EDIT: I’m not romantically involved with him, I’m only interested. He hasn’t indicated any interest in me, I was just wondering if you think we’d have a chance I’m 16 and female and interested in a male who is 25. We have an age gap of 9 years, which is massive at this age but I feel like in a few years that won’t matter. My parents have the same age gap as him and I. The issue is that he basically sees me as a kid (rightly so, it’s not right for him to see me romantically at this age) but because we’ve been friends for a while I worry that he’ll never view me the way I want him to. Specifically because I always get guidance from him and he never asks me for guidance. It means there’s an imbalance in our relationship, and we’ll never be on the same level. I’ve been weak in front of him, he’s never been weak in front of me. Of course, this might be something that changes with time and me growing up but I guess we’ll see? Do you think I have even the slightest chance of being with

[M(19)] Iv got a crush on a friend of mine[F(18)] we don’t really talk a lot and sometimes i do somewhat get ignored and idk when will it be the best time to confess about it i meet her 2wice a week and she’s about 1 year younger. And i don’t really wanna know her way too much cuz by my past experience ik I’ll not be good. Any tips on what i must do and when i must confess? Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:43PM [M(19)] Iv got a crush on a friend of mine[F(18)] we don’t really talk a lot and sometimes i do somewhat get ignored and idk when will it be the best time to confess about it i meet her 2wice a week and she’s about 1 year younger. And i don’t really wanna know her way too much cuz by my past experience ik I’ll not be good. Any tips on what i must do and when i must confess?

So ive been friends with this girl for a few years now. I would say a lot of things about us are pretty similar both physically and how we think. I guess that parts not important it just baffles me why she’s the one guys are attracted to when we are often described as the same person. What am I not doing? We are both single, and whenever a guy comes around that I’m attracted to, she always is too. Then it becomes this silent unspoken “battle” for lack of a better word to spend time with that person. I think she loves the idea that she’s winning more attention from the guys than I am more than the guys themselves. And will go out of her way to secretly text them or even hang out with them without me. At first I thought it was a coincidence we liked the same people. but over the years I’m realizing it’s every guy I end up crushing on, she likes them too. Sometimes only after I’ve disclosed my feelings to her, or it becomes obvious. She’s naturally flirtier than I am, I tend to be shy,

Long story short I met a guy travelling and we spent a couple of awesome days together. He actively pursued me and was generally really sweet and into it. I had a more cooler approach but ended up liking him a lot. We said our goodbyes but have been texting since (2 months). He kept texting me he missed me and vice versa. We have a bunch of similar interests, same humour etc. Now he lives about 4 hours by plane but early on he asked me to come visit at some point and I said I'd love to. Later I mentioned we could meet up in a few months and he said he'd love to see me again but we didn't make any definite plans. I mentioned a few possible dates a couple of weeks later and he said we'd talk about it the next day which we never did because his phone broke. I didn't breach the subject again because that would really make me look desperate. I have no clear expectations out of this but maybe he thinks I do? Or he's over it? This is confusing me so much. Should I ju

I messed up and lost a girl I really liked. I keep obsessing over the mistakes I made. How do I move past this? It's really bothering me. I regret it so much. I'll never have that opportunity again. It's my fault. She did nothing wrong. It was all me. Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:58PM I messed up and lost a girl I really liked. I keep obsessing over the mistakes I made. How do I move past this? It's really bothering me. I regret it so much. I'll never have that opportunity again. It's my fault. She did nothing wrong. It was all me.

Should I move on? (35M) meet a someone (33F) on a dating site. She made initial contact. We messaged a bit in the app then she gave me her number and asked that I text her the next day. I texted her with the goal of meeting up for coffee sometime in the next week. She stated she wanted to text to get to know each other first. She had been really hurt in the past. I texted back that I understand that she wants to take it slow. A few days in I ask again if she has considered meeting for coffee. She said she was not ready. I told her that when she is to let me know. I will respect that she is not ready and i don’t want to push her. She is also a single mother with kids. I also have two kids 50/50 custody. It’s been over a week. I dint know what the heck to text anymore. It’s the standard good morning, good night, how’s your day stuff now. Her answers are short and hardly any questions. I mean how the heck are you going to get to know a person over text? Anyway I’m thinking of texting h

I'm a kiddo (15f) and completely adore a guy in the same grade. We don't have any classes together this year but did last year, and are very different people in terms of skills, but have overlapping interests and are dating I think(?) He refers to me as "his girl" and has a pet name for me, we talk a lot through text mainly, say good morning and good night, but he seems to avoid labeling it as dating (if that's the case I can respect it, he has a not very good past experience) we hang out most mornings mon wed fri, cause we both have spares first period, where we just kinda snuggle and talk. it's been 4 weeks I think, and he's come over twice, both being very date-like even though we didn't call them dates. the main problems come in with age I believe, because we're both immature being kids, and both have some mental issues. I'm a lot more open than he is, but obviously not gonna push him to talk about stuff he doesn't want to. he's

All the rejection not to mention the outrageous criteria women have. They expect you to be funny, tall have interesting hobbies and be hot and with a six pack. While offering none of those things themselves, the only hobbies most girls have is watching Netflix and “travelling” I’m done with this bullshit Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:05AM All the rejection not to mention the outrageous criteria women have. They expect you to be funny, tall have interesting hobbies and be hot and with a six pack. While offering none of those things themselves, the only hobbies most girls have is watching Netflix and “travelling” I’m done with this bullshit

I (M15) recently started going to a new school. I was made fun of in my previous school and only my small group of friends actually even liked me. Idk if anyone there ever found me attractive, but i was in a long distance relationship with a girl for 3 years and we broke up in may. She was really attractive and I think I'm pretty average. So in my new school there's this one girl (m15). We talked for the first time in like the first week of school. She noticed I was there early and came up to me to talk. I was pretty awkward and was breathing heavily (like I do often when I'm stressed) but we joked around a bit, and she really reminded me of my ex in the way she talked. The thing was it was tuesday and we never talked for the rest of the week. Not even a "Hi". Next week was almost the same but this time she texted me on the class group chat to come to talk cause she was sitting there alone. We talked a bit again, she told me to watch a certain tv show, then agai

Hi Reddit! I need help as I’m new to dating etiquettes. So I (23f) matched this this guy (27m) last week and we casually talked for a few days before meeting for coffee in Sunday. We hit it off and set another date for Wednesday to watch the World Series. Drinks were involved and we ended up back at his place where we hooked up. We’ve been talking all day and everything seems normal. Is it weird to follow him on insta since we never exchanged socials? Am I overthinking this? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:13AM Hi Reddit! I need help as I’m new to dating etiquettes.So I (23f) matched this this guy (27m) last week and we casually talked for a few days before meeting for coffee in Sunday. We hit it off and set another date for Wednesday to watch the World Series. Drinks were involved and we ended up back at his place where we hooked up. We’ve been talking all day and everything seems normal. Is it weird to follow him on insta since we never exchanged socials? Am I overthinking

Hey people of reddit. I need some advice on texting a girl who is have known for awhile but we suddenly stopped texting for no reason. We were not in an argument or angry at each other we just stopped. Since then my confidence has decreased lots since then and I cant bring myself to texting her. How should I start talking to her again. I'm pretty sure she liked me because we would both flirt and complement each other regularly so there was no problems with us. Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:16AM Hey people of reddit. I need some advice on texting a girl who is have known for awhile but we suddenly stopped texting for no reason. We were not in an argument or angry at each other we just stopped. Since then my confidence has decreased lots since then and I cant bring myself to texting her. How should I start talking to her again. I'm pretty sure she liked me because we would both flirt and complement each other regularly so there was no problems with us.

Question: Women, what are your feelings when someone wants to fuck you? Is it not objectifying or demeaning? Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:53PM Question: Women, what are your feelings when someone wants to fuck you? Is it not objectifying or demeaning?

All my peers and even family (literally) are having sex despite the consequences it has to other people. Sex turns them into dicks (pun intended.) It must be life changing... Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:59PM All my peers and even family (literally) are having sex despite the consequences it has to other people. Sex turns them into dicks (pun intended.)It must be life changing...

Of course I got on my knees and sucked his dick I would say he was pretty kinky Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:02AM Of course I got on my knees and sucked his dickI would say he was pretty kinky

All I see online is about how all women love oral. It ranges from feeling uncomfortable to painful for me. Am I doing something wrong? I also can't stand letting anyone else touch my clit with their hands though... It just hurts. Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:03AM All I see online is about how all women love oral. It ranges from feeling uncomfortable to painful for me. Am I doing something wrong? I also can't stand letting anyone else touch my clit with their hands though... It just hurts.

So I tore my banjo string completely in half almost two months. its grown back but it hurts when i pull the skin down (and im very nervous to do so cause i do not want to break it again). wondering if anyone has experience this and what i should do? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:05AM So I tore my banjo string completely in half almost two months. its grown back but it hurts when i pull the skin down (and im very nervous to do so cause i do not want to break it again). wondering if anyone has experience this and what i should do?

I already do this quite often without him saying anything but I don't do it every minute obviously.. I have a few questions.. First, if I don't talk dirty as often as he likes.. is this something that makes a man lose interest or look for it from someone else? Or does it not really affect how they feel? Idk.. I thought I already talked dirty enough but sometimes we'll be in bed n he'll say "talk dirty baby" or something like that.. so my other question is, is he just saying it because he gets really turned on and likes when I say those kind of things? Or because I'm not saying it enough and he wants me to say it more/be more vocal? I'm just a little confused as to why he said it.. any ideas? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:06AM I already do this quite often without him saying anything but I don't do it every minute obviously.. I have a few questions.. First, if I don't talk dirty as often as he likes.. is this something that makes a ma

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Back story. I'm in my early 40s. I recently was in a couple of situations with occasional partners that made me think I had crossed into blue diamond territory. Although I was very concerned about what this thing makes to your heart, my PCP thought I could benefit from it. I have no heart issues, I just stress a lot and I'm a worrybot. I have never used it because I went through about half a year without a partner. Recently I met someone new. I can only see her every other week but..., when we're together she drives me crazy. We've had sex 2-4 times every time we've met so far. I told her about my story and she said we should try it once just to see what effect it has. I agree it might be fun, and there's nothing I'd enjoy more than pleasing her but I'm not sure this is something you want to play with, esp. if, apparently, I don't need it after all (I still have some trouble when playing with myself, though). To avoid misunderstandings, she's

Just wondering! Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:19AM Just wondering!

This is with my FWB (28M) of five months. He's the most amazing sexual partner I've ever had, and the only one who has actually put effort into trying to get me off. Our chemistry is off the charts and our sex is unbelievably good. I don't think this "faking" is a result of his technique. I don't even want to call it faking orgasms because 90% of it is real. He knows exactly how to get me so so close, but once I get to that "so close I'm gonna come" point I get so in my head about it. This causes me to take longer, and then when I take longer I start to feeling like I'm taking TOO long and if I don't come soon he'll give up. So the super close feeling kind of just plateaus until it gets so overwhelming that I react (sometimes on purpose sometimes not) in a way that makes it seem like I'm coming. But I never cross the peak and actually come like I do when I'm masturbating. Also, a lot of the time he'll tell me to come fo

As a fellow writer, I wish you the best of luck. November 01, 2019 at 12:12AM

I’d really prefer not to be insulted for this post but it’ll likely happen So I love dating it’s super fun, but once I’ve had sex the flame just immediately dies. Doesn’t matter if it’s the first date or the 20th date, it’ll go from me wanting to spend every minute and loving every word she says to me just being bored or annoyed by her. Wtf is wrong with me, I want to find a wife and start a family in the next 6-11 years but how can I do that if I can’t fall in love. Do I just like the chase? The mystery of what’s under her clothes? Is something not being fulfilled sexually? Wtf is wrong with me, I’m literally the hump her dump her stereotype Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:03AM I’d really prefer not to be insulted for this post but it’ll likely happenSo I love dating it’s super fun, but once I’ve had sex the flame just immediately dies. Doesn’t matter if it’s the first date or the 20th date, it’ll go from me wanting to spend every minute and loving every word she says to