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/u/RandomDragonExE on Very Confused

fiery sensation that goes through your body too. Heartbeat quickens as well. I've experienced that before, but that was romantic attraction. Mainly because I also had the urge to get close to her emotionally, hold hands, hug, cuddle, and kiss. Did you feel those feelings too? January 28, 2023 at 01:16AM

Pros and cons of dating ?

i (M, 26) have had quite an interesting life since turning 18, between a highly demanding field of study, clinical depression, switching careers, crazy nights and painful mornings, etc. so at some point i thought like i should get my shit together, became hyperfocused on getting the degree, graduated a year ago and now i have two jobs, one that pays the rent, the other is entry level in my field, i have two days off, during which i find my time with friends to be highly energizing and stress-free, i have quite a sizeable group of friends as u can see and we have been together through good and bad, now i had one serious gf before for a couple of yrs, the rest of the time was more about back and forth and games, etc. either i didn't have the time nor responsibility for someone else or i was always pushing for sth to get done or add new activities to improve my health, mental and physical, now am still in the same place, i actually do like staying single and during the worst times i ...

What to do about girl can't see for month, mixed vibes, and semi-failed attempt?

There's a lady from home I am interested in, who I originally picked up the vibe was interested in me as well. I have hung out with her in group settings a few times and picked up her number. I won't see her for a month. I texted her about 3 weeks after I went back off to Uni just asking how she was, and the conversation was originally going well but it eventually got dry after a day. Eventually, I asked her to add me on socials, to which she said she will add me. Almost directly afterwards, the conversation sort of ended/got dry so I didn't respond to her last message and left it at that. She never added me on the socials. I thought I just wouldn't respond since the conversation was either way drying up and it was too much talking for someone I wouldn't see for a while. I thought I'd text her in a few days and just make a joke or something. What do y'all think is the best course of action? Submitted January 28, 2023 at 12:10AM There's a lady f...

I’m in love with my neighbor (Kinda).

I’m 20(m) and I have a massive love/crush on my neighbor for like 3 years. We both stay on the same floor and literally all our friends are in the same circle, so not seeing isn’t possible. I have confessed my feelings before only for the issue not to be touched on, no matter how many times it comes up, because we want different things. Personally I don’t want a relationship with her (in the dating sense), and I don’t know what she wants. We are both in a phase were we like multiple people. Recently, I’ve been avoiding her (not snubbing, but not getting too close as before). She thinks we are fighting, but I’m not. She also has made no attempt to find out why I’m not speaking to her. We were literally so close, that there was no physical boundary between us. And this just deepened my feelings for her, because I’m a physical person and she knows this. I’m trying so hard to find the best solution for my scenario. This issue has messed with my mental health before, but I was able to move...

Matched with my crush on tinder, don’t know if/how to pursue.

I’ve had a crush on a girl for the last month or two, she’s a waitress at a restaurant I visit weekly. Don’t know if I should say/do anything or not as I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable at work or whatever. The swipe could’ve even been accidental on her part who knows 🤷‍♂️ Submitted January 28, 2023 at 12:15AM I’ve had a crush on a girl for the last month or two, she’s a waitress at a restaurant I visit weekly. Don’t know if I should say/do anything or not as I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable at work or whatever. The swipe could’ve even been accidental on her part who knows 🤷‍♂️

/u/B_sfw on As an ace, this is terrifying in both directions. And the comment section... it's a scary world out there 😶

As an ace, I did this to my (consenting) partners. We had fun being weird and joking around like that. Most times it would be followed up with "Some people like this stuff. Can you believe that?" where we'd then laugh at how ridiculous it all was. January 27, 2023 at 11:18PM