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/u/Creative-Solution on Are you guys content with being asexual?

I may not relate, but wow that accidental pouring out of your heart to a stranger is such a mood😂 Honestly that sounds so bothersome! The coin edge is the perfect metaphor lol. Good luck out there :D December 04, 2021 at 12:09AM

/u/potathoe17 on The logo of this sub looks like a pair of boobs

i second that December 03, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/Minipeachiegirl on I did it myself! What do you think?

It looks great! December 03, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/SaltEfan on I'm not sure what I am anymore

The whole “you’ll find the one” stuff is just something people say because they either don’t understand asexuality or they don’t understand what you’re experiencing (nobody but you can truly do). The idea of a core family is so ingrained into society that people kinda just set this as a goal for themselves and others without much critical thought to it. If that’s what you want, then great. If not, that’s also perfectly fine. Sexuality and romantic attraction is complicated, and it’s perfectly okay to be questioning your own experiences and feelings. (I’d argue that it’s healthy in many cases) As for whether or not you’re doing this for attention, let me ask you this. How often do you talk about this, and how much do you emphasize this aspect about yourself in social situations or social media? December 03, 2021 at 11:34PM

Introducing (MMF) threesome into a relationship

I have been with my soon to be wife for 5 years now. We have discussed 3 somes in the past. She lacks confidences. She is a smoke show but doesn’t believe she is. Any luck in using 2 males in a threesome to introduce her to multiple partners? Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:37AM I have been with my soon to be wife for 5 years now. We have discussed 3 somes in the past. She lacks confidences. She is a smoke show but doesn’t believe she is. Any luck in using 2 males in a threesome to introduce her to multiple partners?

Coping with Los Angeles, California consent laws and abstinence

California’s age of consent is 18 years old with no close in age exemptions. I just turned 18, and am resident of Los Angeles. Our consent laws are brutally inflexible in this state. My girlfriend, a minor under the age of consent, and I, find ourselves really connected. I constantly hear about my friends at school having sex regularly despite the risk of the legal consequences. Even worse, California’s laws are setup in a way that often places forgiveness if both partners are minors but can inflict severe charges if one is an adult. I really like my girlfriend and am more than willing to wait things out until it is legal. However, it is very overwhelming and frustrating to feel this way with my hormones raging, my friends engaging in intercourse in a regular basis, and the realization the laws are much more relaxed in other states. Coping with unwanted abstinence is really tough. Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:40AM California’s age of consent is 18 years old with no close ...

I’ve (20F) been getting more attention lately

So I’ve (20F) always been out of shape. Not ugly, but there were some things I wanted to improve on. I finally stayed consistent in the gym, followed a specific diet plan for my goals, took better care of my skin, and most importantly my head space feels peaceful asf Overall, I feel confident and not to toot my horn, I think I look good? Lol, my friends have been telling me that I’m starting to “glow up” and with this confidence, I’ve been going out more and posting myself more (not explicit in the public, just regular full body pics). On socials and in public, I’ve noticed a way more increased wave of attention from guys and I lowkey love it haha. It feels fun to reel in a guy that I find cute, to feel confident in myself again. I feel like I got my sex appeal back and people are feeling it too. I love it here lol. I love posting myself in cute outfits and just being myself! Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:52AM So I’ve (20F) always been out of shape. Not ugly, but there wer...

Is dating someone with a lower libido worth it?

Had a recent discussion about this with a few friends. What do you guys think? i’ve heard many older people say you shouldn’t waste your young adult life with someone who isn’t on the same libido level as yourself. Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:55AM Had a recent discussion about this with a few friends. What do you guys think? i’ve heard many older people say you shouldn’t waste your young adult life with someone who isn’t on the same libido level as yourself.

Why do partners squeeze boobs during sex?

So I’m just wondering why, whether it’s a guy or a girl, squeezes their partners boobs. Like whenever I’m receiving oral the guy I’m with always reaches up to squeeze or rub my breasts. I love getting my boobs touched, rubbed and squeezed. But I’m curious why exactly it’s so appealing for people. Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:57AM So I’m just wondering why, whether it’s a guy or a girl, squeezes their partners boobs. Like whenever I’m receiving oral the guy I’m with always reaches up to squeeze or rub my breasts. I love getting my boobs touched, rubbed and squeezed. But I’m curious why exactly it’s so appealing for people.

What to message a girl that I’ve barely talked over 2 years ago to before to break the ice?

In February of 2020, I (23m) was studying abroad in Australia and met this girl who also was studying abroad from Norway. I ran into her several times there and she always came straight up to me and said hi while being flirty. I was in a relationship back then so I never pursued it. All of our conversations were very brief and never more than a few words. COVID sent us both home in March and I haven’t talked to her since. I find her very attractive and would love to start talking to her to see if it leads anywhere. I have her snap but I can’t think of anything to say to make it not awkward and strange since it’s been nearly 2 years. I also don’t know how straight forward I should be about romantic interests since I’m in the US so it’s a large distance away. I’m considering going to grad school in Norway so I’ve thought of messaging her to ask some questions about Norway. Any help? Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:02AM In February of 2020, I (23m) was studying abroad in Australi...

Should I just cut contact?

So I’ve (m26) been on about 7 dates with this girl (f23) over the last 2 months. She has recently become distant with texting and even cancelling our last date. She says she’s been dealing with some burnout and having a busy schedule. But when she does text, about 2-3 texts a day, it has a lot of effort and asking about my day and how I am. Should I bring up my concern, just cut contact or keep in contact but just keep her on the back burner? Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:03AM So I’ve (m26) been on about 7 dates with this girl (f23) over the last 2 months. She has recently become distant with texting and even cancelling our last date. She says she’s been dealing with some burnout and having a busy schedule. But when she does text, about 2-3 texts a day, it has a lot of effort and asking about my day and how I am. Should I bring up my concern, just cut contact or keep in contact but just keep her on the back burner?

After reading a bunch of these post I asked out my classmate on the last day of school

I said something along the lines of Hey name I've been meaning to ask you but are you busy this weekend would you want to do something And she said she I don't have any free time since I live with a special needs person who has the mental capacity of a 4 year old She kept explaining while we walked to our cars. So all in all she had a legit excuse and at least I did it. I'm going to try to approach someone this weekend if I see an opportunity wish me luck Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:04AM I said something along the lines ofHey name I've been meaning to ask you but are you busy this weekend would you want to do somethingAnd she said she I don't have any free time since I live with a special needs person who has the mental capacity of a 4 year oldShe kept explaining while we walked to our cars. So all in all she had a legit excuse and at least I did it. I'm going to try to approach someone this weekend if I see an opportunity wish me luck

Is this a creeper thing to do?

(M19)Is it creepy to add a girl's social media that they had on a dating app profile if you didn't match? Submitted December 04, 2021 at 12:04AM (M19)Is it creepy to add a girl's social media that they had on a dating app profile if you didn't match?

Introvert 23M seeking help as to talk to a girl I like and make her laugh.

Hello I am 23M .I like this girl 23F. A little back story:We were from the same school and have been friends for around 7 years now. We used to like each other but at different timelines when the other used to not and it never worked out for us. and eventually we stopped talking due to such differences. Current scenario: We recently started talking again. Just talking. This time it's different than earlier years. For the first time we have past that phase where we used to have nothing to talk about. Now we everyday have different topics to share. We both have great new jobs now and are about to move to a same city. It is a great new opportunities for both of us. She got a little excited to know that we were moving to the same city (maybe because she doesn't want to be alone in a new city. ). She is a good conversationalist and talks a lot and I don't have any problem with this cuz I'm an introvert and i like listening to her. I'm not so funny nor am I attractive ....

/u/Jeb-CC on The logo of this sub looks like a pair of boobs

Yep. Their profile checks the boxes. December 03, 2021 at 11:22PM

/u/AlligatorDreamy on I wish we had a thing like this

I've heard some commentary on how existing social networks could provide this functionality: allowing anyone to opt out of "mature content" (e.g. Instagram doesn't permit outright erotic content, but there's some 'borderline' mature content that they do allow that's invisible to anyone under 18...but only if you're under 18. There needs to be a way to block mature content for every single user.) clearly define what content is and isn't allowed. This is tricky, because some people will disagree on what content is romantic vs sexual, but a clear line HAS to be drawn. robust reporting system, because no matter how well you write your rules, people are going to break them because they think they're special. This hits home for me; I moderate a small, niche subreddit on another account, and even though sexual content is explicitly forbidden (and could only be seen as being relevant to the topic at a big stretch), every week we get someone w...

/u/memester230 on Anyone else have this ace experience growing up?

Yea i cant see it so I dont care about it. If I do see it you better start running. December 03, 2021 at 11:20PM

/u/SuperRoby on Kinda give me asexual vibes

Ok but her stancr changes times during the ride, she's first shown to be on her elbows but that would be extremely uncomfortable for both WHYYY In fact, at the very end she's on her hands, not her elbows December 03, 2021 at 11:16PM

/u/Slayyton on The logo of this sub looks like a pair of boobs

Honestly the pic should be of garlic bread December 03, 2021 at 11:15PM

/u/hennofspades on The logo of this sub looks like a pair of boobs

If anything it looks like a clove of garlic. December 03, 2021 at 11:11PM