:o Me too!! Have you played the story yet? March 28, 2023 at 01:18AM

I 18(f) have been dating Ryan (24M) for three months now. I really like him and I can see a future for the two of us quite easily (he's brought up living together and things like that too) However, he has been married before and she left him a couple years ago. He hadn't been with anyone after her until me and it's been one of the reasons he was so against going out in the beginning, because she really messed up his self-esteem. Whenever he talks about it (casual conversation) I can tell it hurt him a lot that she left so I always just say things like "I'm right here" or "I've got you" But I don't know what actually happened. Like I said, she's brought up in causal conversation but that's it. Like, I'll suggest we go to the beach or something and he'll say he's only been a few times with his ex-wife because he doesn't really like the beach. It's very casual but I'd like to know what happened or how he feels ...

As others have said, I doubt it's actually less but rather it never crosses their mind due to societal pressure. And lack of awareness on the attraction vs libido and the SAM. March 28, 2023 at 12:13AM

I desperately wanted children… March 28, 2023 at 12:11AM

​ So, the title pretty much speaks for itself. I (soon to be 20AMABNB) recently hung out with a guy (21M) that Ive been talking to a lot lately. We had a pretty good time, went and played arcade games, bought ice cream, and had pretty good banter. We clicked super well. However, I was very casual in asking to spend time together, and ended up asking to hang out with him instead of asking to go on an *actual* date with him, and I'm really mad at myself for it. I've never really been in a relationship before, or even went on a real date for that matter. Both because I was, and honestly still somewhat am conventionally ugly, and because I have bad social anxiety so I fear/dread making first moves, and lack the knowledge to in general. I like this guy, I genuinely do and want to mutually explore the notion of going steady with each other. But I don't know shit about dating, and I don't know how to ask him to hangout again, but as in an *actual*, full on date. If anyone...

I met this girl last weekend while I was on a trip and we seemed to hit it off. She kept telling me that she had to work next weekend but she wanted me to come and see her. She said there would be plenty of time to talk at her job and that she wouldn’t be busy. I got her Snapchat but she doesn’t seem to use it very often bc she hasn’t responded to me yet. I was just wondering if I should drive out and see her without saying anything or would that be weird? Submitted March 28, 2023 at 12:15AM I met this girl last weekend while I was on a trip and we seemed to hit it off. She kept telling me that she had to work next weekend but she wanted me to come and see her. She said there would be plenty of time to talk at her job and that she wouldn’t be busy. I got her Snapchat but she doesn’t seem to use it very often bc she hasn’t responded to me yet. I was just wondering if I should drive out and see her without saying anything or would that be weird?