I panic, do my best to avoid them, in one case I changed jobs (shitty retail, not that hard to throw away and get hired somewhere similar) because it was a coworker... I also try not to give relationship advice though. September 05, 2019 at 11:58PM

Hey everyone so I have been with my girlfriend for over seven years I love her to death and I couldn't imagine my life without her..... however. Our sex life is none existent. I'm an extreamly sexual person and my physical needs are not being met. Idk what to do. Any advice? Submitted September 05, 2019 at 10:57PM Hey everyone so I have been with my girlfriend for over seven years I love her to death and I couldn't imagine my life without her..... however. Our sex life is none existent. I'm an extreamly sexual person and my physical needs are not being met. Idk what to do. Any advice?

Early 20s dude here, I think about sex and vaginas pretty much every 2 minutes. Insatiable, I just want to have sex with half of the girls I see. Jerk off 4 to 5 times a day. I know it's normal to a certain extent, but I can't help feeling guilty-ish because my horniness might cloud how I see women. I feel like I'm always on the lookout for sex, whenever I see a decent-looking women that's what I automatically think of. But that doesn't define her existence, you know? Feel a kind of inner conflict because my horny animalistic side drives me to see women through the lens of my own sexual gratification, but my rational side knows they are way more than that. Am I feeling guilty for no reason? Submitted September 05, 2019 at 10:59PM Early 20s dude here, I think about sex and vaginas pretty much every 2 minutes. Insatiable, I just want to have sex with half of the girls I see. Jerk off 4 to 5 times a day. I know it's normal to a certain extent, but I can'...

he has a little bit of extra chub on his stomach (which is cute bc he’s relatively skinny) and for some reason feeling it makes me feel so safe and comfortable especially when we’re not facing each other Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:03PM he has a little bit of extra chub on his stomach (which is cute bc he’s relatively skinny) and for some reason feeling it makes me feel so safe and comfortable especially when we’re not facing each other

I'm a 22 yo male. I'm a shy introvert and only just found my first girlfriend a few months ago. We had sex for the first time a little while ago. During this I noticed that I struggled to reach a point where I felt like I would orgasm, in fact my girlfriend finished, so I stopped anyway, and we stupidly had no protection and I wasn't going to risk finishing myself. I'm a little concerned about my inability to begin feeling any pleasure myself. Basically I discovered masturbation when I was younger and have done that ever since, so I feel that is to blame, like my body is used to a certain way of reaching an orgasm, so now it finds it hard to during sex. Is this normal? And is there a way to fix it? Would I be best stopping masturbating entirely, to reset my body's expectations? Or perhaps doing it in a way more emulative of sex to get my body used to that instead? Also is it normal that as a guy I don't really feel much pleasure until soon before I climax? My...

So, I'll keep it a short read for everyone. We're both towards the tail end of college and we've been dating about 5 months now. She is a lil bit away but we see each other for extended weekends every week or two, which she will be coming back here come December for good. She's never dated anybody before me, nor has had sex with anyone else. The most she ever did was a kiss in high school, while I have a bit more experience. We both engage in oral sex and fool around in other ways quite a bit, but in these 5 months we haven't had sex. We almost did at one point and she said she wanted to, but she wasn't on birth control at the time so we didn't. That was about 2 months ago or so now and I haven't really brought it up since but I've been thinking about doing so. I don't wanna pressure her into taking anything she doesn't want to so I'm just asking for advice on the best way to approach this? Should I bring up potentially getting her on ...

While I (20f) know that everyone is different since I had penetrative sex for the first time (a week and a half ago) I've been wondering- does everyone have a g-spot? I've heard it is less of an anatomical structure and more of a phenomenon so I know you can't feel it. When my partner (18m) or I try to stimulate the part of my vagina where my g-spot should be (according to many others) even experiment with stimulating different locations it just feels like I have to pee, not really stimulating. I only really feel anything when it comes to my vagina around the entrance and when he pushes into what I think is my cervix (which is about 3.5-4 inches in, squishy and it always feels good as long as he doesn't slam into it.) This doesn't upset me at all if I don't have one/can't find it. The sex I have right now is great and I wouldn't change it at all, just wondering more than anything if not everyone has a g-spot. I don't care much to explore and find ...

More precisely, remnants of masturbation in the air. Been married for over a decade. Love my wife. She might be horrified if I disclosed this to her? Hence crowd sourcing. I can tell when she’s jilled off. I walk in to our bedroom after work, some days, I can smell her sex in the air. Very very hot. Love it! I’ve made small talk about what she did during the day and have always found a strong correlation between when she’s jilled off and when I smell the sweetness in the air. I don’t mind it whatsoever. curious if others have made similar observations. Umm smells yummy in here lol. Here’s to all our awesome senses, particularly smell ;) Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:19PM More precisely, remnants of masturbation in the air. Been married for over a decade. Love my wife. She might be horrified if I disclosed this to her? Hence crowd sourcing. I can tell when she’s jilled off. I walk in to our bedroom after work, some days, I can smell her sex in the air. Very very hot. Love it...

Looking for a clean baby shave but no idea how without cutting it off Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:20PM Looking for a clean baby shave but no idea how without cutting it off

My bf and I have had trouble due to the fact that he has a bad obsession with porn (which is fine, watch porn idc. It was a problem because he was lying to me about watching porn. Basically, at the beginning of our relationship, HE established a no porn rule for the two of us, and I was like ok w/e. And he has been masturbating to porn or looking at it behind my back basically every chance he could when I wasn't around or was asleep next to him.) We have sex almost every day, btw. Sometimes we would fuck and when I would fall asleep the first thing he would do is pull it up. So I thought maybe i could help appease him by taking photos and videos and stuff and sending them to him to use when he is horny to masturbate to instead of the other porn since I'm still not allowed to watch porn. I just thought it's only fair, and he agreed. Well when he got them, all he said was "thanks" There wasn't any like acknowledgement of me or my body or the way I was dressed ...

So there’s this guy I’ve been having sex with occasionally, and we have pretty rough sex with the choking, hair pulling, aggressiveness, etc. However, recently he asked me to be more dominant in bed but I’m not really sure how to do that? I’m so used to the other person taking charge, that the most “dominant” thing I’ve done is being on top. When I asked him what he meant he said to just be more aggressive like pushing him on the bed and things like that. Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:28PM So there’s this guy I’ve been having sex with occasionally, and we have pretty rough sex with the choking, hair pulling, aggressiveness, etc. However, recently he asked me to be more dominant in bed but I’m not really sure how to do that? I’m so used to the other person taking charge, that the most “dominant” thing I’ve done is being on top. When I asked him what he meant he said to just be more aggressive like pushing him on the bed and things like that.

My ex and I broke up last August, and had been together for a bit over five years. I was pretty torn up over the whole thing despite knowing it was a pretty shitty relationship. I was in therapy for a couple months, but while there really only focused on my own contributions to the failure of our relationship because I figured hey, that's all I can really change going forward right? And things got better, the whole general healing process, etc etc. I've been seeing someone new since June, and was generally feeling pretty dang good and over the whole thing. Then towards the end of July, a friend confided in me a story about her ex having sex with her while she was passed out drunk, which, let's call it what it is, was clearly rape. I was shocked and appalled, but then once it sank in, I was like, wait a second. My ex did the same thing, or similar, to me on three occasions that I know of. I say similar, because in one instance, while yes I was absolutely hammered, I cle...

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We have a really healthy sex life in general, never had much of an issue. Recently found out he masturbates to girls on reddit, and for some reason that makes me feel shitty. I've openly said I'm okay with things like pornhub, but told him reddit is a no-no. I can't quite figure out why the difference bothers me so much. But even after telling him it doesn't feel right with me, he continues to do it. It makes me not desire sex as much because I feel like I dont satisfy him (hes only watching anal mostly, which I've tried to do but dislike doing). How do I communicate why reddit is different than other online porn? Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:45PM We have a really healthy sex life in general, never had much of an issue. Recently found out he masturbates to girls on reddit, and for some reason that makes me feel shitty.I've openly said I'm okay with things like pornhub, but told him reddit is a no-no. I can't quite figure out why the differ...

Basically this would simply be to learn more about ourselves sexually, he was a virgin, I've only been with one other person and she was a woman so I have no prior male experience. We have been together almost 4 years, he is truly an amazing boyfriend, my best friend, when it comes to sex... well I don't know because I have no point of reference really. I feel like we should be doing things differently but we don't know how. I still feel we are inexperienced even after 4 years. The sex definitely isn't bad but after hearing other people talk about sex it doesn't sound like the same thing. So I don't know if it's me or him or if we're incompatible (which would really fucking suck). The only way I can think is basically an experiment, we have sex with other people and figure it out. I completely trust him, but if this did end up in a breakup I would be really sad of course but at least we would know. I really want him to have sex with someone else honestl...

My husband (40) and me (32) have a couple kids. Earlier in our relationship sex was frequent. It was nice to have that time together. We've been married for 0 years and together for 12. We have 2 kids. Sex nowadays is once a month IF I'm lucky. He has some back issues etc and stressed from his job which is understandable. But lately well for the past year or so he's chosen playing video games over spending time with me. Lately I texted him when I'm laying in bed(and hes downstairs staring at the tv) sexy things etc words or special lingerie I have been thinking of buying and wanted his opinion most of the time he's been ignoring it. Well yesterday our child did poorly at practice and they got yelled. Hubby just broke down because hes trying to get them to understand things and they just ignore him etc. Well I'm sick of hearing hubby yell so after our kids go to bed I do as well and face the wall covered up. Well he comes up stairs for a minute and just says how...

32/m. For most of my teen years and into my early 20s, I thought I was just a terrible kisser. Girls would tell me what to do with my tongue, and I just couldn't do it. My cunnilingus game wasn't exactly strong either. It wasn't until after I graduated college that I met a dental hygeinest at a bar one night who pulled away when we were making out, inspected my mouth, and romantically whispered, "You know you've got a super thick frenulum that prevents your tongue from moving as freely as it should." It suddenly all made sense. Does anyone else have this issue as an adult? If so, do you tell your partners about it upfront? Any tips for getting around it? I'm at a point in my life where I'm actively taking a break from dating for the next year or so while I focus on grad school, so I'm thinking about getting it corrected surgically. I've heard some horror stories though, so I'm not entirely sure how to proceed. My speech is fine, so I...

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So I never orgasm from sex. PIV doesn't do it for me (as pleasurable as it is). Even when a guy fingers me or goes down on me, it can never get me over the edge. I can make myself come by pressing against my clit with some sort of material in between, but any direct contact with it inevitably hurts. It will feel good until it suddenly doesn't. Not sure if it's too sensitive or what, but I experience sharp pain if I rub it with my fingers. Even someone's tongue on it will hurt, especially if they flick their tongue there. Anyway, I want to get a sex toy. If something could make me come, that would be amazing. Especially if my partner could control it and direct its movements. Any suggestions? Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:52PM So I never orgasm from sex. PIV doesn't do it for me (as pleasurable as it is). Even when a guy fingers me or goes down on me, it can never get me over the edge.I can make myself come by pressing against my clit with some sort of ...

Basically the title. I’d like to message my boyfriend an explicit message while he’s asleep. We’re long distance so it’s not something I can just do to him tomorrow, but, as a guy, would you like waking up to one or two explicit messages around the subject of ‘wanting him’? Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:55PM Basically the title. I’d like to message my boyfriend an explicit message while he’s asleep. We’re long distance so it’s not something I can just do to him tomorrow, but, as a guy, would you like waking up to one or two explicit messages around the subject of ‘wanting him’?

In previous girls I’ve talked to, I seem to have an issue with them talking about a joke or an event Over and over they keep talking about it and idk how to change the topic to keep her interest. Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:37PM In previous girls I’ve talked to, I seem to have an issue with them talking about a joke or an event Over and over they keep talking about it and idk how to change the topic to keep her interest.

Can I get some suggestions on how to get a guy to ask you out ? Specifically by setting up a date and time ? I often prod them indicating or hinting my availability and interest in meeting in person. But they are often lazy to set something up and I gotta do all the work 😒 Submitted September 05, 2019 at 11:50PM Can I get some suggestions on how to get a guy to ask you out ? Specifically by setting up a date and time ?I often prod them indicating or hinting my availability and interest in meeting in person. But they are often lazy to set something up and I gotta do all the work 😒