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12+ hours to get a text back?

Is it okay for someone you’re in the “talking” stage with to not answer for 12+ hours? For context, this is our second time trying dating. They admit they have trouble communicating but I asked them to put in more effort. I don’t want to overreact and push them away but I feel like this is ridiculous. If I was on their mind, they would text right? Submitted April 24, 2023 at 02:10AM Is it okay for someone you’re in the “talking” stage with to not answer for 12+ hours? For context, this is our second time trying dating. They admit they have trouble communicating but I asked them to put in more effort. I don’t want to overreact and push them away but I feel like this is ridiculous. If I was on their mind, they would text right?

How to handle catching feelings so quickly…

A couple of weeks ago I (M23) ran into an old friend at one of the bars. It was her and her sister’s 21st birthday. Her sister used to date one of my buddies a few years ago and that’s how we met. Her and I talked and flirted a little bit back then. One of my friends wanted me to ask her out and make a move, bc he thought she liked me. I couldn’t tell, as basically every time we were around each other we were drinking. That same friend also liked her, and they became pretty close but I don’t think she felt the same way about him. They’re still close to this day. I hadn’t seen her in almost two years, since her sister and my friend broke up. We would text each other randomly but super infrequently, just teasing each other and bantering. Only a few times per year. After I saw her at the bar, we reconnected, and she texted me later in the week about hanging out sometime. Her and I had never spent time by ourselves. On Friday night, her sister dropped her off at my apartment to have s...

/u/twitch727 on so what is a sexual fantasy / fantasies? I don't think I've ever had any?

Same, though mine just tend to be replays of events I’ve experienced on the rare occasion they happen. Can figure out who it is by other context clues in the dream, but their face is fuzzy and it’s almost like I’m watching from outside of my own body. Not really erotic to me or anything, just kind of a ‘yea, that was a fun time’ sort of thing. April 23, 2023 at 11:28PM

/u/Cautious_Ad_1814 on In my 30s still confused

I’m F42 and have been confused and struggling myself. I think I am grey-a. I’m willing to chat some. I was also brought up conservative. April 23, 2023 at 11:08PM

Advice

Hey everyone, I need advice, so there’s this girl I’ve known Since elementary school, she’s really attractive and I wanted to ask for her number and maybe ask her on a date. We are friends on Snapchat. What would be the best way to go about this? I have severe anxiety at first when it comes to this type of thing. Submitted April 24, 2023 at 12:16AM Hey everyone,I need advice, so there’s this girl I’ve known Since elementary school, she’s really attractive and I wanted to ask for her number and maybe ask her on a date. We are friends on Snapchat. What would be the best way to go about this? I have severe anxiety at first when it comes to this type of thing.