Should I feel bad for saying yes to a second date?

I went on a first date with a guy and had a good time. It was iffy during the date but he was a nice guy and we did get along well. Afterwards he was enthusiastic about a second date and I agreed as I was having a good time and didn’t want to disappoint him.

After sleeping on it and processing the date I realize I don’t want to pursue anything further. I plan to let him know how I feel soon but should I feel bad that I said yes initially? I felt kinda put on the spot and felt too awkward to say “I don’t know” or “maybe”.

Submitted February 19, 2020 at 12:16AM

I went on a first date with a guy and had a good time. It was iffy during the date but he was a nice guy and we did get along well. Afterwards he was enthusiastic about a second date and I agreed as I was having a good time and didn’t want to disappoint him.After sleeping on it and processing the date I realize I don’t want to pursue anything further. I plan to let him know how I feel soon but should I feel bad that I said yes initially? I felt kinda put on the spot and felt too awkward to say “I don’t know” or “maybe”.