He is 26, I'm 25, and I met him on Hinge last month and June 10th, to be exact; we messaged each other every day for eight days until he suggested we go out for dinner on June 18th, 2022. We went out for dinner and drinks, and at first, he was very talkative in person. Still, he seemed super nervous, but we managed to have a good conversation flow. Ever since, he has texted me about twice every week, Monday and & Thursday or, at times, Wednesday and Friday, and often asks me to go on a date with him on Saturdays. When he texts me, he asks me about my day and how my week is going, shares pictures of his home decor, and texts me during the holiday weekend when he is at his family's cabin to check in on my day. I also initiate some check-ins, but he has taken the initiative regarding texting twice a week. That said, in his text, he calls me beautiful, he is flirty, and so forth; now, in person, I'm meeting a very awkward guy that seems a bit nervous and tends to forget...

Were you like traumatized or something when you were exposed to porn or did you just find it uninteresting? July 26, 2022 at 12:46AM

Few days back i (32 year old black female) wrote i think 3 posts here on reddit which i later deleted coz i stumbled on new info. Anyway these posts were about this hot erratic man (30 year old white male) who i met a few months back and who was constantly disappearing on me and flat out told me that i am not his type only for him to re-surface and flirt with me (even show signs of jealousy when i went on a date with a different guy. A 35 year old white male) It was hard for me to understand him or what he wanted especially because i had expressed my interest and at some point i even felt that maybe he could just be some racist asshole or maybe he has a wife or something. Something felt wrong! We stuck to just having fun (NO SEX!) Just weed and drinking. Going out dancing, eating etc. (Which were all my treats coz he has no money) But there was always this distance he kept and my gut always picked a weird vibe from him. Anyway long story short: 1.Clothed him at some point 2.Offered...

I recently met this guy and we talked on the phone and FaceTimed a couple times in like a week. He just moved to my neighborhood and keeps asking me to hang out. He suggested a walk or just grab a coffee. Today I ask him if he wants to get together and he said yes. He said “pasta night?” Since I talked about how I love to cook and eat pasta. I said sure and asked where we were going. He said he wanted me to make the pasta homemade since I talked about it. I asked if we could go out since I worked and didn’t get groceries. He said no, he wasn’t ready to take me out to dinner like that but would gladly come over and eat my food. Wtf? I said no I wouldn’t invite a man I’ve never hung out with over to my place and cook for him and he said that was rude and we haven’t spoke. Is this the 1950s? Am I crazy for telling him no? I thought go out casually, hit a fancy dinner date. He took it the wrong way but wants me to make home a homemade meal on my dime? How am I in the wrong in his eyes??...

Long story short, I was seeing a girl for a while. We hooked up for about a month and I was the first person she was seeing in some time. We both rushed into sharing our past relationship issues/trauma and got pretty attached.. then back to back Saturday’s I got emotional when opening up about our parents/past partners infidelity. Got a little jealous the next weekend but apologized immediately. There were no fights/arguments, just me being insecure. I thought everything was fine, she was texting me to see me and come to my area (I live 30 minutes away). I was unavailable and then things ended two days later. I was overly stoic and kind of was just like “okay, sounds good bye 👋” when she said she’d love to stay friends b/c timing might be right later on. I just assumed she was letting me down easy but her friend confirmed that was not the case. I was thinking about reaching out for the first time in two months: “I did want to stay friends and I’m sorry if it came off like I didn’t...

She has the look of stabbing me through the screen July 25, 2022 at 11:22PM