Girl takes a long time to respond to texts. Normal or something to think about?

Me (31m) and 29f have gone out a couple times. I really like her and she says she likes me, and she says she wants to meet up again soon..

But we almost never have a back and forth conversation in text. Instead she will respond maybe twice a day, spaced many hours apart. And it's usually with like 3 side conversations going at once. It's very hard to sort out. The only time we had an back and forth conversation via text is a night she was out with a friend drinking. Thing is we can talk non stop for hours in person.

Every other girl I've "successfully" dated there has been more discussion via text. Can't tell if it's a lack of interest, or she just doesn't text like that often. I understand people get busy, and I'm probably over thinking, but I'm wondering what everyone else experiences with their text patterns. I hate text games but it's hard not to analyze what it means early on. She texted me earlier today that she would be watching the football game, and I texted her back around kickoff. I'm surprised she hasn't responded yet.



Submitted September 10, 2021 at 01:12AM

Me (31m) and 29f have gone out a couple times. I really like her and she says she likes me, and she says she wants to meet up again soon..​But we almost never have a back and forth conversation in text. Instead she will respond maybe twice a day, spaced many hours apart. And it's usually with like 3 side conversations going at once. It's very hard to sort out. The only time we had an back and forth conversation via text is a night she was out with a friend drinking. Thing is we can talk non stop for hours in person.​Every other girl I've "successfully" dated there has been more discussion via text. Can't tell if it's a lack of interest, or she just doesn't text like that often. I understand people get busy, and I'm probably over thinking, but I'm wondering what everyone else experiences with their text patterns. I hate text games but it's hard not to analyze what it means early on. She texted me earlier today that she would be watching the football game, and I texted her back around kickoff. I'm surprised she hasn't responded yet.

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