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/u/marzipaninjapan on I stumbled upon r/deadbedrooms and I am so disgusted...

THANK YOU. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Exactly. February 11, 2021 at 12:05AM

/u/Miraculous-Lover-16 on Look what I found at Aldi

Your valentines day gift to yourself right there. 🙃 February 11, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/livvfox on Look what I found at Aldi

Can someone explain the garlic bread thing? I’m new here February 11, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/vulpes_axiom on Curious, I know most prople will be democratic but to what degree?

Biden Is not my president.......... I'm Chilean February 11, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/MarDanvers on Unfortunate downside to being ace

I think that's very personal and something to talk in therapy. But I mean, does it really matter why we are asexual? I have trauma from my childhood, yes, but who doesn't? Am I dramatic? Maybe, who cares? It does not changes my feelings and I can't always control them. Haven't I met the right person yet? Well why worry about it now then? If it happens, happens. We don't have to lie about how we feel right now just because maybe it will change in the future. We can never truly say that we know everything about ourselves, right? We never know about the future because everything changes all the time, even ourselves, but we know what we feel today and that's the important thing Remember, asexuality it's not black or white. It's an spectrum, it can change. We don't stop being asexual just because suddenly we feel sexual attraction for one particular person o for one particular moment. Also it probably has something to do with the fact that asexuali

/u/WoodpeckerSpecial188 on I stumbled upon r/deadbedrooms and I am so disgusted...

YES someone said it!! It makes me so wary of any “normal” relationship because it’s like, if that person would leave you for not having s*x with them, there is no way they really love you. It’s messed up. February 10, 2021 at 11:59PM

/u/mutterliebhaber69 on Curious, I know most prople will be democratic but to what degree?

BERNIE!!! February 10, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/DylBurrows_ on Look what I found at Aldi

Fuck it looks like I'm making an aldi trip this weekend February 10, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/ramenbrat on My ace character i designed for a comic I’m working on

dope February 10, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/MEsyas on Asexuality in the UK

So wait, you have to ask for equality? That doesn't really sound right to me. If the Parliament chooses to not accept/treat people as equal, they're not? How about everyone is equal until they're considered a threat or something? February 10, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/Bennyboi456 on I stumbled upon r/deadbedrooms and I am so disgusted...

I'm tempted to tell them to get some real problems even if it gets me banned February 10, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/EleventyTwo-- on QUIT CALLING ME "SEXY" "BEAUTIFUL" "HOT" ECT!!!

I'm personally fine with "beautiful", as it's not inherently sexual, but if you think I'm "sexy" or "hot", then keep it to yourself. I don't want to know when someone is sexually attracted to me. They should know if they hit on me, it's a hard decline, an enemy-zone, and a brisk escape in that order. February 10, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/AHauntingAlternative on I'm new to this lol, just realized/accepted I'm asexual 2 days ago, but I have a question

Stereotypically yes, asexuals are portrayed this way, but just like allosexuals, we are all different and experience emotion differently. There could be a number of reasons you are less emotional that have absolutely nothing to do with asexuality. If your emotion/lack thereof is a serious issue for you, you could look into speaking to a therapist about it, but if it works for you and doesn't cause you any distress or problems there's no reason to worry about it. (For example I usually feel numb or angry but thats due to severe clinical depression) Some people have higher or lower EQs than others. EQ - Emotional Intelligence - according to Wiki "is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and adjust emotions to adapt to environments." Lots of people are more logic than feeling and that's totally norma

/u/Alone_Entertainer626 on I stumbled upon r/deadbedrooms and I am so disgusted...

did anyone else think that r/deadbedrooms was going to be about bedrooms of loved ones that have died because that’s legit what I thought this post would be about February 10, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/TheCactusGaming on Saw this and got a c e v i b e s

No unfortunately, my friend sent it to me via Discord February 10, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/GeoxorAddict on I get this often so pretty relatable lmao

*morphs into a deck of cards* -Lyric February 10, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/kiddabean16 on This is so wholesome

I’m sorry but can we get the WHOLESOME ALERT !!! February 10, 2021 at 11:38PM

/u/AHauntingAlternative on Hypocrisy at it's FINEST

I am indeed a dramatic loner...who is also aroace 😜 ~Seperate Things~ February 10, 2021 at 11:37PM

/u/AceOfManyYears on Where did anyone who has one buy an ace ring?

Etsy, eBay, and Amazon February 10, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/TheWarLoad on Unfortunate downside to being ace

Yeah i sometimes forget that im ace and start thinking that im not. I just have to remind myself. No i am 100% ace, nothing will change that. Thats why i have my ace and aro rings. A physical reminder of who i am February 10, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/WoodpeckerSpecial188 on Hypocrisy at it's FINEST

Upvote if you’re a dramatic loner!!! February 10, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/JustARandomPinkBOT on Quick poll- what kind of relationship are/were you in or looking for?

I'm a sex repulsed ace so sex is a no go for me so a QPR without or a romantic relationship without it is my preference. February 10, 2021 at 11:31PM

/u/Oncetw on Asking a question for my friend

I'm still new to all this too, but i know that he can be both. If he feels attracted to man, but not not in a sexual way, he might be homoromantic (gay). However, he can also feel sexually attracted to men since asexuality is a spectrum, it's not just to people who lack sexual attraction, sometimes it can be just low, making him Gray-asexual or he can also be demisexual. There are a lot of different types of attraction like romantic, aesthetic, sensual, etc., getting to know these will help him understand better what he feels. February 10, 2021 at 11:31PM