Well I have been with my girlfriend of 3 years now in bed, and we’re both 19 and everyone we have sex or anything related. I literally just would rather go down on her then just have sex or have her go down on me. Just kinda wondering if anyone knows why this is ? Also am I alone in this ? I love her tons and she is great but just curious it’s finally made me post this ! Thanks ! Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:01AM Well I have been with my girlfriend of 3 years now in bed, and we’re both 19 and everyone we have sex or anything related. I literally just would rather go down on her then just have sex or have her go down on me. Just kinda wondering if anyone knows why this is ? Also am I alone in this ?I love her tons and she is great but just curious it’s finally made me post this !Thanks !

So it has been a while since I last had sex (half a year), and last weekend I had a quite intense session with a new partner. We used condom for intercourse, but we both gave oral to each other. I was a bit drunk and I believe that in the heat of the moment I rubbed my penis quite a lot against the sofa/bed. Remember it hurting a bit, but didn't care at the moment, lol. So, on top of that, for unrelated reasons, I didn't shower in almost 48 h. (Very bad decision, I learn my lesson...). After these 2 days I noticed that my glans is a bit irritated, not in the tip but towards the bottom (looks a bit like a rash, somehow), and also in the part right below the glans that connects to the body of the penis. I really don't know when it appeared, since it does not hurt, but it has never happened to me after sex. I kind of remember something similar on my dick when I was younger, due to death grip problems, which went away just by washing and waiting. But I cannot really rememb...

I’ve come to the realisation that I’m just never going to enjoy sex. I never really enjoy sex it just feels like nothing to me or doesn’t really stimulate me at all. It’s worse when I’m nervous because even touching myself won’t make the experience any better. Every time I have sex I just feel gross and horrible about myself. I just wish I didn’t have urges because I know I’m not going to enjoy it at the end. I’ve gone about this so many different ways and it’s just hopeless at this point. I just want my sex drive to completely disappear... Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:05AM I’ve come to the realisation that I’m just never going to enjoy sex. I never really enjoy sex it just feels like nothing to me or doesn’t really stimulate me at all. It’s worse when I’m nervous because even touching myself won’t make the experience any better. Every time I have sex I just feel gross and horrible about myself. I just wish I didn’t have urges because I know I’m not going to enjoy it at the...

Whenever I’m in bed with a person I know I feel good with I don’t have to ask this because it’ll be REAL. But what about the people who are OK at it and it feels good but it could be better and you really like them and it’s complicated but anyways! I don’t necessarily fake my moans. But if the sex isn’t GREAT... it’s not exactly genuine. And because it’s sort of... acting? I’m never sure if my pitch is right or if it’s too annoying or if it’s turning him off! What do you guys think? Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:06AM Whenever I’m in bed with a person I know I feel good with I don’t have to ask this because it’ll be REAL. But what about the people who are OK at it and it feels good but it could be better and you really like them and it’s complicated but anyways! I don’t necessarily fake my moans. But if the sex isn’t GREAT... it’s not exactly genuine. And because it’s sort of... acting? I’m never sure if my pitch is right or if it’s too annoying or if it’s turning him off! Wh...

I've already made two posts and this, and this is my 3rd and final try. Hopefully I might get it right this time, so thanks for bearing with me. I know there are those who are going to say that there's no correlation between a woman's attractiveness and her sexual skill. I would contend that there's a sweet spot .... A woman who is VERY attractive may have less motivation to be skilled at sex because she's used to having lots of guys throwing themselves at her. And the woman who is very unattractive may have social issues in that she has little care whatsoever of how she visually presents herself, and it would go along that she has just as little interest in being sexually skilled and wanting to please any partner. Which leaves the sweet spot. Goldilocks . She's not drop dead gorgeous enough for guys to pedestalize her (no sex effort needed) and not drop dead ugly as a result of social issues which carry over into sex. The average looking women mostly turn o...

Hi, Im a male in my twenties and ive never had sex and ive been told my friends that its the best feeling in the world and that its impossible for guys to live without it. I have been hearing this for years from all sorts of people and its starting to make me feel like shit . I feel like i starting to get depressed and I have sereve depression and have psychological problems . I feel its what everyone talks about now and ive been told by many people that im ugly and will never have sex. My parents told me that if i have sex ill get Aids and die. I deal with alot of stress but its makes me sad that I might never have that experience. What do you guys think , should I just wait until someone comes or should I just accept the fact that im ugly and will never have sex in my life. Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:10AM Hi,Im a male in my twenties and ive never had sex and ive been told my friends that its the best feeling in the world and that its impossible for guys to live without...

About 6 years ago my younger brother got into the My Little Pony thing that was meming around the internet. Like way into it. Going to conventions and joining a local group. We all figured it was just a phase, so outside of occasionally joining my dad in giving him crap about it, we didn't really see it as harmful. The dude has always been nerdy so it was just another nerdy thing. Differences aside, we've both always been really close. Basically my parents put the "make sure he doesn't end up doing something stupid" burden on me being the older brother. I'm 2 years older than him. Anyway, all through high school I did a bit of attempted matchmaking to get him a girl since I've always been the more extroverted of the two of us, and he straight up rejected it every time. I and my dad started to think maybe he was gay or something, which would be fine. Or just weirded out by his brother trying to hook him up. Turns out that wasn't the case at all. Righ...

We have talked a lot about how to spice up our sex life. She is quite conservative and has been very shy (maybe even hesitant) up until recently. This morning she shocked me, in a great way. She forgot my car keys from when I leant her my car on the weekend. I told her not to worry about it, as she was upset. Then she said “you can punish me later”. I was over the moon! BUT, then I realized I don’t know what to do or how to play it. I don’t want to go too kinky too fast, but I want to do something more heightened than our regular, go-to, fairly vanilla ... Any ideas or advice? Much appreciated! Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:11AM We have talked a lot about how to spice up our sex life. She is quite conservative and has been very shy (maybe even hesitant) up until recently. This morning she shocked me, in a great way. She forgot my car keys from when I leant her my car on the weekend. I told her not to worry about it, as she was upset. Then she said “you can punish me later”. ...

So I (30m) have been seeing my girlfriend (f22) for about 7 months now. In all that time she's never cum. She's been very open about the fact that she has never cum with a partner and very rarely by herself. I've reassured her that I'm ok with that and that we can try anything she wants. I also never made it a point to try and make her cum to me sex is more than that. I myself have trouble cumming and have found, for me, that while that feels good it's not the end all and be all of sex. I'd rather have good sex where I dont cum then bad sex where I do. But last week we were just in a groove and while fingering her and kissing/biting her breast she came. It was the sexiest thing ever. I could feel her shake in my hands and then starts pushing me away, I kept going. Which I will point out is something we've discussed and shes more than ok with. We have a safe word for that specific reason. Which she eventually used. She laid in the bead breathing heavily an...

Tried this after a YouTuber I follow did it. I'm not to sure about the Daddy/Mommy part but its a fun quiz. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 97% Exhibitionist 95% Voyeur 89% Master/Mistress 85% Dominant 84% Primal (Hunter) 71% Rigger 56% Owner 49% Brat tamer 43% Experimentalist 43% Daddy/Mommy 43% Vanilla 37% Switch 36% Non-monogamist 12% Pet 8% Primal (Prey) 3% Submissive 2% Degradee 2% Slave 1% Brat 1% Degrader 1% Sadist 1% Masochist 1% Boy/Girl 0% Rope bunny 0% Ageplayer Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:13AM Tried this after a YouTuber I follow did it. I'm not to sure about the Daddy/Mommy part but its a fun quiz.== Results from bdsmtest.org ==97% Exhibitionist95% Voyeur89% Master/Mistress85% Dominant84% Primal (Hunter)71% Rigger56% Owner49% Brat tamer43% Experimentalist43% Daddy/Mommy43% Vanilla37% Switch36% Non-monogamist12% Pet8% Primal (Prey)3% Submissive2% Degradee2% Slave1% Brat1% Degrader1% Sadist1% Masochist1% Boy/Girl0% Rope bunny0%...

Within the last few weeks I have become sexually active with a friend of a few years, nothing more than that. The first time we had hooked up I even took plan B the following day as I did skip one of my pills a week before due to being away from home for work. Better to pay the $50 and be safe than sorry. We did not use a condom. I take my birth control religiously and it has never failed me in the 10 years I have been taking it, despite missing one here and there and the almighty has yet to strike me. Well within the last 3 - 4 days I have been dealing with some nausea and really bad bowel movements. Like lower cramping, frequent bowel movements. No vomiting and the nausea is tolerable. Now this didnt really throw up any flags because I also have IBS, it runs in my family and running to the bathroom after a meal is pretty typical for me. My period isn't due until next week and here I am again worrying half to death that I could be pregnant and that my pill finally failed me. I...

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Ok, I know every women is different but do y’all think it’s weird for a guy to be upfront when asking you out? Maybe something along the lines of “hey I think you’re really cute, I was wondering if you might want to go grab some food or something”. The girl I want to ask out, we haven’t talked that much at all. She’s a waitress at a restaurant I go to often. She knows my name and what not but besides that we’ve had few words exchanged. I just really like her and I’m hoping being upfront won’t backfire and make things awkward. Submitted February 18, 2020 at 11:56PM Ok, I know every women is different but do y’all think it’s weird for a guy to be upfront when asking you out? Maybe something along the lines of “hey I think you’re really cute, I was wondering if you might want to go grab some food or something”.The girl I want to ask out, we haven’t talked that much at all. She’s a waitress at a restaurant I go to often. She knows my name and what not but besides that we’ve had few...

Obligatory on mobile, first post, throwaway etc. So I am in a pretty well-known US university, and I have a solid friend group of like 4 girls and 4 guys, there is a guy (20M) in this friend group whom i have gotten close to over the last year, and within the last month, determined that I have a crush on. I have talked to a couple of my friends, one of whom is in the same group and a couple outside of the group, and they think that i should tell him, but i am more struggling with the how. I would ideally like to tell him in person, but I don’t know how to ask him to hang out, just the two of us because we’ve never done that before, it’s always just been in a group. This brings me to my question which is, how do i ask him to talk one on one, or is it acceptable to express feelings over text and also in general how does one go about telling someone ones feelings? Thanks in advance and sorry for the probably terribly worded question Submitted February 18, 2020 at 11:58PM Obliga...

So I (F21) am currently in a relationship and we’ve been together for only 6 months. My bf (M23) is not a perfect guy but he really is a nice person and I do like him a lot. I had a huge crush on him when we first met about a year ago and I was the one who asked him out. So he never had a gf before and I am his first everything - first kiss, first gf and so on - whereas I had a very long relationship before him so I would say I am so much more experienced than he is. I actually don’t have a problem with him being so new to this kinda relationship things but I do have high expectations since my ex was like the perfect bf one could ever ask for. My current bf does understand the situation and he tried quite hard to meet my expectations- which I really appreciate- but there were moments that left me confused about my relationship... I feel like he doesn’t love me the way I want to be loved and he only treats me like a good friend (except that we also kiss etc.) and it just doesn’t feel r...

So some background to start off I suppose, I'm 15, very nearly 16, female, and he's 16. We're in 10th grade, and have known each other since 5th grade. We've had kind of a weird history. In 5th grade, he liked me. A lot. Even the teacher thought so, but I just thought he was really annoying because I didn't understand why he wanted my attention all the time. Then in 6th grade, we had basically the exact same schedule, and were seated next to each other in every class we had together. We're no where near each other in the alphabet. That was the beginning of a series of weird coincidences that culminated in me falling head over heels for him. And I thought he liked me too. He was always trying to find ways to touch me (not in a weird way, like he'd rest his foot on top of mine when we were seated) and he was always talking to me. We had a pretty good relationship for a while, and near the end of 7th grade I got up the nerve to ask him out. Which was stupid, b...

Okay so to start off I’m F 20 he’s M 22. I messaged this guy I find really attractive we’re friends on snap and he likes my Instagram posts all the time (not a big deal but it’s 2020 gives more insight). I decided to shoot my shot today over snap. Basically he said being honest he just “very recently got back into a relationship” I know it’s true because we both have somewhat mutual friends so he isn’t lying about that. Basically I responded with “okay, I appreciate the honesty if all else fails you know where to find me 🥴” he responded with “of course 😉” (I DONT PLAN ON RUINING HIS RELATIONSHIP) but let’s say months down the road him and his gf do end... is that flirty of him to say of course with a wink emoji or do men possibly say that just to be nice?? Just some advice from older, wiser people either men or women would be lovely to hear from!! Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:12AM Okay so to start off I’m F 20 he’s M 22. I messaged this guy I find really attractive we’re...

I’m a (21M) and I really like this (21F) I have a question I hope it’s doesn’t spike controversy, but are the zodiac sign stereotypes and traits real? I just got into this and it worries me I’m a gemini and the girl is aries I wanted opinions about this, to make sure if this is legit or it’s just some gigantic superstition Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:14AM I’m a (21M) and I really like this (21F)I have a question I hope it’s doesn’t spike controversy, but are the zodiac sign stereotypes and traits real? I just got into this and it worries me I’m a gemini and the girl is aries I wanted opinions about this, to make sure if this is legit or it’s just some gigantic superstition

I'm a 26 year old male with no female friends and wanna know where i can build my social skills and confidence up to talk to any type of woman from any level of attractiveness. I wanna become a confident male with women that would make me nervous or shy. Keep in mind i am a 5'7 man and i wanna even feel no intimidation from taller woman Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:15AM I'm a 26 year old male with no female friends and wanna know where i can build my social skills and confidence up to talk to any type of woman from any level of attractiveness. I wanna become a confident male with women that would make me nervous or shy. Keep in mind i am a 5'7 man and i wanna even feel no intimidation from taller woman

The less it attracted to someone or into them the more I can playfully tease or flirt. Yet when I like someone I’m a fumbling mess who blushes profusely. SOS Submitted February 18, 2020 at 11:40PM The less it attracted to someone or into them the more I can playfully tease or flirt. Yet when I like someone I’m a fumbling mess who blushes profusely. SOS

I know that most Asian American women prefer white guys. But would you ever prefer Asian guys? What can I do? Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:10AM I know that most Asian American women prefer white guys. But would you ever prefer Asian guys? What can I do?

I went on a first date with a guy and had a good time. It was iffy during the date but he was a nice guy and we did get along well. Afterwards he was enthusiastic about a second date and I agreed as I was having a good time and didn’t want to disappoint him. After sleeping on it and processing the date I realize I don’t want to pursue anything further. I plan to let him know how I feel soon but should I feel bad that I said yes initially? I felt kinda put on the spot and felt too awkward to say “I don’t know” or “maybe”. Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:16AM I went on a first date with a guy and had a good time. It was iffy during the date but he was a nice guy and we did get along well. Afterwards he was enthusiastic about a second date and I agreed as I was having a good time and didn’t want to disappoint him.After sleeping on it and processing the date I realize I don’t want to pursue anything further. I plan to let him know how I feel soon but should I feel bad that I said...