I was always told that women's sex drives go up in their 30s. I am 29 and I feel like a 17 year old boy. I mean holy shit what a constant distraction! I am very happy in my current relationship but my SO doesn't have near the sex drive I have developed. I am so hoping it doesn't become a big problem because he is truly great. However at work I flirt. Nothing serious, just setting up stuff on his desk and running away. But just receiving attention back is enough to make me flustered. I need to stop because I feel guilty and it will probably only escalate. He used the expression "thrown around like a 2 dollar whore" and instead of blowing it off or being offended my response was "Sounds fun." I was so shocked by my own reaction that I never looked back at him but I could see he was smiling at me. I have never cheated, I never understood how anyone could. But now my vagina is running the show and I am constantly imagining men pushing me up against wall...

What are some good things to do? Good techniques? Should I focus on anything besides the clitoris or just stay on that because it’s the most sensitive. Me and my gf are beginning to try this stuff together and I want to make sure the experience is as pleasurable as possible for her. Submitted September 27, 2019 at 12:15AM What are some good things to do? Good techniques? Should I focus on anything besides the clitoris or just stay on that because it’s the most sensitive. Me and my gf are beginning to try this stuff together and I want to make sure the experience is as pleasurable as possible for her.

...and I actually like it. I always thought male assholes were totally different from females, I assumed they were really ugly for some reason so I always avoided looking. I'm straight but it's not like I ever found the male body gross, it was just specifically with assholes. Maybe it's because I watched that goatse shock video one time and that kinda stuck with me... I don't know. All I know now is I'm actually kinda turned on by seeing myself there, is that weird? It's like discovering I actually have boobs one day and I can't stop looking / wanting to touch. Could this mean I'm bi? I've never felt attracted to guys though so I really don't know. I just want to know if anyone else can relate I guess. Also, how do you get the courage to touch yourself there? I keep chickening out because it feels so wrong. Submitted September 27, 2019 at 12:17AM ...and I actually like it. I always thought male assholes were totally different from females...

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I’ve been with my fiancé for three years now and every day since I met her has been better than the last. We met in high school auditioning for a play and as corny as it is I knew right away that this woman was the one for me, since that day we’ve haven’t not spoken to each other. Idk what the point of this post was other than to just say how much I appreciate the love I’ve found in life Submitted September 27, 2019 at 12:00AM I’ve been with my fiancé for three years now and every day since I met her has been better than the last. We met in high school auditioning for a play and as corny as it is I knew right away that this woman was the one for me, since that day we’ve haven’t not spoken to each other. Idk what the point of this post was other than to just say how much I appreciate the love I’ve found in life

I've read everything about you, all your flaws, all your quirks i'd love to tossle your dark hair, run my fingers across your barrel chest kiss you, be who she was, the woman you should've had but we've been separated by time and fate, but reunited by dreams they say i'm an old soul, but I never knew it would get this bad when i stay up longing for you, writing whatever comes to my head just for you, with your distinctive smirk and thick eyebrows i've never felt this way before of course, before i move onto a new man i'll never know and you'll be that old photograph, the man people love to hate, adore, inbetween or have simply forgotten you from the pages of history but to me you'll always be mine, a semblance of adolescence no matter how much time passes, your sweet boyish face will always be my coming of age ​ I love you Submitted September 27, 2019 at 12:15AM I've read everything about you, all your flaws, all your quirks...

So there is this girl I’ve liked for a minute I guess but I need to know if I should just ask for her snap or what idk a lot of people like me and I’m never one to be direct about it the other one is sooo help Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:18PM So there is this girl I’ve liked for a minute I guess but I need to know if I should just ask for her snap or what idk a lot of people like me and I’m never one to be direct about it the other one is sooo help

Alright - so I am supposed to go on a date in 3 hours. The original plan was an ice cream date, but it is officially very cold outside ... he said he was still into it, I'm still into it! I texted "I'll just have to wear my coat :P " and he has written back with a string of anger?? about the weather?? How it is bullshit that we have to suffer through the summer here just to go straight into winter... but also that he is sure that I have a fabulous fall wardrobe... and now he thinks appetizers would be a better plan... I'm suddenly not feeling this... What should I do? Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:20PM Alright - so I am supposed to go on a date in 3 hours. The original plan was an ice cream date, but it is officially very cold outside ... he said he was still into it, I'm still into it! I texted "I'll just have to wear my coat :P " and he has written back with a string of anger?? about the weather?? How it is bullshit that we have to...

Hello everyone, I recently left my parents' abusive relationship (I just turned 18) and I'm living my best life now. I recently met a really great guy on Bumble and we went out for great date. He seems like he's interested in me, but he constantly leaves me on "read" on Snapchat. I asked him to add my number so that we can just text instead of snapping, but he says he's been really slammed recently. He'll responds back to me at night on snapchat, but what does this mean? Can someone really be that busy to not respond? He sent me a picture of his schedule, which is pretty busy, but still? Or am I just being too petty? Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:44PM Hello everyone,I recently left my parents' abusive relationship (I just turned 18) and I'm living my best life now. I recently met a really great guy on Bumble and we went out for great date. He seems like he's interested in me, but he constantly leaves me on "read" on Snap...

Tell me I'm not the only one who thought this might be going on. I'd include a link but house rules forbid that, just search the headline to see more. Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:57PM Tell me I'm not the only one who thought this might be going on. I'd include a link but house rules forbid that, just search the headline to see more.

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Hi :) I need advice. I’m a female age 22 I never dated anybody in my life. No guy has ever showed any interest or really anything. I’m not gorgeous. I’m pretty average looking nothing special lol. I’m average weight 133 pounds. I would say I’m a nice person and with a decent personality. I try online dating but it never worked out for me and lost hope. I could go on and all but really I need help because I feel like a lost case. Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:30PM Hi :) I need advice. I’m a female age 22 I never dated anybody in my life. No guy has ever showed any interest or really anything. I’m not gorgeous. I’m pretty average looking nothing special lol. I’m average weight 133 pounds. I would say I’m a nice person and with a decent personality. I try online dating but it never worked out for me and lost hope. I could go on and all but really I need help because I feel like a lost case.

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Hi, so I met this guy on bumble he was staying in a hotel in a city near mine for a conference or smth, he is a resident doc and we matched and ofc i initiated the conversation (fuck you bumble). We started chatting n calling on phone and he asked me to come for friday night (which was the day before when we talked) but i refused cos duh i dunno u might be a serial killer or some catfish who knows, i asked him to come see me but after insisting he said okay i’ll figure it out maybe take his friend’s car so we agreed to meet in the eve at around 6pm Next day, the day which we were supposed to meet I ofc contacted him to check if he is coming but he said that he is tired and no friend of him can borrow him the car for a min and he started insisting on me coming and there will be free booze, he will drive me home safe whenever i want and all that kinda talk shit but i said NO Wait lol, I am an unpredictable person so all i did is i changed my mind and told myself let me do this as som...

So, I'll start with signs he might like me. My friend believes that these are all possible signs. He asks me to high five him randomly. There's no context, he just asks me to. I ask him why, but he doesn't really reply, so I just high five him. He always asks me to play a mobile game with him. We used to play it last year and he asks me to 1v1 him. He'll bring it up a lot when he's around me, always teasing me for losing. We ride the bus together sometimes. Yesterday I ended up standing next to him and he talked to me. Someone left, so there was an open seat and he asked me if I wanted to sit. Later on the bus, more people left (we get off at the last stop) and he ended up sitting with his sister. There was a seat in between them and he patted the seat, asking me if I wanted to sit. So his sister was on the bus too, and they needed to go on another bus after the one we were on. His sister suggested they get off a stop earlier to get to that bus stop,...

Hii!! So I (18f) got asked on a date by a guy (21m). Problem is, I've never been on a date before (or had a boyfriend or been kissed etc. etc. etc.). I've been asked on a couple dates in the past, but one guy was too old and the other I didn't like and the other other one I chickened out of. It's kind of a unique situation where we matched on a dating app and live in two different cities, but he's visiting my city and wants to take me on a date. We've been talking over text for a few weeks, but the date would be the first time we meet up. (And don't worry I know to meet in a public place/tell friends where I am/etc. etc. etc.) I don't know how much other people know each other before they go on a date, but we know each other fairly well, at least through texting. So my question is, do I tell him? And if so, when? I know there's nothing 'wrong' with not dating until you're older, but I just feel there's a stigma around it, ya know...

As the title says, I don't know why I keep getting my hopes up. I always seem to get attached to the girls I go on dates with. Help lol Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:49PM As the title says, I don't know why I keep getting my hopes up. I always seem to get attached to the girls I go on dates with. Help lol

So I have a date soon with a girl, and I am worried about not being able to hold a conversation, now I talk a lot and consider myself a great communicator but I like this girl a lot (friends before) and sometimes I get nervous this is usually when my mind goes blank and I can’t maintain any banter. Any tips and advice? I think the obvious thing is get over the nerves? I never wanted something to go more right than this so it’s like that is causing me to get nervous. Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:50PM So I have a date soon with a girl, and I am worried about not being able to hold a conversation, now I talk a lot and consider myself a great communicator but I like this girl a lot (friends before) and sometimes I get nervous this is usually when my mind goes blank and I can’t maintain any banter.Any tips and advice? I think the obvious thing is get over the nerves? I never wanted something to go more right than this so it’s like that is causing me to get nervous.

I come to the same hotel all the time and I’ve been here about 6 times now, every time I come here a waitress here gets excited to see me and hugs me and touches me on the arm etc and I want to talk to her more, she seems interested in me. We’ve even got each other’s number and texted a few times. (I’m 19 and she is a few years older but not sure of her age) what should I do? Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:52PM I come to the same hotel all the time and I’ve been here about 6 times now, every time I come here a waitress here gets excited to see me and hugs me and touches me on the arm etc and I want to talk to her more, she seems interested in me. We’ve even got each other’s number and texted a few times. (I’m 19 and she is a few years older but not sure of her age) what should I do?

I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month and been on two dates (both have busy work schedules). We’re going on another date this weekend. Is it too early to ask his intentions? I’m tired to these guys dating and dating all the right things just to get in your pants. I’m not saying I want to be official it’s wayyyy to early but to at least know he is looking for something serious and not casual is important. I know I’m not the best at dating to be honest so only helpful replies please. How do I ask the right way? Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:52PM I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month and been on two dates (both have busy work schedules). We’re going on another date this weekend. Is it too early to ask his intentions? I’m tired to these guys dating and dating all the right things just to get in your pants. I’m not saying I want to be official it’s wayyyy to early but to at least know he is looking for something serious and not casual is important.I know I’m...

This is kinda long but it all started when this girl (17F) and I (17F) were in color guard together as freshman. We were really good friends and we were kinda close throughout freshman year. During a color guard competition sophomore year, she came out to me as lesbian and I came out to her as bisexual. After that I started to develop some feelings for her but I was too afraid to ask her out so I kept those feelings to myself. Unfortunately, she started dating somebody else who we were both friends with. They dated for about a year and I didn't really talk to her during that time because it hurt to see her with someone else. In August, she randomly texted me and asked me to hang out. I said sure cause it had been a few months since I had seen her and it was our senior year plus I had pretty much gotten over my feelings for her. While we were talking she told me that she had broken up with her girlfriend. We have been hanging out a lot lately and I started to have feelings for her ...

Im posting this because I have read a LOT of content on here and based on what I see. Here you go, enjoy. Virgins of Reddit: Stop hating yourself so much. Seriously. There is nothing wrong with having sex all the time or never having sex. Your sexuality is unique to you. No one should ever make you feel bad about it. Virginity isn’t shameful. Don’t think there is a time limit on losing virginity, there isn’t. Don’t force yourself to lose it just to lose it either because you will most likely regret it. Let it be when you’re comfortable, and on your own time. There is legit no rush. And don’t let anyone give you shit for being sexually inexperienced. Everyone has to start somewhere. Take it slow, and make it count. Singles of Reddit: Single life Can be hard. It can be depressing. It can be frustrating. But being single doesn’t mean you are worthless or won’t find love, even if you have been single for a long time. Love takes time. And you can find love in the most odd places. The per...