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I brought overnight essentials on a first date, date wasn't sure how to feel about that.

So the other day I (M31) went on a date with a woman (F32) I met on Hinge. We had a lot of fun, she was easy to talk to, and I think she's fucking pretty, we seem to have similar views on topics close to my heart. So, I ended up spending the night at hers. Next morning I pull some fresh clothes for my bag. At that moment she realizes Ive brought toiletries and a change of clothes, in case we would indeed end up spendIng the night together. She said it came across as presumtious, she further reflected that she wasn't sure whether that's a negative thing. I then said that the reason I brought these items wasnt because she came across as ,easy' or 'cheap' during our online chats.I brought them because I'd rather have them and not need them than need them and not have them. We'd decided on a second date near the end of the first, so it must not have been a major red flag for her. Two points for clarrification 1) Date-related items I brought were: Change of...

Which of these 2 ways would be a better way to approach my crush?

After getting through a tough breakup I’m ready to get back in. There is a girl at my gym who I see on a weekly basis who I am certain is single. A while back she had feelings for me but nothing ever came of it because I was in a relationship. At this point we are both single. She is on my quick add on Snapchat but I am hesitant to start talking to her now. Should I wait 4-5 days and ask her in person for her Snapchat or start talking to her now? Submitted October 09, 2022 at 12:14AM After getting through a tough breakup I’m ready to get back in. There is a girl at my gym who I see on a weekly basis who I am certain is single. A while back she had feelings for me but nothing ever came of it because I was in a relationship. At this point we are both single. She is on my quick add on Snapchat but I am hesitant to start talking to her now. Should I wait 4-5 days and ask her in person for her Snapchat or start talking to her now?

/u/Open-Revolution-6706 on How do I tell a very Christian friend that i'm asexual?

Well Jesus did say that if you look at anyone with lust, pluck your seeing orbs out of ya head sooo October 08, 2022 at 11:39PM

/u/BeastDad06 on Why is it a big deal that you have hoes or sleep around In certain songs, what ever happened to songs about how you love a person for who they are not how big their butt or ding dong is?

But a lot of songs I hear are just about about what I stated am I hanging out with the wrong people? I listen to a lot of house music I’m Just having a hard time finding romance songs rather than songs that are like that October 08, 2022 at 11:32PM

/u/RooftopRose on You've had a bad day. What do you do to make it better?

Hot tea, lots of pillows, silk sleep clothes, white noise generator and rereading stories that I enjoy. October 08, 2022 at 11:30PM

/u/SpinachNo1563 on [ Survey ] I'm conducting research for a possible app for asexual people

Yes! ACEapp, I remember it too. I went to check the App Store and apparently it’s no longer running. Problem was there weren’t that many folks and there were too many bots :( October 08, 2022 at 11:27PM

/u/RooftopRose on Random thoughts on the ace flag colors

I love the flag. A combo of neutral and cool colors. October 08, 2022 at 11:27PM

/u/Carradee on Why is it a big deal that you have hoes or sleep around In certain songs, what ever happened to songs about how you love a person for who they are not how big their butt or ding dong is?

What do you mean what happened to them? They're around. October 08, 2022 at 11:26PM