This is true. I was explaining this to someone today also. Everyone is different and that is just part of what makes us human! May 14, 2023 at 12:59AM

Oh it’s just us? Well… this meeting got awkward. May 14, 2023 at 12:58AM

Start working out and even that will disappear. This is a bit anecdotal and no scientific backing so take this with a grain of salt. I have been the same. Throughout the month, I would be indifferent to sexual thoughts and even finding suggestive remarks a bit cringe. I would think of sex as the "think married people do to have children" or the "thing adults do." Then, my period hits, and for three days, I feel like I am studying boys (their behaviour)or noticing them. After that, it's gone. But recently, I started doing home workouts and became more regular with my cycling routine and voila, the sexual attraction went out the window. Do I like it? Not really. It isn't like it was shown in the movies. May 14, 2023 at 12:58AM

Hello Reddit! So recently a girl (27) ask me for my number girl (20). We are 7 years apart which idk if that’s a little too weird. I guess what I’m trying to figure out is whether or not I’m being lured in to a trap just because I’m younger than her. She compliments me sometimes by saying cute but nothing sexual has come up. I just don’t know what signs to look out for if I’m being targeted by someone who’s older than me or she just wants to get to know me. I set up a time to hangout which is next Friday only because I don’t have time due to finals. So what are some red flags I should look out for in the texting stage of this relationship? Or signs that she could just want me for pleasure. Submitted May 14, 2023 at 01:11AM Hello Reddit! So recently a girl (27) ask me for my number girl (20). We are 7 years apart which idk if that’s a little too weird. I guess what I’m trying to figure out is whether or not I’m being lured in to a trap just because I’m younger than her. She compl...

How do you ask someone out/show interest in someone? I’ve never been successful in getting a date/relationship if I were the one who pursued. But no one pursues me either as I have been single for almost 5 years…so it looks like I need to be the one to pursue so I’m wondering how people who are successful do it. Submitted May 14, 2023 at 12:16AM How do you ask someone out/show interest in someone? I’ve never been successful in getting a date/relationship if I were the one who pursued. But no one pursues me either as I have been single for almost 5 years…so it looks like I need to be the one to pursue so I’m wondering how people who are successful do it.

Well not all of us can rule! May 13, 2023 at 11:08PM