I (24F) matched with a guy (34-36M: don’t want to give out his exact age) (for the purpose of this post we’ll call him Chris) on Bumble on February 17th; remember the exact day because it was my friends birthday. The day we matched I was in NJ (I live on Long Island, Chris lives in one of the NYC boroughs). So I probably wouldn’t have ever matched with him if I wasn’t in NJ or NYC since we live 2 ish hours apart. We had really good conversation on Bumble, and the same day we matched he talked to me the whole 2 hour trip home from NJ. He even said how his birthday was the following week, and that “God sent this Long Island girl to him for his birthday.” After that conversation we continued texting and calling each other. We made plans to meet but he canceled 2 hours before because he had a tough day at work. We continued talking but didn’t make plans because he was moving apartments. I eventually let the conversation fizzle out because I felt that I was putting in too much effort. Even