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Should I settle?

So my ex fiancé (M28) and I (F31) have been together for 6 years. I recently broke up with him 2 weeks ago because throughout our entire relationship he was very dependent on me. When we first got together he had a lot of mental health issues and I was with him through all that supporting and encouraging him the best I could. We lived together and I would cook and clean and work 40 hrs a week. I started feeling like his mom eventually and in return he was not always very nice to me. He would call me derogatory names, would get easily offended at almost everything I’d say, sometimes would publicly embarrass me and when I would call him out on it he would just say “stop caring what other people think, we’re not the Kardashian’s”. He was very selfish and the relationship was about him and his needs and I always gave in to him to avoid arguments. He’s also very pushy and can be controlling. I admit I should have been more assertive and advocated for myself more, however the few times I d...

/u/Hylethilei on Ace males, how often do people think you're gay?

Basically ever single day of my life LOL its comical to me thought jokes on them August 13, 2022 at 11:19PM

/u/Purple-Ad8299 on Representation

In sex education there is someone who is asexual, but she doesn't play a big role in the show August 13, 2022 at 11:19PM

A girl I have a crush joked about getting with me

So there's this girl I crush on I've known her for years but I never felt there was anything between us. Our parents are really good friends so occasionally we come face to face one. One of these times our parents suggested we should go out with each other she instantly rejected the idea and was really angry with her parents for suggesting it. So I left it at that and moved on, it's been years since then and I've matured alot within that time. About a month ago my mom needed to drop something off to them so I went with her in the car, I stayed in the car while she went in and the girl came out and we started talking. I have very little experience with talking to women and I'm very shy however I could speak to her with ease and felt a connection between us. Since then I've been debating if she felt anything towards me but I've always been to afraid to message her. During this time I've been trying to improve myself by looking for a new job that's w...

/u/saltyoverchips on oh cool, representation! a book I'll read to my son –

Take my angry upvote August 13, 2022 at 11:19PM

/u/names-arehard on how do i tell my ace boyfriend im not ace

If you guys don't work out it'll be less messy than allo breakups and you could prob stay as good friends August 13, 2022 at 11:18PM