So, I met a nice lady on Match about one month ago. We messaged for the first week or so, then decided to meet in person. Communication is a bit of a challenge, as English is her second language, so we try to muddle through with the help of Translate, lol. She was fairly guarded at the start of our first date, then by the end, had warmed considerably, and we ended the date with a hug. We discovered many common interests and beliefs. I noticed that she would often find a reason to touch my arm or shoulder as we walked. I reciprocated, of course. Good sign, right? As such, we made plans to meet again the next week. By the end of this date, I felt that we were starting to like each other (well, perhaps me, more than her). We had dinner, after which her best friend 'coincidentally' happened to drop by the restaurant while in the neighbourhood. She was a very nice person, we had a pleasant chat, and I bought dinner for the three of us. I seemed to meet the friend's approval, ...

Me (31m) and 29f have gone out a couple times. I really like her and she says she likes me, and she says she wants to meet up again soon.. ​ But we almost never have a back and forth conversation in text. Instead she will respond maybe twice a day, spaced many hours apart. And it's usually with like 3 side conversations going at once. It's very hard to sort out. The only time we had an back and forth conversation via text is a night she was out with a friend drinking. Thing is we can talk non stop for hours in person. ​ Every other girl I've "successfully" dated there has been more discussion via text. Can't tell if it's a lack of interest, or she just doesn't text like that often. I understand people get busy, and I'm probably over thinking, but I'm wondering what everyone else experiences with their text patterns. I hate text games but it's hard not to analyze what it means early on. She texted me earlier today that she would be watc...

The effort I have to put forth to even try and get people to recognize that I'm alive and human isn't worth the results I get from it. I'm giving up on life, sex, relationships, people in general really. I don't see any point in trying anymore. Submitted September 10, 2021 at 01:13AM The effort I have to put forth to even try and get people to recognize that I'm alive and human isn't worth the results I get from it. I'm giving up on life, sex, relationships, people in general really. I don't see any point in trying anymore.

I have never been in a relationship or hooked up before and Im about to be 27. Most women I did go on dates with walked all over me, lied to me, and made me their back up guy. The woman I cared about the most ended up dating a guy I trusted and considered a friend for a few years and it destroyed any confidence or hope I could ever have. Its been a few years since then and I havent been on a date in a couple of years. She was someone I thought it would work out with and she was attractive but there were a lot of red flags and she would go back and forth with wanting to keep seeing me but never saying why. I will never be good enough for her, or be half the guy he is,or ever have their experiences, or ever be with someone like her. My life is all downhill from here, I can never have a real relationship, fun, experiences, or get to date around. Dating apps never worked for me, I cant meet women at all, I never got to have the college experience, never got to date attractive women and n...

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I don't remember for sure, but probably from a book on the human body. That's how I learned about intercourse. September 10, 2021 at 12:34AM

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What was your best anal experience? I remember my first positive anal experience. He warmed me up with tons of lube and beads, then a dildo that was smaller then him, then he stuck in the tip and then I craved his whole cock inside. As he was pumping his cock was so hard. He surprised me with the vibrator on my clit. OMG it was seconds after I exploded. Tell me your favorite experience. Submitted September 10, 2021 at 12:39AM What was your best anal experience?I remember my first positive anal experience. He warmed me up with tons of lube and beads, then a dildo that was smaller then him, then he stuck in the tip and then I craved his whole cock inside. As he was pumping his cock was so hard. He surprised me with the vibrator on my clit. OMG it was seconds after I exploded. Tell me your favorite experience.

Up till now I’ve been relying on my IUD for birth control but with the new law I’m considering bringing condoms back into the mix. I assume I’m not the only one making a change now? Submitted September 10, 2021 at 12:42AM Up till now I’ve been relying on my IUD for birth control but with the new law I’m considering bringing condoms back into the mix. I assume I’m not the only one making a change now?

As someone who hasn't been sexually active/watched porn in about 7 years it's surprising to hear a lot about eating ass lately, especially in jokes about millennials. I don't recall any partners or friends ever being into that at all and it was even rare to see it in porn back then. Submitted September 10, 2021 at 12:42AM As someone who hasn't been sexually active/watched porn in about 7 years it's surprising to hear a lot about eating ass lately, especially in jokes about millennials. I don't recall any partners or friends ever being into that at all and it was even rare to see it in porn back then.

I [20M] have been dating my GF [20F] for a little over a year. She is the second person I have been with, but her history is a bit more extensive. Recently, I have been feeling weird about having sex with my girlfriend, and as a result, I wanted to come here and see what others' opinions might be. However, before I get started with that it is probably best for me to discuss a bit of background. Growing up, I was taught that premarital sex is a sin and that it is something that one should wait till marriage to explore. Although I stopped practicing religion as I grew older, I sometimes feel as though sex is a taboo topic and that what I was taught when I was younger has warped my view of sex in a negative way. Part of me wishes that I had waited till marriage, but another part of me doesn't. That being said, sex feels like a complicated topic for me. I also suffer from often having intrusive thoughts where certain thoughts can come into my mind and I struggle to let them go. ...

When we were still new and a little less experienced with sex, he was a lot gentler and slower with foreplay. He’d cuddled me, talk to me, kiss me, and basically gave foreplay for foreplay, which I never complained about. We do have a “routine” for sex because it’s what works, it’s what prepares me for actual penetration and before now it’s never been an issue. Normally I will orgasm through clitoral stimulation, and then we would have penetrative sex. Obviously we would change it up sometimes, but he knew if he came first, it’d be game over. He knew that wasn’t fair for me. We also know I can orgasm through penetration. It’s not nearly as enjoyable as it is through clitoral stimulation, sometimes it takes a lot of concentration and sometimes I end up cramping afterwards, which makes sex painful or just leas enjoyable. It’s easy for him to do it through penetration, so obviously if he had to pick, he would choose to do that over what I want. Sometimes I just know I won’t be able to...

I've met the nicest guy. Like the nicest guy. We're having the best dates and I really like him. My friends are telling me it's different, I can feel it's different. I have anxiety. I'm actively working on it with a psychologist, meditation, healthy lifestyle etc. It's starting to ruin this lovely experience. I'm finishing dates with such a feeling of fear and dread that I'll never hear from him again. With absolutely no reason to think so. Any tips on how to just enjoy this experience and not let past experiences ruin this? Submitted September 09, 2021 at 11:44PM I've met the nicest guy. Like the nicest guy. We're having the best dates and I really like him. My friends are telling me it's different, I can feel it's different.I have anxiety. I'm actively working on it with a psychologist, meditation, healthy lifestyle etc.It's starting to ruin this lovely experience. I'm finishing dates with such a feeling of fear an...

I went on two dates with this girl from college last year (prior to the pandemic) but we called it off as she wasn’t interested in a relationship at the time. She made contact again about two months ago, looking to catch up. We agreed to start going on dates and see where it goes. We went on two dates, both went great. She rejected a kiss on the second date as she wanted to take things slow. I went abroad for two weeks so haven’t seen her in about a month at this stage. We had planned to meet earlier this week but she cancelled as she ran into issues with her landlord. I’ve been trying to organise a new time with her, but have been finding it increasingly difficult to get interaction/discussion going. Ever since she made contact with me I have been leading/initiating conversation, aside from once or twice when I hadn’t text her in a few days and she text me. The issue is the mixed signals. One day she is incredibly interested, seriously flirty and wanting to meet up, but the next sh...

i’m 19, am I a freak or is this normal? Submitted September 09, 2021 at 11:45PM i’m 19, am I a freak or is this normal?

I have been seeing a 32M for a little over a month now. We met on Hinge, and we have actively been talking literally every single day since the end of July. I love his consistency, effort and communication, deepness of conversations and how all of the dating rules when it comes to texting/communication go out the window and there are no games involved with this - or are they? We have gone on 3 dates and everytime I go out he always makes it a point to ask if im going to be talking to other guys etc (while he makes it come off like a joke, I dont think hes joking). Nonetheless, the attention and everything has been there and he even told me he likes me and can see this potentially going somewhere, and I agreed that the feeling was mutual. However, yesterday we went out and I complimented him on one of his photos. Today, oddly enough I went to check the app randomly and noticed that he had moved the photo to his primary photo. This really threw me off. While I understand that we are n...

I'm looking for advice on how to meet women in real life. This online dating shit sucks ass. I'm finishing up a divorce met my wife online so never doing that again. Any advice would be appreciated Submitted September 09, 2021 at 11:51PM I'm looking for advice on how to meet women in real life. This online dating shit sucks ass. I'm finishing up a divorce met my wife online so never doing that again. Any advice would be appreciated

hey guys, i’m 19 and I feel like i’m destined to be alone. I’ve only been in 1 relationship and it was short (only about 5 months long) anyways I feel so down and unmotivated. Like it’s been drilled in my head by my friends and other men that a woman will never “love me for me” and that love is conditional. Like being “nice” and “good” is what has failed me. Then I act manipulative and like an asshole and it works. The only problem is I hate that mindset but I’m so scared that being myself will only fail me. It sucks that God gives us these desires for a wife and family, but modern society has failed us. Will I be alone forever? Submitted September 09, 2021 at 11:56PM hey guys, i’m 19 and I feel like i’m destined to be alone. I’ve only been in 1 relationship and it was short (only about 5 months long) anyways I feel so down and unmotivated. Like it’s been drilled in my head by my friends and other men that a woman will never “love me for me” and that love is conditional. Like be...