Me and this girl met about 2 months ago, I told her I had strong feelings for her about 2 weeks ago or so. She told me she felt the same way but i’m getting mixed signals from her. I told her about the rough dating history I have so she knows how I feel about everything. She has a rough dating history too so we’re kind of on the same page. We both need reassurance I always reassure her but she never does the same even though she knows I need it. I tell her all the time she rarely does it. Sometimes she leaves me on read and I have to be the one to text her again. She’s a very attractive woman every guy would think that. But me? i’m not very attractive, Which is why I have a feeling she’s just talking to me because she’s bored. I don’t know if i’m over thinking or not but this situation is odd to me. Why did she say she likes me then gives me mixed signals? There’s other things she does that makes me think this but that’s not really the point. Am I overthinking this? What should i do? ...

I recently cut my hair (now it’s shoulder length), but I didn’t take any pictures yet to post in the date app, so I’m using the ones I still had long blonde hair. Do you guys think this is a problem? Like a guy would feel “betrayed” or catfished because of that? My face is still the same and my body etc just that I have a new haircut. And I’m asking because my girl friend made a drama out of it (in her case I can understand since she gained a lot of weight). Submitted December 08, 2021 at 01:02AM I recently cut my hair (now it’s shoulder length), but I didn’t take any pictures yet to post in the date app, so I’m using the ones I still had long blonde hair. Do you guys think this is a problem? Like a guy would feel “betrayed” or catfished because of that? My face is still the same and my body etc just that I have a new haircut. And I’m asking because my girl friend made a drama out of it (in her case I can understand since she gained a lot of weight).

30M i met this woman on a dating app and she really cute we connect in a weird way i met her parents and she came over for Thanksgiving seeing each other for a month everything was going really well we start to move to the next level more serious when she told me she has herpes now i feel torn i dont know what to do any of you guys can give sone advice. Submitted December 08, 2021 at 01:11AM 30M i met this woman on a dating app and she really cute we connect in a weird way i met her parents and she came over for Thanksgiving seeing each other for a month everything was going really well we start to move to the next level more serious when she told me she has herpes now i feel torn i dont know what to do any of you guys can give sone advice.

So I really like this guy and he likes me back. There’s one issue that’s always in the back of my mind whenever I’ve considered getting into a relationship with him though. He has a transgender sister who started her transition from male to female from the age of 3 and was put on puberty blockers. He supports his parents decision. I don’t believe a 3 year old child would be capable to understand such a concept. When my cousin was little he believed he was superman and jumped from a high place injuring himself in attempt to fly like superman. I’m scared how this guy would raise a child given his parents raised him to believe that it’s ok to transition a 3 year old. What if my son decided to play with a doll one day and then him and his parent start telling my small child they’re trans? Is this a valid concern or am I overthinking? Submitted December 08, 2021 at 01:14AM So I really like this guy and he likes me back. There’s one issue that’s always in the back of my mind whenever...

YES!!! Also, even if you want to put in in the story at all costs, no need to make it so... explicit? Like, it's uncomfortable. That's why I like to watch PG/PG 13 stuff where it shows two people kissing and then a closed door or something like that. It should be like this on other shows/movies too. A five-minute sex scene is just so absolutely unnecessary. December 07, 2021 at 10:32PM

Yeah a lot of people don't understand why I would want to use the word straight. I have experienced sexual attraction before... like a few times in my life. For the vast majority of the time I'm ace, but when I happen to experience sexual attraction I'm heterosexual, not just heteromantic. Honestly I feel like a bit of an imposter trying to say I'm 100% queer when I know I've experienced sexual attraction before. Using both the straight and ace labels makes me feel like less of a liar. December 07, 2021 at 10:30PM

I enjoy a lot of cheesy Hallmark for, well, the cheese, but yeah as an ace person I can’t on any level imagine how anyone could enjoy this kind of thing December 07, 2021 at 10:27PM

Honestly it always bothered me even before I knew I was demi but I could never place my finger on why. I don't understand the push for relationships. I don't see why someone couldn't be happy without one. There's nothing wrong with that. December 07, 2021 at 10:23PM

I'm so sorry about the title. I barely asked one question. December 07, 2021 at 10:21PM

I’ve (F37) never done any hardcore BDSM but I used to enjoy being told what to do, being restrained and a little light choking. My last partner (M38) was very submissive in the bedroom and I called the shots. I was missing being submissive but never said anything. The relationship ended badly and broke my heart. I felt completely out of control due to a lot of emotional manipulation and narcissistic abuse. I fooled around with a super hot friend (M34) of a friend after our Friendsgiving. He was the first person I’ve hooked up with since the breakup. He was going down on me and told me to keep my hands behind my neck. He would sternly remind me to put them back and call me a bad girl when I would reach down to pull his hair. This made me feel very obstinate and I kept putting my hands in his hair and digging my nails into his shoulders. He eventually stopped trying to be dominant. I feel like it was a visceral reaction to not wanting to be controlled and felt like it was more of an...

I came across a forum that found a way to easily access women. In one of the topics, the author interestingly states that there is time for everything in life, even people who have problems with women will finally get their chance. https://maleofthefuture.com/d/465-there-is-a-time-for-everything What do you think about it? Submitted December 08, 2021 at 12:56AM I came across a forum that found a way to easily access women. In one of the topics, the author interestingly states that there is time for everything in life, even people who have problems with women will finally get their chance.https://ift.tt/3pA3bjU do you think about it?

I have been seeing someone on the down low for about a year. He doesn’t want to commit even though he’s aware I’m in love with him. Anyways, recently I saw that he keeps his ex’s explicit photos and they were in his favourites album on his phone. I don’t want to talk to him about but at the same time I don’t know how to feel. Is this a red flag? I don’t know if I should end it or try and forget what I saw. It’s an old photo but it’s in his favourites (feels like an easy access to the photos) Submitted December 08, 2021 at 12:12AM I have been seeing someone on the down low for about a year. He doesn’t want to commit even though he’s aware I’m in love with him. Anyways, recently I saw that he keeps his ex’s explicit photos and they were in his favourites album on his phone. I don’t want to talk to him about but at the same time I don’t know how to feel. Is this a red flag? I don’t know if I should end it or try and forget what I saw. It’s an old photo but it’s in his favourites (f...

that's the amatonormativity. the idea that everyone needs a Single romantic partner to be complete. and it affects literally everyone, being aspec (especially arospec) just tends to make you hyperaware of it. especially when it comes to terms like "the one" "more than friends" and the awful amount of soulmate tropes and aus December 07, 2021 at 10:13PM