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Found on r/rant lol

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Guy found my Instagram (definitely not linked to Tinder as he says!) after I unmatched him for being creepy.

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Random dick pic justification

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I started sexting this guy and now I can't stop, it's amazing

I matched this guy on tinder. I only did sexting here on reddit once, it was with a guy I didn't know at all, without the intention to meet, and in English, which isn't my first language. I enjoyed it but it was just nothing special. Now with this guy... We're going to meet, and he knows what he's doing, and it's just so HOT, I never thought I'd ever sext when my name is visible (we're talking on messenger so it's my full name), I even stopped him once when he started being too much, but then he kinda lured me back to it, I didn't even notice what was happening and suddenly it wasn't flirting anymore but straight up sexting. And I'm stunned. I've never known it could be this hot. We're going to meet but I want to be careful first, so he doesn't kidnap me or something, and I don't even have time to go to his house that time but I'm gonna go crazy... Sorry I just had to let this out 😂 Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:

Have your sexual preferences changed over time?

Not necessarily talking about sexual orientation, but more about roles, sexual interests, behaviour and so on. For example, I used to be very dominant in bed, but months ago I got rid of all my toys and stopped having sex. I am very passive and submissive now; I don't want to put any effort. I want to start having exclusively PIV when I get in the mood to be active again, but that will take me a few years to happen. Until then, I need to cope with very limited self-pleasure. Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:32PM Not necessarily talking about sexual orientation, but more about roles, sexual interests, behaviour and so on.For example, I used to be very dominant in bed, but months ago I got rid of all my toys and stopped having sex. I am very passive and submissive now; I don't want to put any effort. I want to start having exclusively PIV when I get in the mood to be active again, but that will take me a few years to happen. Until then, I need to cope with very limited s

Should I (19F) fuck my friend (21M)?

Sooo.... I have a friend (21M) that I met from Tinder. I'd say we get along pretty well, and we like to play video games when I'm over. We've talked dirty to each other online, and I'm not gonna lie, I am sexually attracted to him and our conversations were pretty fucking hot. We've talked about fucking, and I said that I'm going to think about it. Honestly, I'd like to give it a try, but I do have an indecisive nature (me and decisions don't go well together). One thing I kinda worry about is that I might develop feelings for him, and he said he isn't really interested in dating me as he doesn't think we're compatible in that way. ​ What do you guys think? Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:36PM Sooo.... I have a friend (21M) that I met from Tinder. I'd say we get along pretty well, and we like to play video games when I'm over. We've talked dirty to each other online, and I'm not gonna lie, I am sexually attracted to

Boyfriend not turning me on right

Hello! I have a bit of a problem and was hoping you lovely ladies and guys could help me solve it. My boyfriend isn't turning me on when we have sex. I'm so happy to be with him and want to be turned on but it's just not happening. His idea of foreplay is well... not great. He starts by kissing me and rubs all over my body which is great! But then he never takes off my clothes for me and tries to immediately start fingering me and being to rough with my clit. I think he does that because he likes when I'm rough with him. But that really doesn't do anything for me. I want something more gentle. To feel desired and like he can't get enough of me. He also is really uncomfortable with talking dirty which helps me relax and get my mind in the right head space. How do I tell him nicely that what he is doing currently is not working for me? If you guys have any advice or have been in a similar situation please tell me. Thank you guys so much in advance! Submitte

Women who had trouble cumming for mental reasons, how did you get over it?

I (f20) can get off really easily by myself, but whenever my boyfriend (m20) does it I just ... can’t? I thought it was a problem with his technique but last time I took over at the end, and it was way harder for me to make myself cum than it usually is (for reference, I masturbate exclusively by rubbing the head of my clit, with my arm resting kind of on my hipbone?) I read the FAQ and I’m pretty sure I’m ‘spectating’ - I feel like he really wants me to get off, and then I feel pressure to cum, and then it doesn’t happen. Women who had this problem, did you get over it? If so, how? Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:39PM I (f20) can get off really easily by myself, but whenever my boyfriend (m20) does it I just ... can’t? I thought it was a problem with his technique but last time I took over at the end, and it was way harder for me to make myself cum than it usually is (for reference, I masturbate exclusively by rubbing the head of my clit, with my arm resting kind of on my hi

Yesterday lost my virginity

I 15M lost virginity yesterday to my gf 15f.. we were cuddling before ( oral. Bj hj etc) but never actually did it until yesterday. The funny part is i was 20 minutes figuring out how to put it in there....... But we lauged it off and enjoyed our first sex.. It was. Pretty interesting. I didnt imagine it like this. Never felt like this in my life. Im gonna do it again. 👍🤣 (I think sex was underrated from my view...) Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:40PM I 15M lost virginity yesterday to my gf 15f.. we were cuddling before ( oral. Bj hj etc) but never actually did it until yesterday. The funny part is i was 20 minutes figuring out how to put it in there....... But we lauged it off and enjoyed our first sex.. It was. Pretty interesting. I didnt imagine it like this. Never felt like this in my life. Im gonna do it again. 👍🤣 (I think sex was underrated from my view...)

Sex Anxiety, Fear of Losing Partner (20F)

So I’ve been with my boyfriend (23M) for over a year now, when we first got together we had sex like 2 times a day sometimes! I was kind of always up for it and we both had such a great connection, it was amazing! We tried a couple different fun things and he was really attentive in the relationship too and I felt really appreciated but now things have massively flipped - My self esteem has crashed, I feel stressed a lot of the time and deal with anxiety too which has caused me to lose my sex drive completely. We since moved into our own place, we’ve been here 4 months and only had sex 3 times and it’s genuinely all because of me. During this time, my boyfriend still makes hints and comments about wanting to have sex but that we don’t, I feel like I’m failing as a girlfriend. He understands that the hints upset me but almost can’t help but make hints sometimes I don’t know, the hints add pressure which makes me feel like I can’t/don’t want to have sex even more because what if it’s di

[F] My boyfriend’s a virgin. How do I make sure his first time isn’t as bad as mine was?

In the title. I was his first kiss, am his first girlfriend and, soon, will also be his first time. I’m nervous since I almost regret losing my virginity because of how bad it was and I really don’t want him to have that same feeling. I have no idea how to go about this, and I don’t even know what kind of answer I’m expecting, but any advice would be really appreciated. Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:47PM In the title. I was his first kiss, am his first girlfriend and, soon, will also be his first time. I’m nervous since I almost regret losing my virginity because of how bad it was and I really don’t want him to have that same feeling. I have no idea how to go about this, and I don’t even know what kind of answer I’m expecting, but any advice would be really appreciated.

Porn for women

I'm looking to treat myself this valentines day. I'm female and new to masturbating I'm not really knowledgeable about porn sites but most of it seems male oriented. I'm a virgin but heres what I'm into- guys masturbating. I really like the idea of my pussy being eaten so that. I loooove the idea of a man sucking on my breasts. Thanks Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:47PM I'm looking to treat myself this valentines day. I'm female and new to masturbating I'm not really knowledgeable about porn sites but most of it seems male oriented. I'm a virgin but heres what I'm into- guys masturbating. I really like the idea of my pussy being eaten so that. I loooove the idea of a man sucking on my breasts. Thanks

Should I cheat?

So my wife has a medical condition (vaginismus) that doesn’t let her experience vaginal penetration. She’s still a virgin at 26. I have been celibate for longer than I care to admit because we never consummated the marriage. I think she might be bisexual because she likes lesbian porn. She’s told me to go be with other women but I know it would just hurt her and she’s extremely jealous. We’ve been married 6 years now and we can’t divorce for a number of reasons. What should I do? Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:48PM So my wife has a medical condition (vaginismus) that doesn’t let her experience vaginal penetration. She’s still a virgin at 26. I have been celibate for longer than I care to admit because we never consummated the marriage. I think she might be bisexual because she likes lesbian porn. She’s told me to go be with other women but I know it would just hurt her and she’s extremely jealous. We’ve been married 6 years now and we can’t divorce for a number of reasons. Wh

How does everybody ask to be pegged by their partner

Like the title says, how do y’all ask to be pegged? I told my wife about my desire a couple of years back and she’s pegged me before, I’ve always just been really awkward when asking her to peg me, so I’m interested to hear what others say/do to let their partner know they want to be pegged Submitted February 08, 2020 at 11:52PM Like the title says, how do y’all ask to be pegged? I told my wife about my desire a couple of years back and she’s pegged me before, I’ve always just been really awkward when asking her to peg me, so I’m interested to hear what others say/do to let their partner know they want to be pegged

Submissive [M]asturbation Woes...

tl; dr - I very recently discovered that so-called gentle femdom is totally my thing. This has been a huge revelation for me on both a personal and sexual level. Unfortunately it has come with some downsides. The town I live in has a terrible dating scene usually, even worse for a relatively obscure thing like this. So I’m unlikely to find another person as an outlet for this. Which leaves masturbation. I’ve no idea how to do it. Femdom in itself relies so much on another person that it is next to impossible to simulate. I can’t very well tie myself up and jerk it at the same time. I wear a collar during, the feeling of restraint and tightness I really appreciate - and I’ve taken to put the loop of the leash around my foot as to pull it with but... the experience is lacking. What is worse is that “vanilla” masturbation is slowly but surely not doing it for me anymore. I crave this thing in my sexual life so bad. So any tips from my fellow subs would be greatly appreciated. I know it

Using sex to build emotional intimacy

I’m 28F and have previously only had sex with guys I’ve been in relationships with or been dating more long term so we would have the conversation to make it official soon after we had sex. I’ve been dating for a while now and there was one guy who I would text with everyday since our first date and we had good conversations but he felt very emotionally cold so the most I got from him were the hugs I initiated at the start and end that felt forced from him. Date 3 we had more to drink so I got 1 kiss from him and then I ended up back at his place for mediocre sex. Since then we’ve barely texted at all so I can assume that we’re done. I feel weird about it because I’ve never hooked up with someone I knew that little and would never see again. Just feeling down on myself that I could be so desperate for affection that I thought having sex with him would make him open up more. Not sure why I’m posting. To vent? To hear similar stories? Reassurance? Either way I just feel lame for havin

M20 virgin ask me anything

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I love watching men masterbate over me

I am a 20 something year old female. I am in a loving relationship and have great boyfriend. Our sex life is still alive but it’s now mainly missionary etc. I know he watches porn and I have no issue. However, I go on web cams and masterbate in front of men who jerk off for me. This is the only way I can orgasm, I absolutely love seeing them turned on by me. My issue is I feel extremely guilt after it, like I’ve almost cheated on my boyfriend in a way. Is what I’m doing wrong? Submitted February 09, 2020 at 12:03AM I am a 20 something year old female. I am in a loving relationship and have great boyfriend. Our sex life is still alive but it’s now mainly missionary etc. I know he watches porn and I have no issue. However, I go on web cams and masterbate in front of men who jerk off for me. This is the only way I can orgasm, I absolutely love seeing them turned on by me. My issue is I feel extremely guilt after it, like I’ve almost cheated on my boyfriend in a way. Is what I’m doi

was i sexually abused?

hi i don’t know where to post this really so i’m hoping this sub is ok. this is a long read i’m really sorry i just need to get this out of me. last night this guy from one of my classes came over and i was already hesitant because i wasn’t sure if i like him or not and i didn’t know if we had chemistry- i’m not really one to hook up so i wasn’t really planning/wanting sex, and all day at work and school i was anxious about it. i left work with the mindset that i wasn’t going to have him over/go out but my mom (unintentionally) made me feel bad about being introverted and she said it could be fun and i would never know if i would have a good time if i didn’t have him over so i basically said fuck it, texted him and said he could come over. i did say “we don’t have to go balls to the wall or anything but i can let you see a boobie” so it might be my fault for making him think i wanted everything but i was trying to be lighthearted and fun i don’t know. so he comes over (it’s like 12a

Sex is great until.....

I hate people to knock on my door when they KNOW I'M FUCKING 😤😤😤 Submitted February 09, 2020 at 12:07AM I hate people to knock on my door when they KNOW I'M FUCKING 😤😤😤

So I recently got tested and results said I had HSV type 1

Doctor put in the note “No further action.” I have also looked into it and apparently over 60% of people have it. So in regards to just not being sexually active if I ever get a cold sore (I have never had one) what do I need to do or should do in general and in regards to starting new relationships. Submitted February 09, 2020 at 12:09AM Doctor put in the note “No further action.” I have also looked into it and apparently over 60% of people have it. So in regards to just not being sexually active if I ever get a cold sore (I have never had one) what do I need to do or should do in general and in regards to starting new relationships.

Boyfriend said “I feel u” when I expressed a concern then changed subject

Me and my SO has a long distant relationship so we rely a lot on FaceTime and texting in all aspects, sexual and non sexual As much as I love sending videos photos and FaceTime masturbate together it’s a bit problematic I start to feel like he sometimes he is disinterested and distant in a conversation until I get sexual. And that I need to send photos and videos to get his attention sometimes. I told him about how I felt and he just answered “I feel u” and changed subject What should I do? In general we are good I don’t want to end things, I’m just lost of actions becasue I reached out and didn’t really get anything out of it Submitted February 09, 2020 at 12:10AM Me and my SO has a long distant relationship so we rely a lot on FaceTime and texting in all aspects, sexual and non sexualAs much as I love sending videos photos and FaceTime masturbate together it’s a bit problematicI start to feel like he sometimes he is disinterested and distant in a conversation until I get se

The pussy - in my experience...

Here is my particular point of view on eating pussy. I have a wonderful lover and it took about 6 months to train him how to eat my pussy. I think that most men believe that just flicking the clit with their tongue is all you have to do. No, it’s not. Now flicking the clit as fast as you can with your tongue is great and all, and it will make most women orgasm, but I’ve spoken to a few girlfriends and I can say that a lot of men are eating pussy wrong. First off women have labia major (outer lips) and labia minor (inner lips). Let us focus on the labia major. You know how you guys like getting your dick sucked and the feeling of a woman’s lips rubbing up and down your shaft? Well women (me and my friends) absolutely love our labia major being sucked and kissed and lightly nibbled. In fact the whole outter area of the pussy is a stimulus plethora. Kissing and lightly touching up through the inner thigh will make us giggle and turn us on. Lightly sucking on the labia major and occasion