You could be demisexual which is only having sexual attraction to people you know closely or I know there's a word for only being attracted to one person only and no one else, so you could have that situation too. September 26, 2019 at 12:22AM

Me: One second rule. Him: Isn't it the 5 second rule~? Me: One second peck on the lips or I will cry- Him: OK OK JEEZ September 26, 2019 at 12:20AM

Greg family unite September 26, 2019 at 12:20AM

Ohmygod I’m going through this. Idek what to do. God help me September 26, 2019 at 12:13AM

hi i’m 15(M) and she is 15(F). so i’m on mobile and i don’t feel like typing a long ass essay Me and her just started talking we go to different schools,she seemed interested and stuff like saying i was cute and wanted to get with me ect ect well she asked me if i wanted to go to the game at my school because it’s my school vs her school. she was being a bit flirty and she was asking if i wanted to go on a date to inn and out so i said yes we went over some details well we were making jokes about autism and i have autism. well i told her i have autism and i feel like she’s uninterested because she just opens my snaps and doesn’t respond 🤷‍♂️ Submitted September 25, 2019 at 10:58PM hi i’m 15(M) and she is 15(F). so i’m on mobile and i don’t feel like typing a long ass essayMe and her just started talking we go to different schools,she seemed interested and stuff like saying i was cute and wanted to get with me ect ect well she asked me if i wanted to go to the game at my school...

Hi! Something that I have noticed, more specifically in online dating, is women putting their Instagram username in their bio. That's totally cool and all, but I have zero interest in reading/viewing one's profile. If others want to spy and stalk their profiles, go bonkers. However something I've noticed with engaging with other women face to face for the first time is being asked for my Instagram profile, after I ask for their phone number. When I say I don't have a profile (I technically do, but it's been dormant for five years - I hate the platform and everything it stands for), women are taken aback. Needless to say, I didn't get phone numbers from either one. Welp. Is this a normal thing in both online and IRL dating in general? And why has dating gone this route? Submitted September 25, 2019 at 11:25PM Hi!Something that I have noticed, more specifically in online dating, is women putting their Instagram username in their bio. That's totally c...

Me and this guy from tinder have been talking for around 2 months. We’ve been on three dates, but he has yet made a move on me. We had a fourth date schedule that we had to reschedule. He hasn’t gotten back to me yet for the reschedule, but it hasn’t been a week yet. Do you think he’s shy, or just getting ready to ghost me? Submitted September 25, 2019 at 11:27PM Me and this guy from tinder have been talking for around 2 months. We’ve been on three dates, but he has yet made a move on me. We had a fourth date schedule that we had to reschedule. He hasn’t gotten back to me yet for the reschedule, but it hasn’t been a week yet.Do you think he’s shy, or just getting ready to ghost me?

Note: This situation is really quite a mess, and usually, I don't ask the Internet for help, so you know that I'm really in some deep trouble. Sorry for the long post—I hope you will read through it and help me out. I am a 19-year-old INTJ closeted trans girl who is kind of androgynous. My crush is a 20-year-old possibly INFJ suspected-lesbian. We met in college last year in a weekly art club. I let myself develop a crush on her because I assumed she liked girls and that I could pursue her after I transitioned. I looked more masculine back then because I had not started hormone replacement therapy. A few weeks after meeting this girl, I texted her to invite her to play table tennis with me in the gym the next day. She said yes, so I was really quite excited. I considered this a date, but I don't know what she thought of it. The next day, she said that a project was taking longer than expected, so she couldn't make it. Nevertheless, she proposed rescheduling. Well, i...

I recently downloaded it as a last ditch effort to see if it could restore my faith in OLD but honestly I am not impressed..... Submitted September 26, 2019 at 12:10AM I recently downloaded it as a last ditch effort to see if it could restore my faith in OLD but honestly I am not impressed.....

Actually in multicellular organisms it's known as parthenogenesis. September 26, 2019 at 12:07AM

I'm curious is there's any more accurate or current statistics? I always thought that number was a little suspect. I more meant that it's such a small community currently and it can be very hard to find other aces in the real world which makes it feel even smaller (I'm sure some of that is from stigma, lack of understanding, etc.). September 26, 2019 at 12:01AM

This speaks to me on a spiritual level. September 26, 2019 at 12:01AM

It's a problem I've constantly had, and probably the same for lots of people. I've met this girl and I'm feeling that kind of very strong crushing that hurts a lot. I'm a very young adult and I haven't ever done anything relationship wise or sex wise. Never kissed a girl. I've only told one girl ages ago that I had feelings for her (turned down but hey) and I felt like I was about to explode during that. That's the most I've ever stuck my neck outI want all of these things so so badly though. I'm so hopeful yet full of despair. I switch between all the emotions rapidly. She probably isn't interested. She might be able to tell how I feel already. She might think I'm 'cute' but not someone she could 'feel that way' about. She might like me, but I'll never stick my neck out and ask because that's who I am. That's who I always will be. Two or three girls have actually been interested in me before, but I missed th...

Me (15M) and my crush (15FM) we know we like each other but whenever we talk in person she kinda ignores my existence. Other guys she's friends with she still talks to a lot, but now she barely talks to me anymore. I even thought about just dumping her to stop feeling like this but then I thought, I never have been in any other relationship before so I don't know if these are signs of anything so please tell me if she's trying to hint at something. Submitted September 25, 2019 at 11:32PM Me (15M) and my crush (15FM) we know we like each other but whenever we talk in person she kinda ignores my existence. Other guys she's friends with she still talks to a lot, but now she barely talks to me anymore. I even thought about just dumping her to stop feeling like this but then I thought, I never have been in any other relationship before so I don't know if these are signs of anything so please tell me if she's trying to hint at something.

I just wasted 8 months with a guy and am feeling out of sorts. I met a different guy around the same time and things just faded naturally. I want to text him that I could use a drink and if he wants to get one for me. Outside of it being very out of no where, haven’t talked to him in at least 4 months, how would you respond. I realize he could definitely be seeing someone at this point, but who knows! Does it come off desperate? Should I just go for it? Submitted September 25, 2019 at 11:33PM I just wasted 8 months with a guy and am feeling out of sorts. I met a different guy around the same time and things just faded naturally. I want to text him that I could use a drink and if he wants to get one for me. Outside of it being very out of no where, haven’t talked to him in at least 4 months, how would you respond. I realize he could definitely be seeing someone at this point, but who knows! Does it come off desperate? Should I just go for it?

If a girl liked me but stopped liking me for not wanting to date is there a chance i can make her like me again? Submitted September 25, 2019 at 11:34PM If a girl liked me but stopped liking me for not wanting to date is there a chance i can make her like me again?

I'm a 22-year-old senior undergraduate in mathematics. There is this really cute first-year graduate student and I want to ask her out. Would I be violating any professional codes by asking her out to coffee, and is it weird if I just straight up asked her out to coffee? I have spoken to her a few times, never had a class with her as a TA. Submitted September 25, 2019 at 11:43PM I'm a 22-year-old senior undergraduate in mathematics. There is this really cute first-year graduate student and I want to ask her out. Would I be violating any professional codes by asking her out to coffee, and is it weird if I just straight up asked her out to coffee? I have spoken to her a few times, never had a class with her as a TA.

We worked together and immediately became pretty good friends. She had a boyfriend that she never talked about and she never really seemed to care to flirt with me. Her and her boyfriend broke up a couple months ago and we’ve been hanging out and talking everyday for the past month and a half or so. She still hangs out with him on occasion because she says that “we were just like friends the whole time” I don’t blame her for keeping him in her life but it’s hard to accept. We have had a good few months together, very affectionate and such good things have happened. She has told me that her ex has given her red flags that she just now recounted and doesn’t want to be with him. She still hangouts with him probably once a week and says we’re still friends but she doesn’t want him. She doesn’t really want anyone to know we’re talking or anything like that on the knowledge that we’re completely different. I really dig this girl and have for awhile now, I’m just not sure how to actually dat...

I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. I love her and even if she can be annoying I know I'm far from perfect myself and have no basis to judge. When we first started dating we had a lot of private time, and our relationship has always gone pretty well. Never had a serious fight we couldn't work out, and love each other's company. We moved into an apartment together a few months back and recently I've just not been feeling it. I thought it might be a lack of testosterone and it still very well could be for all I know - but I just don't ever feel like having sex anymore. She's noticed and it clearly upsets her that I don't have that drive anymore. I have other stresses in my life like my new job, but I don't think that's it either. I enjoy having her as a roommate and having someone there to cuddle with and just be comfy and accompanied with is way better than otherwise... I can't help but have my mind wander when I see...

I'm a 19 year old guy who went through a really bad break up what I think was four months ago. It's all kinda been a blur at this point and It didn't end clean, that was the initial break up but my ex fucked me up by dragging it along, drawing out the pain and leading me on. I still think about her, her actions, my actions, the events in our relationship, what she's doing now, if she thinks about me still, all this and all that. Every. Fucking. Day. Every morning drive to work. Every night spent alone. Every time I beat off for fucks sake. The bringing up of past feelings is everywhere and it's unavoidable and I'm tired of it. I'm sick of it. It's getting genuinely annoying. I want nothing more than to just move on already. I would never date my ex again, and yet, I still love her. I hate that. I hate that because of her beauty she still has even an iota of control over me frustrates the living hell out of me. The fact that her beauty will allow her to ...

I just recently broke it off with a girlfriend of mine for over a year. We were amazing, never had issues. But one day, she started talking to one of my close friends behind my back, lying about it to me, and just bluntly flirting with him. I asked her politely to stop talking to him that way, and that I don't feel that what she's doing is respectful to me or the relationship. She told him about that and he started threatening to fight me, spread stuff about me, sabotage me. I tried to be civil but he would bring up personal things and etc. I remained calm but it hurt a lot for one of my friends to sabotage me like that. I confronted my girlfriend, she told me that this stuff would quit happening but she lied and continued to speak to him more and me less. He admitted that he was actively trying to get us to breakup so he could get with her, but she didn't care. She told me that she didn't like him but she never bothered to stop his advances on her. We took a break bec...

I’m 21 female. This is what I’ve always been confused about at least with most of the guys I talk to, let me give you an example this one guy I was talking to everything was going well till one day he all of a sudden changed and moved different now we barley talk and when we do it takes hours for him to reply back and the convos are short but yet on Snapchat he talks about wanting to find a solid/decent girl and stuff like that when he had me but he just pushed me away and oh now he only msgs me to hookup like he would straight up say that like that doesn’t make sense he’s so fake. For me tho it’s always like that guys choose every girl over me and idk why like they would talk to me or only wanna hook up with me (even when I say no they stop talking to me) and then with the next girl they’d be serious and good to her and stuff. I have the worst luck in dating and I’m seriously convinced I’ll be single forever Submitted September 26, 2019 at 12:04AM I’m 21 female. This is what I...

Is sexting cheating? What if the sexting is directly about cheating ie. “my wife is out of town” “my boyfriend is working late” Submitted September 26, 2019 at 12:06AM Is sexting cheating? What if the sexting is directly about cheating ie. “my wife is out of town” “my boyfriend is working late”