I’m ace and my partner isn’t. Currently he’s not sure about his sexuality, but I do know that he enjoys sex. The thing for us is that while sex is enjoyable for him, it’s not a necessity and he could go without it, and I’m willing to have sex even though I’m sex repulsed to please him. We’re both perfectly happy where we’re at. <3 June 24, 2022 at 12:30AM

​ Hey guys, my girlfriend and I, well..ex, lasted for 13 months. Our relationship was not perfect, and not the "fairest" in hindsight, but it was one of the best things that ever happened to me. For a guy who was really insecure ever since I was kid because of my appearance and personality, after going through a revamp, I finally got one! She made me feel loved, appreciated and "enough". For a guy who always had trouble making close friends, she filled that void. Having your partner be your best friend is one of the best things in the world. I was, and still am so grateful for her, that I vowed to never lie to her, and I never did. We've always had rough patches, the root being my inability to meet up with her. This was a big deal for her cause quality time together was her love language and I just couldn't be there for her due to the pandemic and my dad being an overbearing megalomaniac (a story for another day). She broke up with me several times but t...

I have no problem with my boyfriend having friends. The only issue I have is that I've never met them. He's met all of mine, everyone I've ever met and he knows everything we do together. But when I ask "When can I meet your friends?" The answer is always "Soon" or "I don't want you to be pulled into drama." It's a very strange answer. I thought nothing of it at first, but my intrusive thoughts are getting the best of me. I don't know if it's normal to feel this way, or if I should try harder to ignore it. Something about it feels off. How can I sit him down and talk about this? I trust him, but this one just makes me uncomfortable. Submitted June 24, 2022 at 12:01AM I have no problem with my boyfriend having friends. The only issue I have is that I've never met them. He's met all of mine, everyone I've ever met and he knows everything we do together. But when I ask "When can I meet your friends?" T...

I'm Attracted to a beautiful girl not just physically. I love her personality and she has a lot of the same shared interests as me. I get the greatest feeling everytime I talk to her. I've known her for a couple of months now and I have actually had many good chats with her through messages. But the problem is that she never starts a conversation even if we always have really enjoyable talks for hours. I have invited her to hangout twice already and she came up with an excuse each time. But I also know that she has strict parents, could that explain why she seems so distant despite our great late night talks? Does she like me back or this all just one sided? Submitted June 24, 2022 at 12:11AM I'm Attracted to a beautiful girl not just physically. I love her personality and she has a lot of the same shared interests as me. I get the greatest feeling everytime I talk to her. I've known her for a couple of months now and I have actually had many good chats with her ...

I liked this girl for a while, she’s very sweet and beautiful. We’d talk a fair bit in person at school sophomore year before covid, and I always felt we had some nice similarities. Now as seniors, I still find her attractive but we just never got around to talking as much, but we had an actual conversation at a prom after party and she said to me I had “a very alluring personality” and that she “could tell there was more than I let on” because I’m typically very sarcastic/cracking jokes in school and never quite somber. We both seemed happy talk to each other and personally that was one of the best compliments I’ve received. However, I just don’t think I have enough time before college, and I honestly don’t know if I’m reading into it too much. I was slightly drunk and as was she, so I just don’t really know how to navigate this because I don’t want to harm her impression of me regardless of if we date or not for misinterpreting her compliment. I know she at least likes me but showin...

we sit and talk a bit in college after class tho we're not really close how do i respond ? This is pretty much my first time going on a date with someone as an adult haha Submitted June 24, 2022 at 12:14AM we sit and talk a bit in college after class tho we're not really close how do i respond ? This is pretty much my first time going on a date with someone as an adult haha

Oh now I'm confused haha. Asexual just means that there's no sexual attraction to the person, but...some can still enjoy sex. Such as sex positive asexuals. And they can still experience a romantic desire/attraction. So if someone was asexual but had no preference for what sexual parts someone had. Then they could still be pansexual, wouldn't they? June 23, 2022 at 11:44PM