I brought overnight essentials on a first date, date wasn't sure how to feel about that.
So the other day I (M31) went on a date with a woman (F32) I met on Hinge. We had a lot of fun, she was easy to talk to, and I think she's fucking pretty, we seem to have similar views on topics close to my heart. So, I ended up spending the night at hers. Next morning I pull some fresh clothes for my bag. At that moment she realizes Ive brought toiletries and a change of clothes, in case we would indeed end up spendIng the night together. She said it came across as presumtious, she further reflected that she wasn't sure whether that's a negative thing. I then said that the reason I brought these items wasnt because she came across as ,easy' or 'cheap' during our online chats.I brought them because I'd rather have them and not need them than need them and not have them. We'd decided on a second date near the end of the first, so it must not have been a major red flag for her. Two points for clarrification 1) Date-related items I brought were: Change of...