As someone who went most my life not knowing I was grey-ace, I can relate to this. I didn't know anything about the ace spectrum so I just thought something was wrong with me most of my life. I honestly thought I was just not a very good heterosexual. I lacked the vocabulary and it caused me to never consider myself as part of the LGBTQIA+ community. Even now that I do know and do have the vocabulary, I'm still processing becoming part of the LGBTQIA+ community. I hear you and can definitely see where you're coming from. June 30, 2020 at 11:52PM