Do you get attracted only after bonding with someone? You could say you're a sex averse demisexual in that case. If you don't need a bond to be attracted, you could say sex averse greysexual. Or you could just say you're aegosexual or just an ace. Honestly whatever feels most comfortable for you. Unless you have a reaction of disgust or extreme discomfort about sex, averse is the label for aces like you who just aren't sex favorable. Repulsed doesn't mean the same thing. Edit: also as for asking if it's normal or not, that question won't really get you anywhere. Asexuality has so much variation, and something being rare just comes with the territory. I am a demisexual who's not sure yet if they actually want to have sex bc my attraction is so rare that I have trouble adjusting to it when it happens. I'm also sex repulsed otherwise, but am only repulsed by sex if someone gets sexual towards me or hits on me. I haven’t met another ace quite like me ...