First off: Fuck this person and everything they stand for. Secondly, there's nothing wrong with you and I am glad you were able to figure yourself out. The fact that this individual not only dismissed your attempt to be vulnerable with them but also belittled you and assumed you must hate yourself because you came out as ace shows a shortcoming on their part, not you. You are not less for being ace, you aren't undateable because you're ace, and your worth isn't measured by your looks or whether or not you're single. The bright side of this is you now know this person isn't a friend and no longer have to waste time putting your trust in someone who doesn't respect you. October 30, 2021 at 12:03AM

The problem is that being asexual isn't something that is hurting people, so why would a doctor want to treat it? To be fair, there are reasons for a person to have not had sex that can be of medical concern. It's not completely out of line for a doctor to think of that. The specific comment this doctor made was rude and out of line, but expressing concern about it in an otherwise healthy-appearing patient is reasonable, as long as it's expressed in a respectful and compassionate manner. Asexuality is weird among sexualities in that way—lack of sexual interest can be a symptom of certain medical conditions in ways that other sexualities cannot be. October 30, 2021 at 12:01AM

Not a good friend to keep around… 😢 That’s so rude of them. Being Ace has nothing to do with being single or lonely or feeling like you can’t be with someone. I’m sure you’ll find someone. You’ll find better friends who won’t be rude or disrespectful of your sexuality. A lot of people don’t understand Asexuality, unfortunately when people don’t understand things they turn to making fun of it.. but that’s no excuse to be a butt wipe. You are valid and so it your sexuality. October 30, 2021 at 12:00AM

So you described promiscuity, meaning your understanding of ace is some level of chastity. Asexual does not mean prude or celibate. It's a very common misconception. October 29, 2021 at 11:59PM

I don't want to discourage you if you feel like it's safe to come out to them, but them teaching you to "wait until marriage" does not equate to them being on board. I also reccomend having something to fallback to in case thing go bad, it could be as simple as friends who know and support you. October 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

Lot of times it gets painful to take a piss after cumming even if my tank is full . Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:26AM Lot of times it gets painful to take a piss after cumming even if my tank is full .

I don't understand why guys are so weird. I'm 5'0 and 140 lbs but guys literally tell me if I was 50 lbs lighter they would be able to "throw me around and pick me up" better. Does a short woman or any woman have to be under 5'3 and weigh 110 lbs and less to achieve this act? One guy even told me that women that are 5'3+ are too tall and not "spinner" type! I was shocked Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:42AM I don't understand why guys are so weird. I'm 5'0 and 140 lbs but guys literally tell me if I was 50 lbs lighter they would be able to "throw me around and pick me up" better. Does a short woman or any woman have to be under 5'3 and weigh 110 lbs and less to achieve this act? One guy even told me that women that are 5'3+ are too tall and not "spinner" type! I was shocked

possibly looking to bringing a 3rd in to try it out and I've been curious about some ideas of what to do. I've seen multiple things about giving equal attention so no jealousy, but idk how it would work. if he kisses me or something does he have to kiss her too? or would that rule only apply to the other person? explainations and ideas welcomed, please and thank you:) Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:45AM possibly looking to bringing a 3rd in to try it out and I've been curious about some ideas of what to do. I've seen multiple things about giving equal attention so no jealousy, but idk how it would work. if he kisses me or something does he have to kiss her too? or would that rule only apply to the other person? explainations and ideas welcomed, please and thank you:)

It was 9 years ago that I had symptoms (warts). I (34m) got it treated and have been in one relationship since then that lasted for 7 years. I told that partner about it before becoming sexually active together. My partner never got symptoms in our 7 years together. I'm now dating again and wondering if this is something that should be brought up? I know the facts for HPV: - it's technically in my body forever- the vaccine prevents the most common strains, but not every strain- HPV is incredibly common if you're sexually active- the strain I had was a low-risk strain, not one of the strains that can cause cervical cancer etc. It seems like with HSV (herpes) the common moral stance is to discuss it if it's HSV-2 (typically genital) but I don't see the same mentality when it comes to HSV-1 (typically oral) because of how common it is. Where does HPV fall for you? Should it be discussed 100% of the time before becoming sexually active with someone? Or is it "...

I got a cheap suction cup dildo to see if i liked giving it a blow job or hand job, it's hard to tell what I like, I was pretty sure I was Ace for a while there.. I have to admit it was fun sucking on it and finding ways to mess with it, lick, it but I never got a boner just an increased heart rate, and I don't know if that's because I like doing it or I wanted someone to do it to me. I also tried giving it a hand job for about 12 minutes While listening to my favorite masturbation music, adding Lube is needed as friction got bad, and spit, and it felt kind of good but it also felt like I was just trying to masturbate and it just wasn't working, so that could explain some level of enjoyment. what do you think? I really want to know I'm not honestly scared at this point I'm out of shape, my heart rate at the end was 130 or 140 and I'm still kind of excited and a little shaky but I never got an erection Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:49AM I got a ...

I(16M) like this girl(17F). First off I’m just gonna say I have no relationship experience I’ve only dated one girl and it only lasted a week (we rushed into things and we ended up not liking each other like we thought we did) but onto the present. So I’ve made some mistakes out of awkwardness and just don’t really understand how to work a relationship but I’m trying. So honestly I’m getting mixed signals from her kind of. We’ve known each other for a couple of months and I have some reasons to believe she likes me and I have reasons to think she doesn’t. First I’ll start off with the good things. A while ago she asked for my instagram, I catch her looking at me a lot, she usually laughs at my jokes, and I kinda seem to make her nervous (In a good way she seems shy around me). She also used to get very close to me when we walked together in the hallway (to the point where we would be touching). I would also say that she seems to be flirty with me sometimes (not as much anymore though)...

I've always dated men that are over 6 feet. Taller guys seem to always be interested in me so thats just how things have ended up the last few years. So I recently met this guy whos my height, maybe even a couple cm shorter. Hes perfect. We get along so well and hes wonderful. Hes extremely upfront(adore that about him) and we've shared our feelings which ended up being mutual. My only issue is that he seems insecure when we're together in public but wont mention anything about it. His insecurity makes me feel uneasy. He also keeps joking that I'm completely out of his league. I don't want to even bring all of this up to him because it just kind of sucks. I legitimately like him. If he cant feel comfortable around me, theres no solving it really. I wish i could shrink, lmao. Idk. So short men, do you prefer shorter women? How would you feel dating a girl who is your height? What could be going through his head? Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:10AM I've...

Hi I'm on here seeking both advice and a place to vent some of my emotions. I'm M(17) and this girl I'm talking to is F(15). I'm a senior and she's a sophomore. I hope I don't make any of you uncomfortable because I'm underage. Anyways onto the story. Let's call her K. So about two weeks ago me and K hung out closely for the first time (we knew each other a few months before this) after a few days of hanging out all day every day, I started to catch feelings. Then I realized she had feelings for me too, so I decided to admit my feelings and she said it was mutual. I told her that I didn't want to start dating yet because I wanted to get to know her more as a friend before things escalated. She said she'd prefer that, so everything went perfect. It wasn't until she started talking about her ex, let's call him J. J would ask some of the creepiest questions over text. For example, he asked her what she'd do if she saw him naked, he as...

So I called him and asked why I had to pay for the whole date and told him that it was uncouth and made him look cheap. So he called him a bi ch for not taking to him after the date until today (yesterday as of now) and talking about the issues. I told him that he was a cheap bas ard and told him that I wouldn't go on another date with him while I draw breath. And he went ballistic calling me all sorts of names so I told him that maybe before dating someone being able to sustain himself would be a good idea. And listed all the problems with him and reiterated how it's uncommon to have your date pay for everything and told him that if he wanted a meal he could have just asked. Since then I have had 13 texts saying sorry to calling me a sl*t Tldr probably want be wedding bells in the future Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:12AM So I called him and asked why I had to pay for the whole date and told him that it was uncouth and made him look cheap. So he called him a bich fo...

I’m 21f, and still a virgin. It isn’t a conciliatory choice and I’m not religious, but I don’t feel comfortable doing it with just anyone as it is a very personal and vulnerable thing. I am the only one of my friends that still has the card of V, and my opinions differ from theirs on the topic. Because I am so inexperienced, the idea of my partner being with a lot of women before me bugs me and it’s kind of an ‘ick,’ for lack of a better term. It isn’t a judgment thing. Like I don’t think less of them for it. It just puts me off because that means our views on the subject are different and he won’t feel the same way about it as I do. My friends keep on telling me that it isn’t a big deal, that it’s better to have someone experienced because then it’ll be good, and that I’m being bitchy by having that opinion. I just need some advice. Are my feelings wrong? Should I loosen up? (pun intended) AM I being judgy? By ‘a lot’ I mean like 7+. Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:14AM I...

:0 an ace and enby sticker, then the gay one? I won't have to spend ages searching for a sticker that's got the enby or ace flags on?? we did it bois erasure is no more <3 October 29, 2021 at 11:13PM

which ones the redo, i'm not the best with flags October 29, 2021 at 11:09PM

Respectfully at the very beginning. October 29, 2021 at 11:09PM

I can understand that. I feel that way sometimes. October 29, 2021 at 11:08PM

Reminds me of Yolanda Buenaventura! :-) October 29, 2021 at 11:08PM