TLDR- I’m in quarantine and I’m felling depressed again.. Quarantine So today my country declared an obligatory quarantine for 15 days that can be extended. I have anxiety and I had depression for 2 years. I struggled with that for 2 months but with the help of my bf (21M) I got better, he’s the only one that can make me feel better about all this situation. I will miss him a lot and I’m really scared of going back to my depression, yesterday was the first one i felt anxious in a long time... I’m worried about him about his health, about my family’s health that lives in another country and my grandmother has lung problems. I just wish he could be here so I could hug him And forget about everything that is going on. Pls any advice I’m really struggling, I haven’t got out of bed today, I can’t eat and I’m really scared . Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:19AM TLDR- I’m in quarantine and I’m felling depressed again..QuarantineSo today my country declared an obligatory quarantine for...

I am currently a senior in college and everything was switched to online for my last semester. I was also laid off of my job because of the virus so am out of work. I have been applying for jobs left and right, but have been chilling at home over break. They come home from work and just lay into me about how I have done nothing all day long and don’t have a job. The reality is, is that no place is hiring right now because of Coronavirus. They don’t seem to understand that, but will complain if I go hang out with my friends. Today they really laid into me and we exchanged words and whatever. It’s getting to the point where I’m feeling like a loser for not having a job, but at the same time I know I’m trying, but they’re just not hiring. How can I go forward with telling them that they’re making me feel like shit about myself without burying them? TL;DR: My parents are making me feel like a loser, despite the fact I know I’m not a loser. How do I tell them that they are killing my self...

I don’t even know if I can call it a breakup. I’m trying to stay strong and not cry all over the place so here I am to vent. I’m 33 female who weighs closer to the 200 side. I met this guy when I was 19 in college closer to the 119 side. He was 22 when we met. He was the most beautiful guy I’d ever seen and somehow he took an interest in me. I couldn’t believe it bc my self esteem was at 0. I was a really nice girl back then so I went above and beyond for him bc I really liked him. At the same time I kept waiting for the other shoe to drop. Why would this gorgeous man be into me when he could have any girl he wanted? He was the second person I had sex with and he taught me a lot. I sucked at it though and wanted him to like me desperately so I would try and try harder to please him. Later he told me he liked me back then bc I was trainable and ready to learn anything. He would go weeks without talking to me and I would skip class, binge eat and drink, watch sex and the city, and cry...

A little background: my bf and I are both almost 24 and have been close friends for about 2.5 years, and we recently decided to start dating about 6 months ago. He's always been very kind and respectful towards me and has really proven to be trustworthy, kind to my other friends and family, and reliable. Hes a real great guy and weve began talking about this being a long-term commitment - which I would be on board with. Both of us are very put together and are physically and financially able to care for ourselves if we are on our own or if something happens. The flip side of that is that I do have a very great and promising career that I feel excited about, while he has a very entry-level, "comfortable" job (both us work in IT). He's always been super supportive of my career decisions as well. So, I'm never against anyone who wants to keep a "comfortable" job, however, back when we began talking seriously he requested my assistance with revamping his r...

Hi all! I met this guy~6 months ago, I am incredibly attracted to him, makes every other relationship I’ve had feel like a summer love. We connect really well, and we have great sex. The best I’ve ever had. When we first met he mentioned (after a few glasses of wine) that he is into kinky stuff and has tried many things when he was younger (MFM and FMF threesomes) and kept practicing anal sex on pretty regular basis. His ex partners were all into this. Now, he’s never talked about it again but it stuck on my head because I never realised how conventional my sex life was until this moment. I am a bit standard and had always standard partners I suppose. And now, with him, I feel like spicing things up a bit, and I would love to see him in his essence, it really turns me on just to think about him being a leader? if it makes any sense. But I don’t even know how to start. I bought new sexy underwear and lingerie (online, so I don’t even know how it’ll look on me) as a first step. So any b...

Yes I did loose my virginity at 27 and had my first kiss at 28... I don't know where to start! Ok here comes.. I never had a problem with waiting as virgin, I wanted to give it to someone I'm gonna end up marrying, but I did have a problem with connecting with people as a normal person. I am Male victim of child abuse, I was abused by a female cousin, my class teacher and one of my male friends. Fortunately I never had any actual intercourse with them but they did molest me when I was young. This did mess me up big time, I had lot of questions about myself, also my family was going through a really tough time, so I never entertained any loving relationships till I was 24. All this pain I received from this world actually made me numb from experiencing any pleasure :/ .. I was like this until I met this beautiful girl at my workplace(Lets call her Lesley), she was my coworker it was like love at first sight but she was not into me and she made fun of me that I was a Virgin a...

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I love my GF and our connection but sexually... Im afraid to say that she doesnt satisfies me We're together for 3y now (1living together). I love spending time with her, living the life and the vanilla sex. But I cant hide my kinkyness anymore. Unfortunately she is the vanilla type and im the "crazy" one. I tried to show her the Dom/Sub beggining but she didnt even try, said she didnt feel confortable with it (of course i respected that and didnt try any further). But now I cannot hang any longer with my desires and it makes me sad that I cant do with her.... Am I wrong? Should I try to change my way of kinkying it? Should I try a little more the kinky side of life with her? Thanks guys Submitted March 19, 2020 at 11:59PM I love my GF and our connection but sexually... Im afraid to say that she doesnt satisfies meWe're together for 3y now (1living together). I love spending time with her, living the life and the vanilla sex. But I cant hide my kinkyness any...

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Me and my gf are kinky...and I love it. She likes more rough and dominate sex (me being dominant) and throughout our relationship I’ve certainly become more dominant and rough. I know she’s into kinda light bondage but besides tying her wrists w my belt we haven’t done much of that. I want to explore that w her...but I’m not sure what to do exactly. I have one fantasy that really turns me on but other than that idk what to do...or really HOW to do it. I want to experiment w rope but have no clue what to do...or even how to tie good knots. Any suggestions? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:00AM Me and my gf are kinky...and I love it. She likes more rough and dominate sex (me being dominant) and throughout our relationship I’ve certainly become more dominant and rough. I know she’s into kinda light bondage but besides tying her wrists w my belt we haven’t done much of that.I want to explore that w her...but I’m not sure what to do exactly. I have one fantasy that really turns me on...

So, as I stated my wife will not give oral sex. it sucks I have asked her a bunch of times and its just straight up No. I have asked her why and she doesn't have an answer. It annoys the shit out of me but Idk what else to do. When we have sex it just goes straight to sex, no foreplay or anything just stick it get it done. I want to have oral sex both ways but she doesn't anyone have any suggestions? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:00AM So, as I stated my wife will not give oral sex. it sucks I have asked her a bunch of times and its just straight up No. I have asked her why and she doesn't have an answer. It annoys the shit out of me but Idk what else to do. When we have sex it just goes straight to sex, no foreplay or anything just stick it get it done. I want to have oral sex both ways but she doesn't anyone have any suggestions?

TLDR: My FWBs foreskin does not easily/comfortably pull back. I even think it’s caused his actual penis to become misshapen and I don’t know how to get him to go to the doctor 😩😭😭 I think he needs support through the journey but also someone to be firm with him. But i don’t think it’s that deep w him; he’s pretty emotionally unavailable and it’s always been casual. But dude Idk who else would see his dick though or if they did, idk who would push him to actually go. Hlp We’ve never had intercourse btw. We just mess around. I had gone down on him once before and noticed this. The next time he asked me to go down on him and I was like “ ummmm maybe if your foreskin pulls back(?)”he had said it would pull back to put a condom on for sex. And he got it to pull back finally but he said it did hurt/cause discomfort and I was like ITS NOT SUPPOSED TO HURTTT ;-; so I tried to lightly tell him “uhhh is that ok? Like are you able to pull it back for uh daily maintenance?” (aka the shower, f...

I have been dating a guy [M21] for 5 months and we had been friends with benefits for 5 months so we are very comfortable with each other. And lately I have been noticing that I get so bored and, physically, tired during sex to the point I'm not enjoying and I'm just waiting for it to end. But it's strange because the initial urge is there and I really do want to, but a few minutes into it, I'm over it and when I do climax, I don't feel that satisfaction. ​ So I thought maybe I was losing my sex drive but that doesn't make sense because I do masturbate when he and I go a week without seeing each other due to school. But regardless, I still get that unsatisfied feeling. I don't really want to tell my boyfriend because he is a sweet heart who makes sure I'm enjoying myself but this is one of the "it's not you, it's me" moments I'm trying to figure out. Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:09AM I have been dating a guy [M21] for 5 ...

Say you had nudes of your gf/bf, and then you broke up, would you delete them straight away or keep for X amount of time and why? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:09AM Say you had nudes of your gf/bf, and then you broke up, would you delete them straight away or keep for X amount of time and why?

Just a question based on genuine curiosity. I swear like a sailor both in AND out of bed so the thought of not saying “fuck” every 2 seconds while in the sack is mind blowing. So, what DO you say when you’re having a REAL good time? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:11AM Just a question based on genuine curiosity. I swear like a sailor both in AND out of bed so the thought of not saying “fuck” every 2 seconds while in the sack is mind blowing. So, what DO you say when you’re having a REAL good time?

Hooking up benefits women mostly, right? They can get laid super easily compared to guys. Most guys struggle to get laid, and in this modern dating world which is essentially all about using each other for sex, average guys get left out. Girls seem to enjoy the hookup culture a lot, and choose hookups with guys over steady relationships and monogamy. Even if the guy is super hot, sex is the main reason girls are with guys today in any capacity - in my limited opinion. I often here that girls ARE NOT into casual sex as much as guys are. That girls tend to wanna have sex with guys they have feelings for. I don’t see how this is true, as girls hookup so much. But if we think about: when the world was a “Mans World” so, up until 1960s... minimally ruled. People waited until marriage and most people only had sex with one person. Very vanilla sex too. And since the SEXUAL REVOLUTION, which was created by women I think, promoted and created the hookup culture which we now live in. Women lit...

I see in a lot of places a man eating or getting some of his own cum considered a bad/humiliating thing. But I wonder why? So long story short my dumb ass jerked off in the shower but after I finished I realised the sinkhole isnt in the best shape so some cum would do a bit too mutch of a harm. Without hesitation I just eated it to get rid off the problem. It literally didnt had any noticable taste like if I rename cum to thicc protein water wich can give kids I wouldnt be lying about the taste. It didnt bring any pleasure it was just its own thing but it got me thinking. Its not inherently bad. If it happens it happens. Then why dose it seem like a wrong deed in the wast sea of internet? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:16AM I see in a lot of places a man eating or getting some of his own cum considered a bad/humiliating thing. But I wonder why?So long story short my dumb ass jerked off in the shower but after I finished I realised the sinkhole isnt in the best shape so some cu...

I was telling my husband that I just didn’t feel good about myself today. I’ve been getting a little pudgy and I don’t like how it looks. I was feeling so down. He asked me if I wanted to hear what he sees when he looks at my body. He told me I look soft and voluptuous. Lush and healthy. Curvy and sexy. And then he told me I look so fertile it makes him crazy sometimes. That my body makes him want to breed. He’s never said anything like that before and I’ve never been told something like that. It was amazing. Not only did he make me feel so much better about myself, but it also led to undoubtedly the best and hottest fuck we’ve had. Just had to share! Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:21AM I was telling my husband that I just didn’t feel good about myself today. I’ve been getting a little pudgy and I don’t like how it looks. I was feeling so down. He asked me if I wanted to hear what he sees when he looks at my body.He told me I look soft and voluptuous. Lush and healthy. Curvy ...

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My GF and I have been together about 1.5 years. She's never orgasmed with me. Every time she gets close, she closes her legs and kinda nudges me away with her lower body. After the fact her legs sometimes twitch a little and she needs to roll over and close her eyes for a minute. It's not an orgasm but it's really close. Problem is that I've tried talking to her about it and she gets extremely uncomfortable. I said if she's uncomfortable we can talk over text so that it's a little easier. But she absolutely won't open up to me. One time I even tried asking her over text (I've only brought this up maybe three times over a 1.5 year period). All she said was that I'm making her feel like there's something wrong with her, which I understand but I also kinda want to at least know what's going on. I have a feeling that she's worried about something embarrassing happening when she orgasms. Like maybe she pooped once when she orgasmed and now...

My 50 year old wife has a 25 year old friend who is like a daughter to us. We never had kids so she is the closest thing to a daughter. She comes over every day because she works for us as a caregiver to someone we take care of. We are like a family. The two of them sometimes wrestle, and sometimes the friend hugs her from behind or kisses her on the forehead for too long and wants to hug her all the time and sometimes touches her butt or boobs, meant as a joke. They do tease and joke around a lot but as a guy seeing me wife and her friend touching each other is odd. My wife doesn’t really like it either and sometimes tells her it’s inappropriate and to not do certain things. I don’t know if maybe she is just attention hungry or just has an odd sense of humor, not sure. She views my wife as a mother or sister and she never really had a mother or sister, I’m not sure I should blame her but it seems a little odd. As for me I’m a 58 year old guy and almost a foot taller than her and she ...

So I(17F) have a crush on a guy(17-18M?) that I see on the bus regularly. He looks really intimidating but my friend who was with me once says he seems like an awkward person(Like me lol)...i wanna talk to him and introduce myself but I get so nervous and being honest I’m not very attractive...what do I do? Should I just forget about it and accept nothing will happen? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 12:11AM So I(17F) have a crush on a guy(17-18M?) that I see on the bus regularly. He looks really intimidating but my friend who was with me once says he seems like an awkward person(Like me lol)...i wanna talk to him and introduce myself but I get so nervous and being honest I’m not very attractive...what do I do? Should I just forget about it and accept nothing will happen?

This one hurt. But it could of been worse. I was in the club dark club.. I been getting few numbers through the night. Danced with a few girls didn’t think nothing of it. One of them ended up being a transwomen. I felt so ashamed and violated. I found out 3 weeks after this person hit me up to chill, I was busy that day. I stalked the social media’s ( I have my ways without asking) I always double check. It’s funny because I try to avoid things like this. Something wasn’t right but I was naive. Pictures super edited don’t really remember how the person looked like. I found out that day. Even though after I found the person ended up texting me the truth. I just didn’t respond and blocked the number. (Could of handled it better but I was pissed) all I could think bout was that day in the club I felt violated and ashamed. Usually in situations like this someone in the club would of tapped me on the shoulder or not maybe no one noticed. I feel like they should of told me right then a...