Hi so the title pretty much explains it. i’m (nb18) going on a first date tomorrow but it’s also my first tinder date(m18) ever. I’m not really sure how much physical contact i should do. as a femme presenting nb i feel like i shld b somewhat touchy and i want to hit i don’t want it to b weird. me and this guy have only been talking for like a week and a half for context. any tinder etiquette would be helpful!!! Submitted April 16, 2022 at 12:12AM Hi so the title pretty much explains it. i’m (nb18) going on a first date tomorrow but it’s also my first tinder date(m18) ever. I’m not really sure how much physical contact i should do. as a femme presenting nb i feel like i shld b somewhat touchy and i want to hit i don’t want it to b weird. me and this guy have only been talking for like a week and a half for context. any tinder etiquette would be helpful!!!

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Bruh imagine being allosexual like they cannot even go about their day normally cos they wanna go fuck someone so bad April 15, 2022 at 11:29PM

Same! Why would I want to get involved in that . April 15, 2022 at 11:27PM

Its a little difficult to tell sometimes, I believe I experince some sex drive, a low one definitely. Crushes not really, and because of my low sex drive I don't really look at anyone and think anything sexual, like in the bar example you have I'm not sure if I would accept it if I didn't know the person, my girlfriend was and is really the only person I feel activity sexually attached to. I don't really have a large amount of sexual attraction, if any at all because it's really difficult to tell the difference Thank you for this comment it really helps April 15, 2022 at 11:27PM

The FAQs for this sub is a really great resource April 15, 2022 at 11:24PM

Not how everyone uses the term hot. Not even all allo people. Many differentiate between "hot" and "sexy". April 15, 2022 at 11:23PM

That might be part of it, but it doesn't help that whenever he brings it up he says things like "it's was about time" and "you're finally growing up" and "i was worried about you" . I'm not even pursuing this crush because I realized we aren't compatible and my friend knows this and agrees that I shouldn't pursue it, but he continues to bring up that i'm capable of having a crush. April 15, 2022 at 11:22PM