lord of Change who zapped ships in space with Warp Lightning and made warpflames as large as mountains. But dreams with Garlic Bread are cool too i guess :D. June 15, 2019 at 12:16AM

I never act on it and send a bajillion texts, because I know better. And I’m logical enough to not take it super personally if I do get ghosted. And I’m trying very hard not to over-invest in someone new, because that just makes it all worse. But. It still fucking sucks. Having that worry about it sucks. Getting rejected in that manner sucks. I wish everyone could just be honest. It would hurt, but significantly less than this constant worry. Also, I’m not even talking about the ghosting after one date thing. That sucks, for sure, but I’m talking about ghosting after several dates, with seemingly no reason. Just makes me want to not try. Submitted June 14, 2019 at 11:35PM I never act on it and send a bajillion texts, because I know better. And I’m logical enough to not take it super personally if I do get ghosted. And I’m trying very hard not to over-invest in someone new, because that just makes it all worse.But.It still fucking sucks. Having that worry about it sucks. Get

**Curious if anyone has experienced emotional fatigue after a long relationship ended, and tried to date again. I used to think it was an odd statement when someone would say they are "emotionally unavailable", and could not be in a relationship. That is, until I experienced it for the past year. My last relationship took a major toll on me emotionally. Overcoming obstacle after obstacle, fight after fight, all the lying and deceiving, all the years of giving everything I had to hold the relationship together, sacrificing my own happiness and self-worth for them to get what they want. Now I am too emotionally drained and fatigued that I cant date again. I try, but I get accused of being an asshole when I open up to someone looking for a serious relationship. *** TL;DR Ever been in a relationship where you sacrificed everything to hold it together, only to have it end and you were so drained that you became emotionally unavailable to date again? Submitted June 14, 2019

I went out on 2 dates with this girl, we'll call her Sarah. Nothings exclusive yet but we've gotten to the point where we've started fooling around, making out, getting hot and heavy with each other...no sex yet though. She's a great gal and we get along. However I recently matched with another girl a few days ago on Hinge, we'll call her Nicole. Nicole and I have been having great conversation, we have a lot of similar interests and our messages are getting abundantly longer with each response. Nicole likes to do stand-up and invited me to watch one of her shows sometime, and offered the idea of going out to a different comedy club to watch a show together and get drinks. Here's the dilemma, Sarah mentioned on our first date that she went to her friends comedy show that week. She also mentioned her friends name was...you guessed it...Nicole. This was before I had even matched with Nicole and started talking to her. I'm 99% positive the Nicole she was tal

The time has come again for me to go into hiding. My ex is in town. This isn’t just some rant about not wanting to see my ex ever again, he does this thing where he’ll go out of his way to show up UNANNOUNCED to where I’m working. Despite a dumpster fire breakup we’re now on friendly terms but don’t even talk frequently. He was the one who broke up with me for his ex, so why are you going out of your way to see me out of the blue again? Sometimes he brings his girlfriend along too, and she fucking HATES me which makes it even more uncomfortable for the both of us. I don’t know what the fuck he’s trying to do??? Is he “checking up” on me?? Is he trying to send a message when he comes by with his ex?? It’s borderline emotionally manipulative. Submitted June 14, 2019 at 11:52PM The time has come again for me to go into hiding. My ex is in town. This isn’t just some rant about not wanting to see my ex ever again, he does this thing where he’ll go out of his way to show up UNANNOUNC

Yes! Also, gender is confusing. June 15, 2019 at 12:11AM

Similar story here. Although, it took learning asexually existed from my teenage child, to realize I had always been demi. Since I have accepted it & years have passed I’ve become more aro- asexual, much to my husbands dismay. June 15, 2019 at 12:11AM

That’s super cool.. source? June 15, 2019 at 12:09AM

I listened to this today - it was pretty good! What was interesting was that not only was the guest ace, but one of the two hosts is questioning whether or not they're ace as well. I wish there was more information overall, but the attitude was so open and accepting rather than 'oh, here's this weird thing.' It was pretty great. June 15, 2019 at 12:08AM

The “they dont have simmilar issues” argument doesnt make any sense. Gays, Transgenders, Lesbians, Bisexuals all have different problems and issues, but that doesnt matter, we’re here to stick for each other! Asexuals are always gonna be a part of LGBT community, nothing is going to change that June 15, 2019 at 12:07AM

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Honestly, seeing the words "you're ace" feels very validating. Thank you for helping lift this weight off my chest. June 15, 2019 at 12:05AM

Bigots gonna bigot. I've been told that trans people don't belong in the LGBT+, despite it being the fourth fucking letter. I can't imagine why ace peeps would also be excluded. June 14, 2019 at 11:59PM

Same dude. After 4-5 years of questioning and experimenting, the most obvious way for me to fully accept that I am ace is that NOTHING arouses me. Accept it, embrace it, and live your life. I’m too cool for sex anyways 😎 God bless June 14, 2019 at 11:57PM